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spiritwoman45
22314 posts
11/22/2013 12:22 pm
NSA Relationships


In the past few weeks we have seen more than one individual using blogs to advertize for a NSA (no strings attached relationship), a trendy term for what we old hippies called "free love" AKA unrestricted sex. I tend to respect rather than fault these people. You certainly can't get what you seek if you don't ask and it is best to honest from the beginning to avoid unpleasantness and wasting everyone's time. If one seeks only sex it takes courage to come into this forum and make it known.

Coincidentally (I use this term even though I do not believe there is any such thing as coincidences becasue it is one most understand) the following passage was in one of the interpretations for my daily Tarot lesson.

"Now is the time to contemplate kindness, attention, acceptance, emotional comfort and sustenance. These are all forms of love with no strings attached"

You might say my goal is to take sex out of the love equation and have as many NSA love relationships as I can.


Spiritwoman ^i^


Rocketship 80F
18584 posts
11/22/2013 5:47 pm

I agree with coach.


spiritwoman45

11/22/2013 8:09 pm

    Quoting LeafLight:
    I've given these situations thought, then read about them from a variety of sources and it all loops back to the need for further research. LOL
You'd better to research fast as there are probably 10 men wanting an NSA for every woman. Lots of competition.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

11/22/2013 8:11 pm

    Quoting  :

It does come with age. The younger folks have an entirely different view of these things but unfortunately for the old guys they all want a hot young stud.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

11/22/2013 8:15 pm

    Quoting  :

Nope - my day job involved enough government and politics to last me 5 lifetimes. Definitely not going there on my own time.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

11/22/2013 8:17 pm

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Not necessarily a prude - just different wants and needs.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

11/22/2013 10:15 pm

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So true. My daughters are prudes compared to how I was at their age but your are correct - I have never told them the whole story. They are horrified enough about the me today - and then they don't know half of my activities or life style. Then there is a lot I don't tell anyone other than my sister and best friend.

Spiritwoman ^i^


bijou624

11/23/2013 4:17 am

Hi Spirit: I agree with Jan. When I see men here advertising for sex, it makes my skin crawl. I can't imagine any woman wanting a man like that. The man who wrote the blog looking for a sex partner yesterday deleted all the replies except one.


spiritwoman45

11/23/2013 9:51 am

    Quoting bijou624:
    Hi Spirit: I agree with Jan. When I see men here advertising for sex, it makes my skin crawl. I can't imagine any woman wanting a man like that. The man who wrote the blog looking for a sex partner yesterday deleted all the replies except one.
Sounds like that one was just for the purpose of "shaking up the hen house". We see plenty of those too. Once someone knows a hot button they keep pushing.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

11/23/2013 9:52 am

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Makes life more interesting than sameness if nothing else.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

11/23/2013 9:54 am

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I'll let you in on a secret - most are all talk. Will post another blog about this.

Spiritwoman ^i^


spiritwoman45

11/23/2013 10:40 am

    Quoting LeafLight:
    I think you totally missed the point. Ahhh, when we jump to conclusions the truth always comes out. LOL
And you wonder why I never comment on most of your topics. We're just not from the same solar system.

Spiritwoman ^i^


friendly133 76M
5418 posts
11/23/2013 10:04 pm

Changing times !!

No judgements and we are all still great friends.

Have a wonderful Sunday and the week ahead, SpiritGirl.


"To fight the darkness do not draw your sword, light a candle" - Zarathustra


ltw222 75M
7793 posts
11/24/2013 3:52 pm

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Darn! Am I the only one not a prude?

Sw, your tarot forms of NSA are different but I like them.

Lee


Live today as if it is your last
For tomorrow will soon be in the past


jrh63_ 60M
10 posts
12/27/2013 10:21 am

love and live is all i have to say