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starwomyn 70F
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2/4/2021 11:44 am

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uncleremussr , Blog Hogs, and Social Structures.


So why do you write blogs that no one can read. I can easily ignore most of the blog hogs but at least your were interesting to read. I have never considered myself your enemy. I know that CP doesn't like me but big FiretrUCKING deal.

Abracadabra


starwomyn 70F
8872 posts
2/4/2021 12:04 pm



Abracadabra


cayman07 79F

2/4/2021 12:52 pm

Hi Star, I don't think he dislikes you . There are so many fake handles on this site, to include old handles that suddenly reappear. That has caused trust issues. If you look back at old posts these same folks supposedly made 7-8 years ago, their style and personality hast totally changed. The site has become Mystery Dinner Theater. By the way, this is Boogie and I enjoy looking back at your blogs.


MrsJoe 76F
17412 posts
2/4/2021 1:44 pm

    Quoting cayman07:
    Hi Star, I don't think he dislikes you . There are so many fake handles on this site, to include old handles that suddenly reappear. That has caused trust issues. If you look back at old posts these same folks supposedly made 7-8 years ago, their style and personality hast totally changed. The site has become Mystery Dinner Theater. By the way, this is Boogie and I enjoy looking back at your blogs.
Hi Boogie! I wonder if you just might be onto something with some of the bloggers.... Leaf, for instance. He used to write some interesting and thought provoking blogs. He got some hateful, nasty comments on some of them, and according to another SFF member, he left the site. But then he was back, only this time with mostly nasty, hateful blogs. I've often wondered if someone else took over the "Leaf" name and the original person is just gone.
As for Hank, he wrote some great blogs about his antiques and other things, but I do know he is the same person we see here today.
As for that other one, she has exhibited unbalanced behavior from the beginning of her time here and folks that were in another site where she was said she was nasty there too.
As Lulu commented on another blog, "It takes all kinds." .


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


cayman07 79F

2/4/2021 2:08 pm

You are certainly correct Mrs. Joe. In my own way, I like Hank and he doesn't bother me. I think that under that tough extra is a good man. Yes, I remember the blogs that were written before he became Leaf. They were excellent and very popular. He also married a woman from this site and they both supposedly left? I am pretty sure there are numerous fake ID's here. Its better than Entertainment Tonight !


MrsJoe 76F
17412 posts
2/4/2021 2:27 pm

    Quoting cayman07:
    You are certainly correct Mrs. Joe. In my own way, I like Hank and he doesn't bother me. I think that under that tough extra is a good man. Yes, I remember the blogs that were written before he became Leaf. They were excellent and very popular. He also married a woman from this site and they both supposedly left? I am pretty sure there are numerous fake ID's here. Its better than Entertainment Tonight !
Did you mean to say Hank became Leaf? He didn't.
I remember that there was an SFF woman who was a good friend of the original Leaf, but I don't know if they got married. She is the one who told me that he was leaving the site. She left SFF too, and I saw her in face book for awhile, but that was quite some time ago and I can't remember her name.
You are right about Hank though, under that exterior is a good and generous man.


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
2/4/2021 4:52 pm

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    Did you mean to say Hank became Leaf? He didn't.
    I remember that there was an SFF woman who was a good friend of the original Leaf, but I don't know if they got married. She is the one who told me that he was leaving the site. She left SFF too, and I saw her in face book for awhile, but that was quite some time ago and I can't remember her name.
    You are right about Hank though, under that exterior is a good and generous man.


TxJW_35 81M

2/4/2021 7:05 pm

Are you joking or blind? Remus is a drunken outright liar among other things.


TxJW_35 81M

2/4/2021 7:15 pm

Oh I forgot he is not responsible for what he says ALL of the time.
He is a part time good guy and a worthless piece of crap when he calls a woman he does not know a ho or a c_nt.
You ladies must attend a strange church.
But hey I'm only on the outside looking in.
You would give the devil a character reference. LOL


cayman07 79F

2/4/2021 7:25 pm

Mrs. Joe, no Hank is not Leaf and I regret if I worded it that way. They are in no way the same. Yes, she left the site and unfriended many when former President Trump was nominated.


cayman07 79F

2/4/2021 7:31 pm

    Quoting cayman07:
    You are certainly correct Mrs. Joe. In my own way, I like Hank and he doesn't bother me. I think that under that tough extra is a good man. Yes, I remember the blogs that were written before he became Leaf. They were excellent and very popular. He also married a woman from this site and they both supposedly left? I am pretty sure there are numerous fake ID's here. Its better than Entertainment Tonight !
It should have read as follows : under his tough exterior is a good man. Also yes I remember the blogs that were written by the ID that has now become "Leaf". I'm sorry that was a little confusing and my apologies to Hank.


lilium6 74F
4498 posts
2/4/2021 11:16 pm

'under his tough exterior is a good man'

I'm of the same opinion.


Archer62 83F
7102 posts
2/5/2021 9:10 am

HE DOES NOT ALLOW ME TO READ HIS BLOGS. THE LADY FROM ND DOES BUT SHE DOES NOT ALLOW ME TO COMMENT. WHERE DID ALL HER BLOGS GO? THERE WERE THERE AWHILE AGO?


MrsJoe 76F
17412 posts
2/5/2021 5:33 pm

    Quoting Archer62:
    HE DOES NOT ALLOW ME TO READ HIS BLOGS. THE LADY FROM ND DOES BUT SHE DOES NOT ALLOW ME TO COMMENT. WHERE DID ALL HER BLOGS GO? THERE WERE THERE AWHILE AGO?
Archer, they disappear so she can't be held responsible for what she says. It makes no sense to write a blog title and no blog.... or write a blog just to attack someone else.
It reminds me of a child standing outside of a group of other children, shouting at them because of social insecurities and jealousy towards all the others who do play well together.


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
2/5/2021 8:15 pm

    Quoting lilium6:
    'under his tough exterior is a good man'

    I'm of the same opinion.
I'd be interested to know what you base that evaluation on......


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
2/5/2021 8:18 pm

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    Did you mean to say Hank became Leaf? He didn't.
    I remember that there was an SFF woman who was a good friend of the original Leaf, but I don't know if they got married. She is the one who told me that he was leaving the site. She left SFF too, and I saw her in face book for awhile, but that was quite some time ago and I can't remember her name.
    You are right about Hank though, under that exterior is a good and generous man.
A good and generous man? Based on what?....That he's in the same God club as you?......


MrsJoe 76F
17412 posts
2/5/2021 10:01 pm

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    A good and generous man? Based on what?....That he's in the same God club as you?......
No Lulu, not at all. Based on my personal knowledge of him from outside of the blogs.

Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
2/6/2021 11:27 am

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    No Lulu, not at all. Based on my personal knowledge of him from outside of the blogs.
Well, we only know him by his behaviour on this site, where he has been nothing but abusive, obscene and hateful for years...

What I wonder is what your intent is in repeatedly defending him and stating that he is a good and generous person based on your relationship with him outside this venue......Who cares? What matters to us is how he consistently treats us.....our experience.......If you choose to be friends with abusive men, that's your business, but why bring us into it? [/SIZE


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
2/6/2021 11:38 am

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    No Lulu, not at all. Based on my personal knowledge of him from outside of the blogs.
When you keep telling the victims of an abuser that he is actually a good and generous man, it puts the onus of his behaviour on the victims.....You are blaming the people on this site for Hank's asinine behaviour......Because, outside of this venue, he's kind and generous......That's so dysfunctional....


MrsJoe 76F
17412 posts
2/6/2021 1:00 pm

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    When you keep telling the victims of an abuser that he is actually a good and generous man, it puts the onus of his behaviour on the victims.....You are blaming the people on this site for Hank's asinine behaviour......Because, outside of this venue, he's kind and generous......That's so dysfunctional....
Bullony….. the onus of his behavior is totally on him, not on the people of this site. He makes his own decisions to post hateful crap, and people make their decision whether to retaliate or just ignore it.
We never know what has happened in someone's life that causes such drastic change in behavior..... some events can lead to depression and spewing out hateful attacks on others. I just know that under all this crap, is a man that I consider my friend and I love him as such..... but I hate his behavior. And yes, I have told him, so I'm not talking behind his back.


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
2/6/2021 1:28 pm

    Quoting MrsJoe:
    Bullony….. the onus of his behavior is totally on him, not on the people of this site. He makes his own decisions to post hateful crap, and people make their decision whether to retaliate or just ignore it.
    We never know what has happened in someone's life that causes such drastic change in behavior..... some events can lead to depression and spewing out hateful attacks on others. I just know that under all this crap, is a man that I consider my friend and I love him as such..... but I hate his behavior. And yes, I have told him, so I'm not talking behind his back.
Then why do you keep telling us that Hank is a kind and generous person underneath the constant abusive behaviour?......I have asked you this question every time you have made these remarks, but you keep avoiding it......I really can't imagine why you keep telling us this......We all have our histories and our burdens to bear.....What do you think this information is going to change?.....


MrsJoe 76F
17412 posts
2/6/2021 2:20 pm

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    Then why do you keep telling us that Hank is a kind and generous person underneath the constant abusive behaviour?......I have asked you this question every time you have made these remarks, but you keep avoiding it......I really can't imagine why you keep telling us this......We all have our histories and our burdens to bear.....What do you think this information is going to change?.....
I'm not the only one who made positive and kind statements about him, but it is me that you keep questioning. Is that perhaps because we have "known" each other for so long? I sometimes feel we are friends, and other times like you view me as a enemy.
When Hank first started blogging, it was not like this. Then I got to know him outside of the blogs and saw that kind and generous man. But as I said, things happen in our lives that sometimes cause us to change.... and sometimes, it is for the worse. I believe the kind and generous man is still inside there, even though it is hard to see and I hope that man comes forth and stops all this hateful behavior.


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
2/6/2021 6:24 pm

Boogie and Star did say positive things about Hank, but theirs are more hesitant....wondering.......

You, on the other hand have stated unequivocally that Hank IS a kind and generous man under his "rough" exterior......and you have made that statement repeatedly. You label people "friend" or "enemy" as if we are required to be one or the other.....that is not how I see it.....We are individuals who chat about mostly surface things on the internet.....sometimes we understand each other, sometimes we don't. I'm curious and interested in how people think....especially people who have different life-styles than I do...

You still haven't answered my question though.... Why do you feel compelled to tell us that Hank is a kind and generous person?.....What do you want us to do with that information?


MrsJoe 76F
17412 posts
2/6/2021 6:39 pm

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    Boogie and Star did say positive things about Hank, but theirs are more hesitant....wondering.......

    You, on the other hand have stated unequivocally that Hank IS a kind and generous man under his "rough" exterior......and you have made that statement repeatedly. You label people "friend" or "enemy" as if we are required to be one or the other.....that is not how I see it.....We are individuals who chat about mostly surface things on the internet.....sometimes we understand each other, sometimes we don't. I'm curious and interested in how people think....especially people who have different life-styles than I do...

    You still haven't answered my question though.... Why do you feel compelled to tell us that Hank is a kind and generous person?.....What do you want us to do with that information?
You, and everybody else is free to do whatever you want to do with it.
Since much of what is posted in the blogs is opinion any way, I am free to state mine as well as you are free to state yours.
As for the term friend, I used it loosely in this instance, I guess I should have said that occasionally we do understand each other, but mostly not. I enjoy those times that we do, and shrug at those times when we don't. Like this time.


Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


starwomyn 70F
8872 posts
2/7/2021 5:00 am

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    Boogie and Star did say positive things about Hank, but theirs are more hesitant....wondering.......

    You, on the other hand have stated unequivocally that Hank IS a kind and generous man under his "rough" exterior......and you have made that statement repeatedly. You label people "friend" or "enemy" as if we are required to be one or the other.....that is not how I see it.....We are individuals who chat about mostly surface things on the internet.....sometimes we understand each other, sometimes we don't. I'm curious and interested in how people think....especially people who have different life-styles than I do...

    You still haven't answered my question though.... Why do you feel compelled to tell us that Hank is a kind and generous person?.....What do you want us to do with that information?
There are some folks we get to know outside the blogs and others that we don't. I can't really entirely judge a person that I've never met or conversed with outside the blogs based the contents of the blogs. There might be an entirely different person with an entirely different gender behind that blog, There are SFF members that I do know beyond blogland and I know them to be good people. If Mrs. Joe has concluded that Hank is a kind and generous man based on her experiences, I have no reason to question it. I have no idea what motivates CP to hate on me but Hank is a mystery.

Abracadabra


cayman07 79F

2/7/2021 9:26 pm

I think "Sparkle" protests to much !