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marbella3 70F
2483 posts
10/16/2019 5:31 am

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10/17/2019 2:04 am

Finding a Quiet Life

Bible in a Year:

Isaiah 47–49
1 Thessalonians 4
Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life.

1 Thessalonians 4:11

1 Thessalonians 4:9–12
“What do you want to be when you grow up?” We all heard that question as and sometimes even as adults. The question is born in curiosity, and the answer is often heard as an indication of ambition. My answers morphed over the years, starting with a cowboy, then a truck driver, followed by a soldier, and I entered college set on becoming a doctor. However, I can’t recall one time that someone suggested or I consciously considered pursuing “a quiet life.”

Yet that’s exactly what Paul told the Thessalonians. First, he urged them to love one another and all of God’s family even more (1 Thessalonians 4:10). Then he gave them a general admonition that would cover whatever specific plow they put their hand to. “Make it your ambition to lead a quiet life” (v. 11). Now what did Paul mean by that exactly? He clarified: “You should mind your own business and work with your hands” so outsiders respect you and you’re not a burden on anyone (vv. 11–12). We don’t want to discourage from pursuing their giftedness or passions but maybe we could encourage them that whatever they choose to do, they do with a quiet spirit.

Considering the world we live in, the words ambitious and quiet couldn’t seem further apart. But the Scriptures are always relevant, so perhaps we should consider what it might look like to begin living quieter.

Reflect & Pray
How does Paul’s phrase—“mind your own business”—sit with you? Who comes to mind of someone who lives a quiet life that you might emulate?

Jesus, living a quiet life sounds so inviting, but I know it won’t come easily. I ask for the grace to mind my own business, not so I can close myself off from the world, but that I won’t add to the noise.


MrsJoe 76F
17382 posts
10/16/2019 6:01 am

The older I get, the more I desire a quiet life, physically. One without demands on my time, but I find it gets filled with unavoidable appointments, like Drs. But more important is the peacefulness in my spirit. And I love it.
BTW, a little side story. Several years ago, our grand daughter was in a little miss hometown pageant. She was one of the youngest and smallest of the contestants. "What do you want to be when you grow up?" was one of the questions.
There were all kinds of answers, many of them obviously coached because the kids could hardly say them. When they got to our grand daughter and asked that question, she immediately responded, "Bigger." The audience laughed at her innocent answer.
Oh, and she won.


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