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PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1649 posts
3/1/2021 1:03 pm
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A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
3/1/2021 1:08 pm

I was born in Massachusetts but lived in other states for about 30 years. Feels great to be back in Massachusetts!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


MrsJoe 76F
17394 posts
3/1/2021 3:05 pm

I've been several places that I've thought it would be nice to live, but I can not even imagine making a move from where I am. I was born about 30 miles from here and grew up about 20 miles away. My first husband was from about 20 miles in the other direction and we lived there for a short time before moving to this area. I've lived on this same land since 1973 and raised our family here, and several of them live within 15 miles. You might say my feet grow into this ground, I know my heart sure does. I wouldn't even want to move into one of the small towns around us.

Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


Abelle2 83F
31228 posts
3/1/2021 4:54 pm

I am originally from a small town in central Illinois. We moved to California when I was 15 and my brother was 13. I have lived in northern and southern California, Washington State for 6 months as the ship my girl's Dad was on was in dry dock there undergoing repair and update. I lived in Ohio for 5 years when he was stationed there. I Iived in Indiana for 30 years until I met Alfie on SFF and moved to Georgia. Now I am settled in for the rest of our years.........


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
3/1/2021 5:35 pm

I'm married to this place.....I was very traumatized by being uprooted from my home in Norway as a 10 year old......I felt like I had been kidnapped by my parents. I remember yelling at them, threatening to go to the Police...Leaving the land was hard enough, leaving the language was heartbreaking, but leaving the people that I loved so dearly was like having my heart ripped to shreds.

I came to love this coast.....I bought an old aluminum skiff and 35hp. outboard with baby-sitting money when I was 14......It was my ticket to freedom......I fell in love with this wild coast and that hasn't changed....This is now my home and I have no desire to be anywhere else.


Koffla 68M
12263 posts
3/1/2021 7:20 pm



Maui is my favorite island! Visited twice in 2004, almost relocated there.

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MrsJoe 76F
17394 posts
3/1/2021 9:34 pm

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    I'm married to this place.....I was very traumatized by being uprooted from my home in Norway as a 10 year old......I felt like I had been kidnapped by my parents. I remember yelling at them, threatening to go to the Police...Leaving the land was hard enough, leaving the language was heartbreaking, but leaving the people that I loved so dearly was like having my heart ripped to shreds.

    I came to love this coast.....I bought an old aluminum skiff and 35hp. outboard with baby-sitting money when I was 14......It was my ticket to freedom......I fell in love with this wild coast and that hasn't changed....This is now my home and I have no desire to be anywhere else.
I never had to move away when I was a child and neither did my husband. Once our children started school and made friends, when we needed to move because his job (that included our house) ended, we chose to stay in the same area because of the children. We thought it would be traumatic to be uprooted, although it wouldn't be to a different country and language like you experienced.

Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


MrsJoe 76F
17394 posts
3/1/2021 9:39 pm

Pearls, I've thought about this more today, and there is one place I think I would enjoy living, IF money were absolutely no object. IF we could afford it, and the hired help we would need, I would take Joe back to his mother's home of Ischia, Italy. I know it's just a pipe dream, and I've not really considered the logistics of such a move, but he speaks so glowingly of it, although he has never been there. Three of his siblings have, and they also speak highly of it and from all the pictures, it looks like a place of peace to live out one's final years.

Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


Shartaun03 81F
6198 posts
3/1/2021 11:02 pm

I have traveled in Europe in a number of countries a number of the states and also most of Canada. Back in the mid 70's I thought that Hawaii would be a place to live. But now I don't think that anymore. I move to the coast in the mid 70's and I know now this will be the last place I will live. It has the right climate and hey people pay to come here and visit. I traveled to the Oregon coast a number of times and even though that is one of my favorite places to visit I wouldn't live there.


Maudie1 74F
8151 posts
3/2/2021 12:36 am

I was born in the south of Ireland in a place called Co. Wexford, in a remote country area. I left home age 15 to work in Dublin, which I hated in the beginning, but grew to love over the years.

When we were newly weds my husband and I were thinking of moving to Australia , it never happened though. I guess we just didn't want to live so far away from our family and friends.

I'm happy to say we we did get to visit Sydney Australia for a holiday of a life time. We both loved it. We visited Melbourne the following year, loved it too, beautiful city. We had a trip booked to Perth in 2020, sadly that never happened.


looklook 84M
3925 posts
3/2/2021 4:58 am

"At day's end, like the hush of dew
Comes evening. A hawk wipes the scent of sunlight from its wings.
When earth's colors fade and some pale design is sketched,
Then glimmering fireflies paint in the story.
All birds come home, all rivers, all of life's tasks finished.
Only darkness remains, as I sit there face to face with Banalata Sen".


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
3/2/2021 6:52 am

    Quoting  :

ET, I'm glad to know you're comfortable with where you are. And I understand about not wanting change. Moving is so stressful. I moved so many times in my 20s and 30s that a friend told me she was switching from pen to pencil in her address book listing for me! lol Now I'm where I want to be and I'm happy.

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
3/2/2021 6:55 am

    Quoting Abelle2:
    I am originally from a small town in central Illinois. We moved to California when I was 15 and my brother was 13. I have lived in northern and southern California, Washington State for 6 months as the ship my girl's Dad was on was in dry dock there undergoing repair and update. I lived in Ohio for 5 years when he was stationed there. I Iived in Indiana for 30 years until I met Alfie on SFF and moved to Georgia. Now I am settled in for the rest of our years.........
It's nice that you got to experience the Midwest and the West Coast, Abelle. Even better that you feel happy and settled in Georgia!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
3/2/2021 6:57 am

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    I'm married to this place.....I was very traumatized by being uprooted from my home in Norway as a 10 year old......I felt like I had been kidnapped by my parents. I remember yelling at them, threatening to go to the Police...Leaving the land was hard enough, leaving the language was heartbreaking, but leaving the people that I loved so dearly was like having my heart ripped to shreds.

    I came to love this coast.....I bought an old aluminum skiff and 35hp. outboard with baby-sitting money when I was 14......It was my ticket to freedom......I fell in love with this wild coast and that hasn't changed....This is now my home and I have no desire to be anywhere else.
Sorry for your early experiences, Sparkle, but it's nice that you feel settled and happy now.

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
3/2/2021 6:58 am

    Quoting Koffla:


    Maui is my favorite island! Visited twice in 2004, almost relocated there.

    [image]




I can see the appeal of Maui, Koffla!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
3/2/2021 7:02 am

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    Pearls, I've thought about this more today, and there is one place I think I would enjoy living, IF money were absolutely no object. IF we could afford it, and the hired help we would need, I would take Joe back to his mother's home of Ischia, Italy. I know it's just a pipe dream, and I've not really considered the logistics of such a move, but he speaks so glowingly of it, although he has never been there. Three of his siblings have, and they also speak highly of it and from all the pictures, it looks like a place of peace to live out one's final years.
Ischia sounds like it must be a very nice place, MrsJoe. And I found it very moving that Joe's feelings figured so highly in your thoughts. Sounds like you two have a beautiful relationship!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
3/2/2021 7:06 am

    Quoting Shartaun03:
    I have traveled in Europe in a number of countries a number of the states and also most of Canada. Back in the mid 70's I thought that Hawaii would be a place to live. But now I don't think that anymore. I move to the coast in the mid 70's and I know now this will be the last place I will live. It has the right climate and hey people pay to come here and visit. I traveled to the Oregon coast a number of times and even though that is one of my favorite places to visit I wouldn't live there.
Glad to know you've found a place where you're happy, Shartaun. And it's great that you got to travel to so many other places to compare it to and know you've made the right choice.

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
3/2/2021 7:08 am

    Quoting Maudie1:
    I was born in the south of Ireland in a place called Co. Wexford, in a remote country area. I left home age 15 to work in Dublin, which I hated in the beginning, but grew to love over the years.

    When we were newly weds my husband and I were thinking of moving to Australia , it never happened though. I guess we just didn't want to live so far away from our family and friends.

    I'm happy to say we we did get to visit Sydney Australia for a holiday of a life time. We both loved it. We visited Melbourne the following year, loved it too, beautiful city. We had a trip booked to Perth in 2020, sadly that never happened.
Maudi, I hope when the pandemic is over you'll be able to take that trip to Perth that you've been looking forward to!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
3/2/2021 7:09 am

    Quoting looklook:
    "At day's end, like the hush of dew
    Comes evening. A hawk wipes the scent of sunlight from its wings.
    When earth's colors fade and some pale design is sketched,
    Then glimmering fireflies paint in the story.
    All birds come home, all rivers, all of life's tasks finished.
    Only darkness remains, as I sit there face to face with Banalata Sen".

I read a translation of the poem, looklook. It's very nice. Maybe you're thinking of Natore, the home of the woman in the poem, as your favorite place?

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


myseek1 80F
1376 posts
3/2/2021 7:47 am

I saw and lived in many places on 3 continents, and most of them had their special beauty....... At this time, Europe, the way it used to be, attracts me most. I am comfortable, where I am now, but I have not decided yet, where my "forever home" will be.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, what you do are in harmony - M. Gandhi


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
3/2/2021 8:08 am

    Quoting myseek1:
    I saw and lived in many places on 3 continents, and most of them had their special beauty....... At this time, Europe, the way it used to be, attracts me most. I am comfortable, where I am now, but I have not decided yet, where my "forever home" will be.
Myseek, the only part of Europe I've seen is Spain. I remember how beautiful it was and I understand why Europe is of interest to you. In the meantime it's nice that you're comfortable where you are.

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


looklook 84M
3925 posts
3/2/2021 9:51 am

    Quoting PearlsWthMyJeans:
    I read a translation of the poem, looklook. It's very nice. Maybe you're thinking of Natore, the home of the woman in the poem, as your favorite place?
This is the most read poem in Bengali Literature, Pearls. The writer is one of my most favorite Bengali poets whose ancestral home was in the same area of the city where I grew up during the Nineteen Forties, He used to teach English literature in the college from where I was graduated. Unfortunately, I was not one of his students. Natore is located in the northern part of my homeland. It is a beautiful small town. If you are interested to learn more about this Bengali Poet, you may read his literary biography written by Clinton B. Seely who has translated some of his poems into English.


PearlsWthMyJeans 68F
1708 posts
3/2/2021 10:59 am

    Quoting looklook:
    This is the most read poem in Bengali Literature, Pearls. The writer is one of my most favorite Bengali poets whose ancestral home was in the same area of the city where I grew up during the Nineteen Forties, He used to teach English literature in the college from where I was graduated. Unfortunately, I was not one of his students. Natore is located in the northern part of my homeland. It is a beautiful small town. If you are interested to learn more about this Bengali Poet, you may read his literary biography written by Clinton B. Seely who has translated some of his poems into English.
Thanks for the info, looklook. Sounds like an interesting read!

A day without dance is .... just kidding. I have no idea!


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
3/2/2021 11:05 am

    Quoting looklook:
    "At day's end, like the hush of dew
    Comes evening. A hawk wipes the scent of sunlight from its wings.
    When earth's colors fade and some pale design is sketched,
    Then glimmering fireflies paint in the story.
    All birds come home, all rivers, all of life's tasks finished.
    Only darkness remains, as I sit there face to face with Banalata Sen".

Thank you.....love this.....


starwomyn 70F
8872 posts
3/2/2021 12:28 pm

There are plus and minuses for anyplace we live. I try to bloom where I am planted I do like travelling but I am always glad to get back home to West Virginia. I was born and live most of my life in California until we relocated to West Virginia 20 years ago. I cannot imagine ever wanting to live in California again. I could do Northwest (Washington or Oregon) .

Abracadabra


Shartaun03 81F
6198 posts
3/2/2021 12:44 pm

    Quoting looklook:
    "At day's end, like the hush of dew
    Comes evening. A hawk wipes the scent of sunlight from its wings.
    When earth's colors fade and some pale design is sketched,
    Then glimmering fireflies paint in the story.
    All birds come home, all rivers, all of life's tasks finished.
    Only darkness remains, as I sit there face to face with Banalata Sen".

LookLook this is a very nice read. It really relaxes the mind. We all need that during these stressful times during Covid.