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cajunjoe 80M
524 posts
4/18/2021 1:52 pm
SUMMATION OF BEING A "VICTIM"


THIS IS THE DAILY MAIL FROM BILL O'REILLY.

THIS SUMS UP WHAT I HAVE SAID ON HERE FOR MANY TIMS.

U HAVE CHOICES. WALLER IN SELF PITY OR SAY FUK EM I WILL PREVAIL.

WE SEE ON BLOGS THE MIND SET OF A WOE IS ME MENTALITY. ALSO WE SEE IN EACH TOPIC SOME OEN CRYS RACISM.

FACE FACT, LIFE AINT FAIR, SOME DAYS UGET TO BE THE BEAR SOEM DAYS U R BEAR FOOD. LEARN TO DEAL WITH IT. NO ONE LIKES A WHINER

The Victim Pandemic

With the exception of Caucasian males, everybody can be a victim. It’s easy. Just summon up some unpleasantness in your life and assign blame. Use the word “systemic” a lot in formulating your grievances. Make sure you point out that you are expressing “your truth.” And certainly mention that you are speaking “truth to power.”

It is true that real victims are amongst us. The born into a chaotic home, perhaps abandoned or abused by bad parents. Certainly that innocent person has been victimized.

If you are treated unfairly because of skin color or gender, you should be angry. But you have two choices: live your life in the victimization zone. Or say "blank you" and succeed despite the hardship.

If you have been bullied as a or , that is victimization. Again, you have a choice. Fight back in a smart way, or fold and incorporate the ordeal into your persona. “I’m a victim of systemic whatever.”

Being a devoted victim can be comforting because it gives you an excuse to fail. Or not even try. You need a “safe space.” You feel “marginalized” by the “patriarchy.”

Well, everyone gets hammered at some point. And in today’s cupcake society the victim card is being dealt all the time. But it’s a bottom of the deck draw. You won’t accomplish much in life constantly whining about unfairness or bad breaks.

In order to achieve and succeed, you need to be strong and believe in yourself. Not whimper about injustice.

Americans used to be a pretty tough bunch. My parents survived the Great Depression and World War II. They lived very modestly with no personal power but did not see themselves as victims. They knew who the real victims were: the Americans who could not buy a house in Levittown because of their skin color.

That’s largely gone now because some brave folks fought hard for worthy change. They didn’t pout on the sidelines or disrespect the entire country. They mobilized in a strong, peaceful campaign that defeated some ingrained wrongs.

It appears to me that in our society today, victimization is spreading faster than Covid. It’s almost unbearable on many college campuses and cable TV. Every white person is racist, every straight man a woman-hater. No non-white male has a fair shot.

Everything that goes wrong in a person’s life can be blamed on someone else. White supremacy did it. Homophobia caused it. Misogynistic traditions ruined my dreams.

Yeah, okay. Life can be brutally unfair. Again two choices: go get that safe space. Or use your skills to step up and improve things without foolishly demonizing entire groups of people.

Your call.

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cajunjoe 80M

4/18/2021 1:58 pm

THIS SHOULD BE REQUIRED READING TO EACH N EVERY PERSON THAT THINKS LIFE IS UNFAIR. OR THAT WHITEY IS KEEPING US DOWN.

I AM A WHITE MALE. I HAVE WORKED MY ASS OFF SINCE AGE 15 THROWING PAPERS TILL AGE 62 WHEN I RETIRED.

I HAD TO RETIRE CUZ TEH ENVIRONMENT IN THE WORKPLACE WAS TOXIC. BETTER SAID, INFESTED WITH MICROMANAGERS

I NEEVR LOOKED BACK. THE BENEFITS OF RETIREMENT FAR OUT WEIGHT THE STRESS OF THAT JOB... BENEFIT NUMBER 1. SLEEPING TILL 11 AM HAHAHAH

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GodlyWoman73 67F

4/18/2021 3:50 pm

Good For You!!


starwomyn 70F
8876 posts
4/18/2021 6:31 pm

I was asked to make a donation to the Black Transsexuals fund. They've got to be kidding. The more victim groups someone belongs to the more clout they have. Yeah Right! I was bullied because of my hearing disability. My choice was to stay in the puddle and keep whining or rise above the bullies. Condoleezza Rice quotes that Education is the great equalizer.

Abracadabra


cajunjoe 80M

4/18/2021 9:47 pm

    Quoting starwomyn:
    I was asked to make a donation to the Black Transsexuals fund. They've got to be kidding. The more victim groups someone belongs to the more clout they have. Yeah Right! I was bullied because of my hearing disability. My choice was to stay in the puddle and keep whining or rise above the bullies. Condoleezza Rice quotes that Education is the great equalizer.
star iam still dealing with hearing loss stigmas. I am not bullied but it is hard to make others understand i can't hear well when i look perfectly well.. i lost hearing in right ear at 19. i have no memory of hearing correctly

MRS rice is a wise lady. she is shining exampl3e of achieving after living the horrible thing as a child.her classmates were killed in the church bombing. i saw mrs rice speak here. i wish she has run for president. she is better quailfied than any person to be potus

our resident race hustler wallows in the whitey keep us down,. who the fuck is us???

thank you for wisdom

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