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Star's Lunch Date with The Black Gentleman!!!!!! It was the first time I've ever dated a Black Man but only because a Black Man has never asked me out before. We met at Roma's Italian Restaurant in Louisa. I asked how he fared with his SFF Profile, he said that he would often get one less Star for the Compatibility Rating because of his Race. I told him that this often happens to me when I list Native American as my race. Somehow, the SFF Powers to Be won't let us list more than one race and they don't even require a compatibility Star for religious differences. This is more of an issue for me than Race. I need somebody who can understand and not scoff at my MetaPhysical Magickal Mind. Most Fundamentalist Christian Males don't understand that. In fact they used to burn women like me at the Stake. This is why I am so grateful for the Separation of Church and State. I don't want the Government dictating my Spirituality. We talked about our mutual challenges with Weigh Control Issues. I bought my sister's Fat Jeans on the Bay in September and I can finally get into them this week. My Sister says they were NOT her Fat Jeans. They were her CURVY JEANS that she also bought on the Bay. I'll be selling MY CURVY JEANS by this Summer so maybe I'll pass that Good Luck to another Woman. God knows how many times, they've been sold on the Bay. Restaurants tend to serve rather large serving. He took half of his food home in a doggie bag and I took half of my food home in a Doggie Bag. We talked for over three hours. We talked about Politics. I voted for Hillary in the Primaries but Supported Obama when he won the Primary. What a mess our new President has to contend with. Two Wars and a Recession. We've lost the respect of many other counties because of the way we've treated the Prisoners of War. Personally I think Obama Rocks. I shared that I initially supported Hillary first had nothing to do with Obama's Race. It had to do with his CHRISTIANITY but when I read his writings and how he found his own Spiritul Path, I begin to respect the Man. This is a Leader who will honor my Spiritual Path even if it's different from his. He shared with me an experience when a Theater Employee tried to force him and young to leave the Theater. He told his that they were Staying and eventually the Manager apologized to them. I shared with him about my concepts on Magick. I am a believer in Magick. It's not abracadabra zippity zap - that schmuck is not a Frog. It's affirmation and visualization of a reality that one want to create. He mentioned that there was a couple glaring at us. A couple with different races having lunch together. Big Firetrucking Deal. "Ha Ha! Obama won the Election and Virginia voted him in, Deal with it"" I felt like telling them. As we were leaving the table, I gave him a great big smothering kiss and made sure the two bigots saw it. We left the Resturarnt and before heading to our seperate cars, I gave him an even bigger smothering kiss just because I can. It was a fantastic date with a fantastic Man - Black or Otherwise.  Abracadabra  |
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3/1/2009 9:47 pm |
I have to wonder if we will ever but at least in our lifetime see a time when race just is not an issue Period! Q Man is a Man black or white, A Woman is a Woman Black or white we are all one race..........HUMAN!
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3/2/2009 4:08 am |
Star, I love you You are a tonic. I can feel that long smothering kiss, and the second one. Im almost enjoying it Black or white, makes no difference to me, we're all the same as far as Im concerned. Just watching Hilary Clinton on TV. She doesnt look so good, a bit on the pale side. I know that has nothing to do with your blog but she looks terrible. thanks Star, stay on that programme, YIFS. 
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Great blog Star. I'm sure you look lovely in your curvy jeans. So glad you enjoyed your lunch date, sounds rather good to me   
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3/2/2009 4:49 am |
WTG Star - I'm glad you enjoyed yourself and also that you gave the bigots a show and something to think about...lol Happiness is where we find it, but rarely where we seek it. J. Petit Senn
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3/2/2009 5:21 am |
Hi Star: I'm so happy your date went well. Are you going to meet again? I have dated men from other cultures, and my ex was much younger, so I know all about those ignorant stares and even insults from strangers. Good for you Star. Keep us updated.
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Sounds like a GREAT date...Good for you ...Both!!! Some believe in destiny, some believe in fate. I believe that happiness is something we create
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