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wilfreed 60M
2551 posts
11/19/2011 3:19 am
WOMEN ARE A LOT LESS LIKLY TO FORGIVE


Can you correct me on this subject?? On doing blogs females seem to
be alot less likely to forgive and forget !! maybe it's me ?? or
could it be the age of some of these females ?? My mother would
never talk to me like some of these females !! Lets call this
progress !! How in the world can a few hold in so much hate ??
you will not accept explanations or any kind of forgiveness
what so ever !!

Now we can go another way of looking at how the mostly republican
Lady's look at things.. many i could write down However, you
are so far from reality !! This group of people are so far away from living in the city and am very sadden by your nieve behavior !!
I could talk to people in the berbs and get so much more positive
feedback from them.. of coarse they are still in the city !!

Now we will go in the other direction.. men who i almost always
have no problems with.. they let things go as women hang on to
their hate !! keep hanging on to it [this is only 3 females] so
please note it's not you.. they no who they are!!

My grandmother would be so ashamed of what has happen with you!!

However i'm not the one to judge anyone!! And you all have the
right to express your views like i have !! GOOD DAY !!!



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wilfreed 60M

11/19/2011 5:16 am

    Quoting  :


Ellie, i agree.. i messed up many times and one should
forgive at least and most all will never forget.. mike
why do people hang on to things.. they should at least
tell me why.. thanks


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Bruja 67F
2266 posts
11/19/2011 5:32 am

Wilfreed:

I think most often these particular women have loose lips and talk about problems more in public. Men are more private. I do see many women holding a grudge and can't seem to get past bad relationships.

I see many women not taking responsibility for their choices and seem to place blame elsewhere. It's sad really because they will go through life not realizing forgiveness is the first step in their happiness.

Bruja

The wealth of a soul is measured by how much it can feel; its poverty by how little. W. R. Inge


honeycup12 83F
886 posts
11/19/2011 9:59 am

I think it depends on the person, some men do hold on things that happen in the pass and take it out on women,and there are women that does the same thing. We must forgive each other if we want a healthy relationship, friendship, and etc. If there is a person you can not get along with then try to put a distance between you and them. If you continue to hold on to it only you will suffer.


Abelle2 83F
31246 posts
11/19/2011 11:14 am

I have forgiven so many people, whether they knew it or not. I just try to not remember, or at least the finer details.


bijou624

11/19/2011 11:17 am

Hi Wilfreed: Of course all people are different, but in general I think women can forgive just about anything. Sometimes if you tell them you're sorry to have upset them, they can become your good friend and even a protector in the group. In the past I have been insulted like you would not believe, but sometimes all it takes is to make a nice comment on one of their blogs such as "I agree" or "Good blog" and the whole problem can be over without a big discussion.


wilfreed 60M

11/19/2011 12:15 pm

    Quoting bijou624:
    Hi Wilfreed: Of course all people are different, but in general I think women can forgive just about anything. Sometimes if you tell them you're sorry to have upset them, they can become your good friend and even a protector in the group. In the past I have been insulted like you would not believe, but sometimes all it takes is to make a nice comment on one of their blogs such as "I agree" or "Good blog" and the whole problem can be over without a big discussion.

I'M NOT GOING TO MAKE MORE WAVES, HOWEVER OLDER PEOPLE
SOMETIMES , AND IT'S SO SIMPLE , ALL THEY COULD SAY IS
OK NO PROBLEM.. FOLKS THINK I'M FICKLE !! I'VE DONE
THE SAME THING MANY TIMES !! But when i'm wrong i
apologize !! NOT GOING ANY FARTHER ON THIS SUBJECT !!
THANK YOU !!

IT'S NO BIG DEAL , I WILL TREAT PEOPLE AS THEY TREAT
ME !!


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wilfreed 60M

11/19/2011 12:20 pm

    Quoting bijou624:
    Hi Wilfreed: Of course all people are different, but in general I think women can forgive just about anything. Sometimes if you tell them you're sorry to have upset them, they can become your good friend and even a protector in the group. In the past I have been insulted like you would not believe, but sometimes all it takes is to make a nice comment on one of their blogs such as "I agree" or "Good blog" and the whole problem can be over without a big discussion.

I really like you.. you are so kind on my blogs and such a
nice Lady.. michael


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wilfreed 60M

11/20/2011 9:43 am

    Quoting Bruja:
    Wilfreed:

    I think most often these particular women have loose lips and talk about problems more in public. Men are more private. I do see many women holding a grudge and can't seem to get past bad relationships.

    I see many women not taking responsibility for their choices and seem to place blame elsewhere. It's sad really because they will go through life not realizing forgiveness is the first step in their happiness.

    Bruja

I still can't figure out my ex - wife after 8 years she still
won't talk to me !! oh well, life go's on !!


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wilfreed 60M

11/20/2011 9:55 am

    Quoting  :


Thank you !!


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wilfreed 60M

11/20/2011 9:58 am

    Quoting honeycup12:
    I think it depends on the person, some men do hold on things that happen in the pass and take it out on women,and there are women that does the same thing. We must forgive each other if we want a healthy relationship, friendship, and etc. If there is a person you can not get along with then try to put a distance between you and them. If you continue to hold on to it only you will suffer.

That is so true, so very much true !! THANK YOU !!


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wilfreed 60M

11/20/2011 12:24 pm

    Quoting  :


I'm sorry wanted to respond , however i don't know the meanings
of your 2 - words.. say things in layman terms please !!


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wilfreed 60M

11/20/2011 12:29 pm

    Quoting wilfreed:

    I'm sorry wanted to respond , however i don't know the meanings
    of your 2 - words.. say things in layman terms please !!

i'm not a college student, but will ask how many DB will you lose
on conventional 750 cable at 1000 feet at 30 DB ??


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wilfreed 60M

11/20/2011 12:36 pm

    Quoting  :


Destiny, i know you had problems with cigarettes.. would
you be able to tell me how much you smoked and did it
cause a big harm to you ?? you, i'm only asking !!


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wilfreed 60M

11/20/2011 12:41 pm

    Quoting Abelle2:
    I have forgiven so many people, whether they knew it or not. I just try to not remember, or at least the finer details.

Abelle, thanks, i do mess up and that is my responsibility !!
thank you for your nice words !!


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wilfreed 60M

11/20/2011 4:22 pm


To some this up, i am not perfect and make mistakes..
i do my best and i do not explain things well some
times.. I hope some people can be nice and tell me
when i make mistakes on some things.. although i'm
old enough
to not have anyone help me.. i would never hurt any
females on purpose !! men are different !! to who
ever i messed up the Lady's i thank you for all your
input.. MIKE


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