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CarolinaPanther9 62F
662 posts
3/9/2023 5:33 am
Do you believe in love at first sight?
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CarolinaPanther9 62F
393 posts
3/9/2023 5:35 am

 I don't know whether I believe in it or not.


Rocketship 80F
18566 posts
3/9/2023 6:08 am

 I believe in 'lust/visual attraction' at first sight....

Whether that 'sight' develops into 'love' usually takes a bit longer.


CarolinaPanther9 replies on 3/9/2023 7:44 am:
I agree Rocket.

StarCandy1 69F
1794 posts
3/9/2023 10:24 am

 I don't believe in love at first sight. I also don't believe in a soulmate (or chemistry). I think love takes a lot of hard work. If 2 people can work <3 to <3 <---(heart to heart) It will work.
A soulmate, I think is what U make it to be. U have to have a soul to become a soulmate. I mean like building blocks, U have to build up to it. (not sure if that makes sense or not). All I know it will have to last from day to day and not dismissed at some whim !


StarCandy1 69F
1794 posts
3/9/2023 10:27 am

 I have a good question .....
What is the first thing that a significant other does to catch your attention?


lilium6 74F
4498 posts
3/9/2023 1:30 pm

 I'm not sure about 'love' at first sight but I think you can be strongly drawn to a person through a 'recognition' of sorts/sense of familiarity, a 'knowing' even if it comes to nothing. It has the quality of being non-sexual. I'm not in the habit of falling in love too quickly/am cautious by nature.


lilium6 74F
4498 posts
3/9/2023 1:31 pm
    Quoting StarCandy1:
    I have a good question .....
    What is the first thing that a significant other does to catch your attention?
Thoughtfulness


StarCandy1 69F
1794 posts
3/9/2023 3:15 pm

 Yes that is a good one lilium ! I'm an action person. I love to see a man open a car door for a woman ! I love all the sweet little things, that cost nothing ! <3


maudie1957 74F
1262 posts
3/9/2023 4:43 pm
    Quoting Rocketship:
    I believe in 'lust/visual attraction' at first sight....

    Whether that 'sight' develops into 'love' usually takes a bit longer.
And I agree too.


Shartaun03 81F
6196 posts
3/9/2023 6:49 pm

 I believe in lust at first sight but not sure about love. I had a great love affair a long time ago and it could have been love at first sight.


Steamboy_2472 64M
410 posts
3/9/2023 7:43 pm

 I would say the lust at first sight is the proper correct answer, don't look at me though 🤣🤣




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