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starwomyn 70F
5422 posts
5/26/2021 11:06 pm

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Throw Back Thursday - Playing Nice On The SFF Campus

Playing Nice The SFF Campus
Posted:May , 2006 1:01 am
Last Updated:Feb 26, 20 5:31 pm
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Behind every profile is a living breathing human being who deserves be treated with kindness and respect.


Folks this site are dealing with many different challenges that life life's terms can present.


physical and/or emotional pain. loneliness
marriages go south or spouses go the spirit world. Isolation - We need friends cyber or otherwise.

There is always the quest for the "Great Love Connection" which seems exist for a few.


There are Frogs, Frogs, and more Frogs. Individuals who are less than honest about their marital status. Perhaps they don’t want consummate a relationship beyond the webcam.

There are female frogs who want empty a man’s wallet. Meeting for coffee and dating can feel like a job interview.


It takes major league faith move forward and take a chance love again.

Some individuals response life life’s terms by drinking, snorting, popping, inserting mind altering chemicals or perhaps they get their jollies making others the site feel like they are "less than."

Nobody deserves be ridiculed because of different political views, different spiritual beliefs, body sizes and shapes or how well they articulate or spell.

Playing nice is responding comments even with differing opinions respectfully. Personal attacks suck swampwater. Just my not so humble opinion.



Abracadabra


starwomyn 70F
8872 posts
5/26/2021 11:09 pm

We all fall short and miss the mark on occasion. While some struggle with it more than other, the important thing is to try to do better each day.

Abracadabra


Koffla 68M
12325 posts
5/27/2021 12:50 am



You are preaching to the choir. Reality is that in every aspect of our society there are individuals who lead miserable lives. They are unable to play nice and their entire purpose in life is to spread their misery everywhere they go. They are miserable; hence, that's where the site blogs are today.





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MrsJoe 76F
17412 posts
5/27/2021 5:55 am

This is just as true today as it was back then......... and just as then, there are those who just don't care.

Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


Pepita1812 84F
23 posts
5/27/2021 7:33 am

I know most of the ‘old’ members, now I am speaking 12-15 years ago, we have meet personally at several ‘bashes’ around the country, really good times. But in here on the blogs there were the same problems, some people were great and wrote wonderful blogs, others? Well not so much, I remember personally being accused of having an affair with a woman’s husband in another state where I had never been, supposedly he had my phone number in his computer, she discovered after his death...I left this site, now I only come in once in a while, sadly to say not much have changed, still people that that feel the right to hurt and insult other members while hiding behind their computer..


Maudie1 74F
8151 posts
5/27/2021 8:44 am

Respect and kindness is a two way street. No one is perfect that's for sure. We all fall short at times, all we can do is try and do better.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
5/27/2021 10:12 am

Do you really think this blog will have any effect on the 2 miserable creatures who are ruining this site ?........Ignoring them seems to just spur them on.....They obviously live to create misery......


Nileyears 71F
4208 posts
5/27/2021 4:30 pm

I know I have come and gone because I get tired of everyone fighting in the blogs. I have been called names in the past because I see things differently than others. People do have a right to voice their opinions, we still have freedom of speech, but why does it have to get so ugly? Good on you for trying to be the peacemaker here, but as I recall, others have tried and failed to change that here in the past, it's still here and that was being done even before this TBT post.

I have also found some people who disagree with my views very nice people. We find common ground in other areas which is great! There is no need to be hateful, life is too short!


myseek1 80F
1376 posts
5/27/2021 8:43 pm

Those who are chasing the two unreasonable bloggers are not one whit better than the two they want to get out of the way.

Happiness is when what you think, what you say, what you do are in harmony - M. Gandhi


starwomyn 70F
8872 posts
5/27/2021 11:28 pm

    Quoting myseek1:
    Those who are chasing the two unreasonable bloggers are not one whit better than the two they want to get out of the way.
So True - If one or the other would stop, it could change the energy of the entire site, Maybe this is something that they enjoy, so they don't want to do better.

Abracadabra


starwomyn 70F
8872 posts
5/27/2021 11:31 pm

    Quoting  :

Your attacks on me are ridiculous. Grow up.

Abracadabra


lilium6 74F
4498 posts
5/28/2021 4:57 pm

Behind every profile is a living breathing human being who deserves be treated with kindness and respect.

Folks this site are dealing with many different challenges that life on life's terms can present.

Nobody deserves be ridiculed because of different political views, different spiritual beliefs, body sizes and shapes or how well they articulate or spell.

Playing nice is responding to comments even with differing opinions respectfully.

I agree