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TwilightSpirit 56F
1149 posts
9/30/2022 2:57 pm
Love, Marriage, and Gift Cards


The world has just gone crazy. I am used to the May -December Romance, but now you have to get used to the New Years Day-New Years Eve. I am good, I have no room to talk. I have been known to entertain a few Lion-Tamers. I totally understand the mans point of view when faced with the choice between and elderly woman in a liesure suit or a hot young gal with $200 nails, $180 dollar hair, and a skirt so short you know her grooming habits without asking. It is a no brainer, mostly because it is not their brain they are thinking with in that moment. Women do the same, we hide it better, but its all the same. Bunch of crazy old fools we are.
Let us not pretend any 18 year old marries a ninety plus year old for love. Well, love of assets, perhaps. When marriage involves a will , a trust, a pre nup, and allowence.....well lets just say it loses lustre.
More power to the ones who have some thing real, hang on to that. You may not find it again in today's market.

TwilightSpirit 56F
1243 posts
9/30/2022 2:57 pm

just an observation


StarCandy1 69F
1793 posts
9/30/2022 3:39 pm

I like younger men. Within reason ! As far as marriage ... I'm allergic to it now. It's
amazing what money and a good lawyer can do ! Just to get rid of my pain in the butt ! Not many can deal with my personality. LOL Have been told my taste in men, most likely they end up gay. I live up to my profile.


champiuzat 54M
91 posts
9/30/2022 3:54 pm

women of a certain age have a great asset, communication and men love that, dont get me wrong some men love to think they look 20 at 50 and think they are desirable when theyre not, on an emotional level men are still kids and the fact some of them are allowed to run countries tell you the mess the world is in.

women never age, they become more intelligent and trust me twi some of us appreciate it, you make great mothers, sisters, partners and some of us guys are always looking out for you all, age doesnt matter.


TwilightSpirit replies on 10/1/2022 9:11 pm:
I have never worn a liesure suit . I did take a year off from any sort of dating or relations of all kinds. When I returned, I couldn't do the shallow stuff anymore. I couldn't do anything that did not feel absolutely real.
A friend said something that hit home, "We never find the One we are looking for. We find the One we are." That was insanely thought provoking!

StarCandy1 69F
1793 posts
10/1/2022 9:44 am

Very well put champ ! Almost like wine. Too young might be grape juice, too old might be bitter as he//. And it depends on it someone is a taster or a collector. Taking a taste (of life) of wine at the right time and knowing the glass is half full, is always a good thing. Well being a collector we know what that means !!!!


TwilightSpirit replies on 10/1/2022 10:34 am:
Excellent analogy!