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PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1649 posts
2/17/2021 3:06 am
"Do what you love" Sage advice?

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A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
2/17/2021 3:21 am

The path from assistant personnel manager to owner of a dance studio was a long and winding one!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
2/17/2021 6:41 am

    Quoting  :

ET, glad yo hear your daughter is now in a job that is working out well for her. I had never heard of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs, but it sure makes a lot of sense!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


MrsJoe 76F
17396 posts
2/17/2021 6:41 am

It's great to be able to do what you love, but also important to love what you do..... in other words, whatever you do, do it to the best of your ability. There is a satisfaction in doing a job well that really helps, even if it's not your "dream" job.
I wanted to be a nurse. When my first husband and I got married, I was in training, but I didn't want to be a new wife and mother, and be in school, so I quit. I thought I would go back in a year or two.
It turned out to be 13 years, several babies, and a few part time jobs later before I made it, but I never stopped working towards that goal. Each job I had met a need (as ET said) and I learned a lot along the way about people and work ethics that helped me to be the kind of nurse I wanted to be.
It's good to keep the goal to reach that job, but sometimes people also find their idea of what they wanted when they were young might change.


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
2/17/2021 6:46 am

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I know what you mean. It's a sorry state of affairs when baiting is praised as amusing. There are a lot of blogs on here that I've stopped reading because of their tendency to be inflammatory.

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
2/17/2021 7:04 am

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    It's great to be able to do what you love, but also important to love what you do..... in other words, whatever you do, do it to the best of your ability. There is a satisfaction in doing a job well that really helps, even if it's not your "dream" job.
    I wanted to be a nurse. When my first husband and I got married, I was in training, but I didn't want to be a new wife and mother, and be in school, so I quit. I thought I would go back in a year or two.
    It turned out to be 13 years, several babies, and a few part time jobs later before I made it, but I never stopped working towards that goal. Each job I had met a need (as ET said) and I learned a lot along the way about people and work ethics that helped me to be the kind of nurse I wanted to be.
    It's good to keep the goal to reach that job, but sometimes people also find their idea of what they wanted when they were young might change.
Mrsjoe, great observation that the jobs along the way can help shape a person's goal. It sounds like everything worked out really well for you!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
2/17/2021 8:42 am

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My minor is in psychology too!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


shuel2002 65F
5537 posts
2/17/2021 3:34 pm

I wanted to be a social worker but unfortunately my mother knew of one that got hooked on drugs so she was against it. I loved computers so got my business degree in computers and became a computer programmer but that didn't work out. Long story. So i went the practical route and got an accounting degree and designation. I have had the worst timing ever so that didn't work out either. I found accounting didn't let me be creative the way computer programming did. I did other remote sales jobs that i did well but each one had an issue like pay changed to less than minimum wage and one job they eliminated our group. So, I ended up being a phone sex operator (sorry if that offends you) and erotica author. I have enjoyed both.

Basically I am saying that being practical does not always work out but bills do need to get paid so one should try it first.

Elaine Shuel


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
2/17/2021 3:49 pm

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It's a good feeling to be so happy with how your life is going that you'd do it all over again!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


Maudie1 74F
8151 posts
2/17/2021 4:33 pm

Do what you do to the best of your ability and if you love what you do that's a real bonus.

Pearls, interesting blog, and great comment from Mrsjoe


Shartaun03 81F
6199 posts
2/17/2021 9:12 pm

I didn't go to University but I went to a technical school. My oldest sister was 30 when she decided to go into nurses training. She went to a college in West Virginia to pick up what courses she needed to take nurses training. When she went back to Canada after finishing nurses training she had to write a test to get her license in Canada. I always admired her for doing that. So you are never too old.


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
2/18/2021 12:05 am

    Quoting shuel2002:
    I wanted to be a social worker but unfortunately my mother knew of one that got hooked on drugs so she was against it. I loved computers so got my business degree in computers and became a computer programmer but that didn't work out. Long story. So i went the practical route and got an accounting degree and designation. I have had the worst timing ever so that didn't work out either. I found accounting didn't let me be creative the way computer programming did. I did other remote sales jobs that i did well but each one had an issue like pay changed to less than minimum wage and one job they eliminated our group. So, I ended up being a phone sex operator (sorry if that offends you) and erotica author. I have enjoyed both.

    Basically I am saying that being practical does not always work out but bills do need to get paid so one should try it first.
Elaine, I got to the part of your post where you explained that while involved in accounting you found that you missed the creativity you felt while in computer programming. And I totally expected your next sentence to be something about reverting to work in IT but with a creative spin such as developing websites. When I continued reading I'll admit I was surprised (but not offended at all!). I'm glad you were able to find a career that you're happy with!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
2/18/2021 12:10 am

    Quoting Maudie1:
    Do what you do to the best of your ability and if you love what you do that's a real bonus.

    Pearls, interesting blog, and great comment from Mrsjoe
I agree, Maudie. There is satisfaction in knowing you're doing your very best.

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
2/18/2021 12:14 am

    Quoting Shartaun03:
    I didn't go to University but I went to a technical school. My oldest sister was 30 when she decided to go into nurses training. She went to a college in West Virginia to pick up what courses she needed to take nurses training. When she went back to Canada after finishing nurses training she had to write a test to get her license in Canada. I always admired her for doing that. So you are never too old.
I agree, Shartaun. My career change to dance didn't happen until I was 35, and it took a decade of training after that to really settle into it as a comfortable occupation. It really never is too late!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!