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CarolinaPanther9 62F
662 posts
2/28/2023 7:23 am
Money or true love?

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CarolinaPanther9 62F
393 posts
2/28/2023 7:24 am

Sharing my space with someone doesn't seem like a good time to me.


Rocketship 80F
18567 posts
2/28/2023 8:04 am

Many many more women over 50 who have been married or in relationships are choosing to remain solo after their partner dies or they divorce.

I'm not sure what the statistics are for younger women choosing to live on their own but it seem like there are more & more of them also.

Many women now do not need a man's wallet to enjoy a great life so unless they do meet the 'love of their life' they enjoy a solo life style.


CarolinaPanther9 replies on 2/28/2023 8:17 am:
I totally agree Rocket. The women here who are in their mid to late 70's who are always talking about wanting to meet the love of their lives...I just don't get it. I guess I can't relate.

Archer62 83F
7086 posts
2/28/2023 8:07 am

TIMES ARE VERY HARD AND ALTHOUGH I PREFER TO STAY SINGLE, IF I HAD TO CHOOSE BETWEEN TRUE LOVE AND MONEY, I WOULD CHOOSE MONEY. WITH ZERO HESITATION.


Rocketship 80F
18567 posts
2/28/2023 8:43 am

CarolinaPanther9 replies on 2/28/2023 11:17 am:
I totally agree Rocket. The women here who are in their mid to late 70's who are always talking about wanting to meet the love of their lives...I just don't get it. I guess I can't relate.

**** EXACTLY~~~~


StarCandy1 69F
1796 posts
2/28/2023 9:29 am

I want the best of both worlds !
Been married, divorced now. I paid for it, didn't ask or want his money. I started the divorce because I wanted a life free to marry someone else. Well, that relationship failed as well. Also, have been with users. I worked and paid the bills and fed their lazy asses.
I would love to win the lottery. Still my own money ! As for love...I just want a man that I can trust, to love me like I deserve to be loved ! I don't want their money, I just want their time ! If I can't have both my way.... I am ok with myself !
Did I mention I would love to win the lottery ????? LOL Yes I would keep it all except for who I need to share with.


lilium6 74F
4498 posts
2/28/2023 3:31 pm

Yes, it is a hard one. I've been solo longer than I've been in a relationship. If I was waiting for true love I'd long be dead. I would rather just get on with life/living - it's said you find love when you're not looking/least expect it so perhaps it may yet be on the cards although I'm running out of time with advancing years. Which is ok too, my life is rich enough in many ways.


maudie1957 74F
1262 posts
2/28/2023 11:12 pm

    Quoting Rocketship:
    CarolinaPanther9 replies on 2/28/2023 11:17 am:
    I totally agree Rocket. The women here who are in their mid to late 70's who are always talking about wanting to meet the love of their lives...I just don't get it. I guess I can't relate.

    **** EXACTLY~~~~
I just don't get it either. To each their own I guess.

If I were years younger, it would have to be love for me.

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