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looklook 84M
4578 posts
3/1/2016 9:30 am

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2/15/2020 6:49 am

Not a Backup Plan

To Whom It May Concern:

Could you please recollect that few days back you called him an imperfect creation of God when he asked you to tell him why you always consider him as a standby for someone you like and wish to establish some sort of relationship with that person!

He knows that he is not perfect. He is sure that no one in this world has yet been created as one hundred percent perfect by God for reasons best known to HIM! None of God’s creations could be called perfect. Even the Satan is not perfect! May be, HE did not like to make any of HIS creations perfect for obvious reason! Does it make sense to create a competitor?

Please always remember that the shortcomings of your friend are his assets. He is neither the best in the world nor the worst in the world! He is what he is! He does not claim himself either to be one of the the richest or the smartest person you know. He does not also claim himself as handsome! He is what he is and he feels proud of being so!

Someone from your recent friends may have said you something about being knocked up; and someone may have reminded you to do some thing very funny such as .......! You may, therefore, feel free to do whatever you like to do to satisfy them!

However, always remember that these friends are here for enjoying a joyous season with you: they are not here for a permanent reason!!


It is up to you to decide how to get out of the situation which is your own creation! Because your friend has made it clear to you that he is neither a backup plan nor a second choice.



Chinese Proverb >>>>
"One foot cannot stand on two boats."








looklook 84M
3925 posts
3/1/2016 11:44 am

Hello Fossil.
Thank you so much for the compliment. It is always nice to read from you here. Stay well always and remain cheerful.


looklook 84M
3925 posts
3/2/2016 5:31 am

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Rubi,hello,
Thanks for your post, Rubi. I appreciate. However, the person involved here has finally discovered that the woman is simply using him to pass her time when she finds none to chat either here in the room or any where else! He is not vying for any kind of attention from such a woman. He has also discovered that there were many standbys like him in this woman's life in the past too!!
Thanks again for your visit and also for your comments left on my post! Stay well and happy always ,Rubi.