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neonlyhts 79F
934 posts
5/2/2011 3:18 pm
At 6:00 PM May 2nd 2011..My Rob passed away.


Just waiting to fill in papers...my heart shattered..can not talk now..bless and thankyou to all my dear friends who have supported me on this journey..he is at peace now.

bare_hunter 81M
265 posts
5/2/2011 5:49 pm

I'm so sorry.


2hot4me2 75F

5/2/2011 5:50 pm

Hon you have so many fantastic memories and photos of the time you had with Rob, it was far too short but some folk never have love in their lives at least you had some xx
There is light at the end of the tunnel love, it takes a while for the fog to clear though, i am sure i speak for all your friends, when i say that we are all here for you, and always in our thoughts xx hugs love xx I am glad it is over, its heartbreaking, but now no more pain, xx love ya xx Gail xx


GLUMO 90F
9749 posts
5/2/2011 5:52 pm

Sorry for you, Erna. Your Rob is now in a beautiful place...No more tears, no more suffering, no more pains...My heart goes out to you.
May God grants you consolation. A big hug.
Lucy



Trust in dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.(Khalil Gibran)


Simpleladyb2 74F
14822 posts
5/2/2011 6:07 pm

I am so sad to hear this news, I am sorry my dear friend.

May he rest in peace! He knows you love him so much.

Warm hugsssssss

Betty


"The only way to have a friend is to be one."


frenchsalsa2 77F
7809 posts
5/2/2011 6:29 pm

We feel deep sorrow for your loss, Erna. Rob is with peace now. Our most sincere and heartfelt condolences. Bless you!


neonlyhts 79F

5/2/2011 6:44 pm

Thankyou so much...I'm home now..try to get a bit of rest. Tomorrow i'll be a the funeral home to make arrangements and I need to call all his friends and family in England. My son is driving up tomorrow to help with all the red tape.

He had a very bad day, a lot of pain..then he becamr calm, I held his hand and his breathing became so shallow and his colour changed..I called the nurse...and yes he was gone..I am so lost right now, but I know it is a blessing for his suffering to end.Thankyou again for supporting us through this long journey..xxx


WillyMakit 70M
2745 posts
5/2/2011 7:22 pm

witchy...take good care of you...hugs...

Any Fool Can Criticize and Complain...and Most Do...


justforfun28 95F

5/2/2011 7:22 pm

My dear Erna, I am so sorry for your loss. Rod is at peace now and nolonger in pain for that my dear you can be thankful. I pray for you in your days ahead. Take care and remember we all love you.

Dolores


sasyshebear1 66F

5/2/2011 7:57 pm

God has called him home and he was lifted on angel wings. HE is not really gone as long as you remember him and all you shared. He is waiting for you in a new place. My heart aches for you as well and I so wish I could reach out and hug you. Your sweet Rob has now ascended to a new plateau and is now traveling on to his next leg of his travels. He will always look down on you with a smile and love in his eyes and be waiting for you to join him. God Bless you dear lady.


Skipper_too 68G

5/2/2011 8:23 pm

I am deeply sorry for your loss. Just know that you have many friends to share this journey with you.


gentleben 83M

5/2/2011 8:24 pm

Requiescat in Pace.

"Life isn't fair, but it beats whatever comes in second." -- Gentleben


neonlyhts 79F

5/2/2011 8:41 pm

Tonight I've been alone...tomorrow, funeral homes and preparations, but tonight I am wrapped in his house coat...still smells of his AXE,
Just looking through our little bits of memories...the dreamcatcher he bought me, to keep away the bad dreams, his little touches everywhere to make my life easier. The pictures...oh the memories, I treasure everyone. Our time was so short but we filled it with love and a lifetime full of memories...Yes I cry, I sometimes feel I can't bear it...but then, he did, with never a complaint and I get strength from him...he may be gone, but will always live in me and in our memories, in the people he touched and those who loved him..I have been blessed to even share this short time with him.

He showed me courage, but most of all, he loved me..and I loved him..so very much..will honour his memory always..Erna


youmissme11 79F

5/2/2011 8:46 pm

Prayers for you


Novotny 75F
342 posts
5/2/2011 8:54 pm

I am so sorry......my prayers are with you.


spiritwoman45

5/2/2011 9:01 pm

My sympathies to you. Grief is a such A difficult process. Glad your son will be with you for support.

Spiritwoman ^i^


FreshEmerald

5/2/2011 9:54 pm

Keep those memories wrapped around you. Like his housecoat -
they will always keep you warm.

My thoughts are with you.
Love,
FE


Bangali10 45M
186 posts
5/3/2011 2:41 am

more bless and thank you neonlyhts
hope you live long long safely.. ok


peggy01171955 69F

5/3/2011 6:12 am

Hugs for you, Ema...take care of yourself....my thoughts and prayers are with you.


LaColorina 66F
1955 posts
5/3/2011 6:23 am

Huge hug amiga Witchy..huge comforting hug...my sincere condolences.


michianaredhead 74F
12642 posts
5/3/2011 6:31 am

Blessings & Hugs to you my friend.....your memories will keep you warm deep inside...

Some believe in destiny, some believe in fate. I believe that happiness is something we create


hobsonschoice 75F
3600 posts
5/3/2011 7:54 am

so sorry for your loss.


Archer62 83F
7129 posts
5/3/2011 8:41 am

So sorry for your loss. You have been very brave and I have to say I admire you for it.


Abelle2 83F
31253 posts
5/3/2011 10:33 am

I was not home last night and just got on SFF a few minutes ago. My heart hurts for you Erna. We are all here for you

One day you will see Rob again.


evergreen1949 75F
81 posts
5/3/2011 10:58 am

My deepest sympathy for your loss.


Lulu99 88F

5/3/2011 11:40 am

My dearest Neon

My heart goes out to you ... words fail me but I will echo all of the above.