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Beth1949 75F
3163 posts
3/20/2014 2:21 am

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" MEMORY LANE CAN NEVER FADE AWAY......"


MEMORY LANE IS A POINT OF REFERENCE, A SORT OF CRITERION, A GUIDELINE OR..... CALL IT AN EYE-OPENER. A PERSONAL REVIEW OF ONE'S PAST, A MIRROR IMAGE VISION, REVISITING ASPECTS ONE HAD GONE THROUGH AND A COMMON SHARED PAST.

I took a stroll down memory lane today, not to be saddened by the lost of my people or friends that I have known, but to be grateful for the memories that I had shared with them. I took a stroll down memory lane to recall the great moments; the laughters, the joy, the emotion, the love and also the sad and tough moments of those past periods. Yes, I've taken a stroll down memory lane once more to hear their explicit voices and to vision again their facial expressions: in happiness, in sadness, in anger, in doubts and in mistrust ect ect. I took a stroll down memory lane, I have done it before and will do it again. Sometimes a short walk down memory lane is all it takes to review and analyze our deeds, our behaviours, our endeavours and to compare relatively where we are today.

Memory is the coherence of life, that possesses all our emotions, and ambitions. Without it, our joyous as well as our agonizing experiences of life won’t have any significance to us, whatsoever. If we feel we are missing out sometimes, it may be because we simply forget to consult the past or neglect to think up its ties with the presence. When the shimmer of the past is melting into the presence, spreading a scent of attentiveness and inquiringness, our mind may ask for a new reading of the story of our life. An innocuous flicker from a hazy sequence in our memory lane can affect our current awareness, making us raise questions, throwing new light on our expectations; crafting an airy vision of the future.

People walk down the memory lane to enable them to ponder upon many things: some trivials and/or some consequential actions that resulted either a delightful bliss or a distressful surprise. If we lose our memory, we lose our identity and our identity is the accumulation of our experiences. When we walk down the memory lane, it can be unconsciously, willingly, selectively, impetuously or sometimes grudgingly. By following our stream of consciousness we look for lost time and things of the past. Some reminiscences become anchor points that can take another scope with the wisdom of hindsight. A retrospection of past events and situations, is needed in one's own life. It's an assessment of occurrences, showing why and where one stands presently. Has it generated a delightful bliss or a distressful surprise?.
MEMORY LANE REMINDS US OF THE GOOD AND THE BAD PAST MOMENTS, IT ALSO ALLOWS US TO HAVE A VISION AND A THOUGHT FOR THE FUTURE.
To each his own, however.
Thanks for your read and views.
Lisa.










looklook 84M
3925 posts
3/20/2014 4:09 am

Thanks dear Lisa for the appeal. Kindly keep up the good work.looklook


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
3/20/2014 5:11 am

Looklook,

Very much thanks for you visit on my blog again and for your nice comments as well. Each and everyone and all of us should really make an effort whatever it can be, to protect these innocents children from being Abused.
We should think if it had happened to our own child, how we would feel!!
Thanks for your appreciation too.
Best regards.
Lisa.


1gasilverhead2 83M
4003 posts
3/20/2014 11:54 am

I agree with you lady. I hope all who are caught are placed in the general population with other prisoners who have children.

I would hope their treatment by other prisoners would be passed outside the prison walls for others to know what happens to them during their sentence.

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The beginning of life, conception..


Robyn363 83F
3474 posts
3/20/2014 12:45 pm

I lived with a paedophile for 20 years until I discovered what was happening. They are so conniving and cunning that they can cover their tricks but not forever. i found out and was so ashamed of the fact that I hadnt noticed anything. I confided in the doctor I worked with and he helped me to sort it out. It was painful and sometimes haunts me at night, I find myself all tensed up and I say I hope that bastard goes to Hell, but then, as I did meet him and forgave him for what he did to me, I cant say that. I didnt forgive him for his actions with the children. Thank God they got help and just in time.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
3/20/2014 10:52 pm

Roxy dear,
Thank you again and always for your appreciated visit and comments on my blogs. As I said and will still say that WE should do our best, in whichever way we can to fight Child Abused.
Thank you for your interest too Roxy.
Have a nice day.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
3/21/2014 12:02 am

Hi,Dear Gasi,
Delighted for your noticeable visit and thanks eventually so much for your comments. Yes, these abusers should be punished in public, to give examples to the others. Make them wear a sign of the type of abuse too. Let their abusive pleasure turn into a hell of disgust and shame for them.
Please,kindly join us in preventing "Child Abuse". In unity our force will prevail, for a good cause and it will be certainly very much appreciated.
Than you again for your keen concern.
Warm greetings to you and to all of yours.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
3/21/2014 12:29 am

Robyn363,
Welcome to my blog, am so glad meeting you on here for the first time.
Thank you for your auguat visit and for your comments, great from you to denounce your experience with that pedophile and thanks for your courage too.

You're so right about their hidden and deceitful behavior, of course they know so well how to fool their victims, but what may be hidden for long would certainly be discovered one day or the other. We must not have pity for those monsters who do not have pity for these innocents children and we must not forgive them as such.
By our action joined together, am sure we can do something for these poor kids, to protect them from this kind of disgust.
Robyn, you're warmly welcome at any time, hope to see you again.

My best wishes to you and have a good day.
Lisa.


looklook 84M
3925 posts
7/19/2014 4:50 am

Lisa,please do not turn off your profile so often as being done now a days! I really miss you dear!