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starwomyn 70F
5258 posts
5/20/2009 5:33 am

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Where do these guys from Hades Come From?????????

So this morning - I get this message

You could have been interesting....'till I saw 52 men on your friends list and photos of your ass put there for the world to see. It keeps you from being in a class of your own. Just another typical female on here. Oh well, no foul, no penalty. Good luck to you!



What a Jerk! Anyone who knows me knows that I am anything but Typical. I've been on this site for several years now and have acquired a lot of friend. There are women, couple and yep even men on my Friends List.

There are my blogging buddies and porch buddies in the magazine.

There is MrsJoe and Dandee who I consider Spiritual Advisors.
Where would I have been without MrsJoe when I was dealing with the death of my Brother.

There is PairDreamer and TreasureHunter who are both in the SpiritWorld Now.

My 12 Step Advisor who is now seriously ill is among my list of friends.

I am Libra and Partnership is my Forte - I am not giving up on Love but right now, I'm not looking for it. It's going to have to find me.

I am just going to Build Houses, Great Big Houses, Maybe if I help build somebody else a home, God will grant me one of my own. Life on Life's Terms.

I just revised my Friend's List and took Mr. Joe off my Friend's List. He's Ancient History. I'm moving on.


Abracadabra


bikenski 80M

5/20/2009 10:04 am

You are correct - you should have listened to your inner voice.


Elle7123 87F

5/20/2009 2:08 pm

Star: The person who felt 'license' to make judgments about you - and to write those to you in email IS a candidate for Jerk Of The Year (or rather, of THIS CENTURY and the one before ) hmmmm --- actually, by what he's said and written - he's PROVEN HIMSELF already to wear that non-crown!

Star, as a matter of fact - I'm glad that he has "outed" himself - and that you 'outed' his email to all of us here at sff. Won't need to waste even 0.0002 more seconds on that person!


DustyOldDude 73M
290 posts
5/20/2009 2:36 pm

Reading the advice given you is up to you whether or not you follow it. But I say remain who you are. And change only the things you want to change, as far as the friends on your list goes. On my old handle I had at one time over 100 friends. Most all women. did it mean anything. As far as romance went NO. So I would expect you to have men friends. And as far as the pic goes. Who Cares. I don't. And neither should you.


lavercam2006 64F

5/20/2009 3:06 pm

If he is going to judge you in such a way, he is not worthy of you!


Elle7123 87F

5/20/2009 6:53 pm

A bit more about The Jerk, and what he wrote --- where he definitely 'OUTS' himself / his attitude toward women - I believe the term to describe him is MISOGYNIST!

To those reading this Thread - Read this sentence from his email to Star ... "Just another typical female on here."

Star - he already had whatever mind he might has made up before he wrote that phrase -- safe to say, he believes all females at online dating sites (and those who have 'left him' for his 'tude?) are 'typical'.

'typical' - compared to whom or what?