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karin.... oh... oh...red flag...
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I would have walked away then and there regardless of where we were at with lunch just to make a point. What a loser. I hear of so many bad stories like this it makes me ill. I could never imagine leaving my late husband Mac's bedside when he was so ill. He's been gone just short of a year and I still cannot imagine spending time with anyone else. I still wear my wedding ring and I will keep wearing it until I feel no need to. That day may never come but thats fine by me. Bruja The wealth of a soul is measured by how much it can feel; its poverty by how little. W. R. Inge
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On this same note, my father told me the most valuable thing he was leaving me was his good name. He hoped I would protect and keep it for my own happiness through life. . The beginning of life, conception..
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OMG Karin, what a shallow and despicable man!! I can just imagine what your response to him was. I know what I would have said!!!
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The pressures and often loneliness some people face with a relative in palliative care are tremendous and sometimes cause them to behave inappropriately and perhaps he has been already feeling like a widower for some time. But, lying about it to someone else....oh man, so wrong.
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8/7/2012 8:49 am |
The pressures and often loneliness some people face with a relative in palliative care are tremendous and sometimes cause them to behave inappropriately and perhaps he has been already feeling like a widower for some time. But, lying about it to someone else....oh man, so wrong. Good move Karin. If he lied from the get go it sounds like a pattern to me. Not much I can add to ET's story other than Wow - Maybe this lady should meet your guy. Spiritwoman ^i^
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8/7/2012 8:54 am |
Horrible stories, seemingly horrible man, yet some people don't seem to think they are doing anything wrong by such behavior. I have had many adult children count their net worth based on what they expected to inherit from their parents, saying things like, "it's unlikely they will be here longer than a year". They truly did not feel their behavior was offensive. The world is a book and those who do not travel read only one page: St. Augustine
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A despicable man, for sure!   Trust in dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.(Khalil Gibran)
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What a "husband" he turned out to be. If his wife only knew....... Another thought...what if she didn't die within a year. However with his scruples, it apparently didn't matter.
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8/10/2012 9:44 am |
The pressures and often loneliness some people face with a relative in palliative care are tremendous and sometimes cause them to behave inappropriately and perhaps he has been already feeling like a widower for some time. But, lying about it to someone else....oh man, so wrong. I can understand the loneliness when a spouse is totally incapacitated, but he shouldn't have put her in the grave prematurely. And karin deserves honesty from the start.
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Karin,excellent advice... Charlotte, you will find all sorts here, believe us!! One never knows the true person, although Karin and I have met quite a few from this site at some events we call 'bashes' where members get together at different locations. Although a bit far for you, there is one coming up the latter part of October in St. Pete's, FL. Welcome and we wish you the very best on this site....
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