Blog : Condolences to Moot

932 posts
7/19/2013 6:05 pm

Condolences to Moot

Hi Moot

I heard there are people on here who hate you. Sorry to hear that, but I think you'll appreciate some thoughts I have on the matter of hate.

I'm even more sorry for those who hate you. I don't know who they are, but it has always seemed to me that hating someone is a stupid emotional investment.

If someone hates us, they are the ones constantly feeling tense and upset, and that's a heavy price to pay for someone the haters really shouldn't value much in the first place. They are investing too much of themselves in making us a priority to them, cos let's face it, none of us is worth the effort it takes to hate us.

You and I differ quite often, but I don't hate you, and never have. My life is much easier and happier when I can just agree to disagree with folks when differences come up.

And if anyone hates me, I'm sorry you invest so much of your life in me. I'm really just not worth sacrificing that much of your emotional time and energy in.

GBU Moot and everyone else,

Gavin

Abelle2 83F

31230 posts
7/20/2013 6:45 am

As others have said, why waste time hating someone. Ignore their posts and read what does interest you.

Aren't we SUPPOSED to be adults??? As my Mom used to say, if you can't say something nice then say nothing at all.........

Rentier1

7/20/2013 8:57 am

I don't hate anyone, but there are certainly many I find it difficult to hold in any regard.

But people have every right to be stupid.