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" MY HUSBAND, ME AND OUR ". Being on this site just over 3 years now, I am pleased to give my friends on here, a brief description of my husband and our matrimony. Briefly, my hubby and I, are from two different countries. He was born in Egypt, from a Christian family originated from Italy, a settled generation there, since very long ago. He is a degree holder in: 1)- Mechanical Engineering, 2)-Waste water engineering and 3)- a Master degree in Environmental Engineering from Delf Uni, in Holland. He had left Egypt, in his late 20s, due to religious discrimination and had settled in USA, where he had worked for some well known companies. Thereafter, he was appointed by the UN as a Consultant Engineer with the WHO. We first met in a party, during his official visit in UK. While, I was visiting my uncle there. We got acquainted during a party and it was just a flirt at first sight, I was very young with no marriage intention and I was hesitant too, due to the gap of age between us. We parted at the end of the party. He had left after his mission in UK and I, after sometimes, came back to my country Mauritius, for my work, being a professional French teacher. But fate or destiny wanted us to meet again unexpectedly a year later, when I was appointed by Air France, in Madagascar. Coincidentally, He came there too, on his UN mission. We found each other again suddenly after the church service, but this time, he didn't want to loose me again. After his mission, he came to my country to meet my parents and to fix our marriage which was celebrated 4 months afterwards. This was his first marriage as well as mine. After our one month honeymoon, we had to travel as my hubby had to resume his missions in several other countries, scheduled by the WHO. We've been in lots of countries in Europe, Africa and the USA and Canada. But for his retirement, he had preferred to settle in my country, where we are residing now. Unfortunately, I have had miscarriages a few times before but God has lastly blessed us with a beautiful baby girl. Our is now 22 yrs of age, studying Psycho-Neurology at the university in France. We have had a beautiful, decent life all through. We were fondly in loved with each other. Some years back we had encountered some differences due to his advanced age which has provoked an intense spousal jealousy and possessiveness towards me, though I'd tried but I could hardly support. Our divorce was filled but my husband refused to sign it. Afterwards and for a certain period, we had lived separately, he, in an apartment and me in my house. He couldn't bear it, he felt so detached and desperate and lonely. Parkinson started affecting his hands, eventually, I couldn't let him be on his own totally, so I brought him back home and came to a mutual agreement in sharing our residence, having my own freedom and my own respected life too. Though, he has a private home Doctor and a nurse for his checkup and medical care, we also have a house maid and a gardener but my presence at home is much more worthy than anything else for him. Now, he feels more secured, happy, peaceful and accompanied too. I do my best to help him in my own way and I've pledged to do so until his last day. He has always been a very careful, respectful and loving spouse, he had always advised me calmly with respect and he had done all his best for me in everything during our matrimonial life together. He dearly loves our and caters for all her needs for a good living and for her higher education abroad. In return for all of his kindness, his goodwill, his care and his being noble-minded towards us. I do not regret caring and helping him in my own way, at his last state of life. I've pledged to do so until his last day in this world. I pray God to bless him always and even beyond his time. This is a brief account of my small family and my kind of husband. Below are some photos of us, hope they will please you. Thank you so much for your read and views. Sincerely, Lisa.             |
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Thanks for sharing. You have a lovely family. God has surely blessed you both with each other and a lovely daughter. Will pray all goes well for you all. Judgment Day will be interesting - and all paths lead there.
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10/26/2015 6:54 am |
Hi Lisa: I really enjoyed learning about your life and family and loved all the pics. I wish your husband all the best with his health problems. He is so fortunate that you will be there for him.
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Hermit hello You are always welcome to my blog. Am so delighted that this special one has pleased you as I was eager to describe my small family to each of you. Thank you for reading me Hermit, for your wonderful comments and for your kind wishes too. Thank you so much again. I really appreciate your visit. May God bless you too. Sincerely, Lisa.
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A very nice love story Beth! You are to be admire. You are a nice, kind and generous loving woman. God bless! "The only way to have a friend is to be one."
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Bijou, my dear friend, hi, How glad I am for your kind visit and for your wonderful comments which please me so much. Thank you dear, for your appreciation of this blog of mine and for the photos of my small family. Thanks also your kind wishes for my husband, as you know old age really makes a difference in life but am very patient and I do the best I can for him. Thank you again my dear friend. May God shower his blessings upon you and all of yours. Sincerely, Lisa.
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Very interesting story Lisa, enjoyed it very much, also loved your family photos. Your daughter is a very pretty girl. Thanks for sharing them with us. Your husband is indeed a lucky man to have you, wishing him well with his health problems.
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Betty my lovely friend, hi. How great is my pleasure reading you again on my blog. Your nice missing comments were really felt for quite sometime but I appreciate your visit as usual and thank you so much for all, Betty. Your appreciation goes right to my heart and my simple word of thanks is just too small comparing to my gratefulness to you Betty. Thanks again my friend, God bless you and all your family. Sincerely, Lisa,
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Maudie, my charming friend, hello, Your usual visit, your delightful comments and you appreciation for this special blog of mine, are so much valuable for me. Thank you also for your interest in reading me on here. Thanks for nice compliments and for your kind wishes too. Am really touched but so pleased Maudie. God bless you and all of yours as well. Sincerely, Lisa.
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Dear Lisa, thank you for sharing your life with us and it and certainly is a remarkable one. You exhibit such grace, humility and kindness toward your family and it shows to be the same with your extended one on the net ... I am privileged to have you as a friend. I'll pray for your husband's well being and certainly for your devotion on taking care of him. You have a beautiful daughter too and I know you're proud of her also . Take care my friend and hope to see you soon on chat ... Always love ... Brigitte
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Betty my lovely friend, hi. How great is my pleasure reading you again on my blog. Your nice missing comments were really felt for quite sometime but I appreciate your visit as usual and thank you so much for all, Betty. Your appreciation goes right to my heart and my simple word of thanks is just too small comparing to my gratefulness to you Betty. Thanks again my friend, God bless you and all your family. Sincerely, Lisa, Love, Betty. "The only way to have a friend is to be one."
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Mary Ann hello, My great pleasure is always reading you on my blog, dear, thank you for your usual visit and for your nice comments too. Am glad this blog has pleased you, thanks for your interest too Mary Ann. I wanted to describe my family life which am pleased with and doing my best for them as well. Thank you again Mary Ann, I wish you all my best. Sincerely, Lisa.
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Betty dear, Thanks greatly for coming back on my blog for more of your appreciation dear Betty, I like so much reading from you. So, warm thanks again for your compliments upon those photos, dear Betty. Have a nice and enjoyable day. My kind regards. Sincerely, Lisa.
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Hank hi, Thank you for your wonderful comments on this blog of mine, am so pleased reading from you always. Your comments are so meaningful with a bit of more info which grace your comments too Hank, and it is very much appreciated really. It's true with age, things change, specially in men when his wife is much younger than himself !!, but we have to cope with that and be patient too. At times their illusions drive them mad to an extent as well. Just as it is in my case but I let it pass because of his illness also, as you may have read it on my above blog. Thank you for your wonderful compliments Hank, they are very so pleasant. Thank again and I wish you all my best. Sincerely, Lisa.
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Earthytaurus dear, hi, Sorry dear, your comments came a bit later than the others on here. But I always check well as I don't like to leave any comment without response. Therefore, I thank you so much for your visit, your comments and you delighted compliments dear ET. It's a pleasure reading from you always. Am also glad that my blog has been of interest too. Thank you again dear Lady and enjoy your day. My kind regards to you. Sincerely, Lisa.
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Brigitte my dear friend, hello, How delighted are your comments on this blog of mine, am really happy reading them, thank you warmly my dear Brigitte. Am so delighted being your friend too, this make me so happy and to have you as my dear friend too. A good friend is a dear one in any circumstances Brigitte, that my perception always. Thank you for your kind words my dear, for your appreciation of my blog, for your lovely compliments and for your prayers also. I am in short of words in thanking you my dear Brigitte but my simple "Thank You" means a lot from my kind feelings for you. I wish you a lovely day, may God bless you and all of yours. Sincerely your friend, Love to you from: Lisa.
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MrsJoe, dear Lady, hi, Thank you for your wonderful comments and advice dear Lady. Am so glad reading from you always. Your wisdom is so greatly appreciated MrsJoe. You are right in words dear. Your appreciation of my above blog gives me encouragement too. It's so true that not everyone would accept such situation but I do it for my hubby cause he has really been a great devoted spouse for our family and in return I willingly want to help him at this last stage of his life. Thank you for appreciating my daughter too MrsJoe. I wish you and MrJoe, all my very best. May God bless you and all of yours too. Sincerely, Lisa.
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LakeWalker, hi Sir, You are always welcome to my blog and I thank you so much for your kind visit and for your wonderful words all along. Your comments are really heartfelt, I do appreciate your kindness and your thoughts too. Yes, LakeWalker, it's not so easy, at least for me, to put my husband in a nursing home. I really don't have the heart at this. The way he would feel in there may destroy him quicker than expected but when at home here, he feels at ease, more comfortable, secured and happy. I make sure of this too and I don't regret doing so as well. Thank you and thank you again for your appreciation Sir. Yes, we fortunately can afford a home Doctor and a nurse for his medical care, this is at least something which I can do for him at this stage of his life. Thank you also for all your kind compliments LakeWalker, they are very appreciated as well. I wish you well and all of yours always. Have a great day, God bless you all. Sincerely, Lisa.
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10/26/2015 12:27 pm |
What a wonderful family history in photos. Spiritwoman ^i^
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Boogie, my dear friend, hi, Am so glad reading from you again on this special blog of mine. It's a way to tell how life isn't easy at a certain time but we should take it lightly and give out the best we can. It's a way first of all to satisfy ourselves and to make the others happy too. When there's a Will there's a way!!. Thank you for your wonderful compliments dear Boogie, I do appreciate them very much. Am really happy being able to give such care to my spouse at the moment he really needs it and I don't regret it at all. I do the best I can for him and he appreciates it very much as well. He always tells me and I quote: " I appreciate all your devotion to me in my needs, I pray God to give you the best after my afterlife. He will rewards you indefinitely for your kindness to me." Unquote. I do all I can from my own Will, Boogie cause I won't be able to see him suffering more in his last stage of life, I know what I do isn't easy for every wife but for me it's a pleasure doing it. Thank you again my dear friend, I wish you all my best and may God bless you always. Sincerely, Lisa.
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Spirtiwoman dear, hi, I warmly thank you dear for your visit and for your delightful comments as well. Thank you also for your appreciation of my special blog too. Yes, it has been a wonderful life together until he's been affected ill-wise at his advanced age. But he has been a good husband all the way through our married life and he really deserves my kind attention now at his last stage of life. The best thing he does now at this stage, is to appreciate my efforts and my way of help in all his needs. Am happy for this too eventually. Thank you again for your nice compliments Spirtiwoman, I do appreciate it as well. I wish all my very best to you and all of yours. Sincerely, Lisa.
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Life passes by us, it always contains the good and bad, the love and the heartache. It makes life all that it is. How we endure, how we choose to see things, and how we handle each circumstance determines who we are and our worth. There can be no bed of rose without the thorns I truly enjoyed your story
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Akamatt dear friend, hi, All your words have really gladdened me, reading from you on my blog, is truly a great pleasure. Akamatt dear, I thank you so much for your kind visit and for your wonderful comments. Thank you also for your appreciation and for your pleasant compliments for my small family. I thank you again Akamatt, I wish you a happy day , keep on your nice smile too. Lisa.
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Mamannie dear Lady, hi, Your visit and your nice comments, are very appreciable, I thank you so much for all, Mamannie. Thank you also for your read and for your nice compliments regarding each of us. Am so delighted my family story has pleased you. Thanks again, dear. My kind wishes to you and all of yours. Lisa.
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Jiminycricker, hi, It's always nice reading from you, Jiminy. Thank you for your nice comments and for your kind visit too. Am so pleased my family has interested you. Your wisdom words are worth to retain as well. Thank you again for the joy felt while reading me on here. I wish you all my best, hope reading from you again on my future blogs. God bless you and all of yours, Jiminy. Lisa.
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Bumpkin dear, hello, Your visit and your nice comments, have really pleased me. Kindly accept my great appreciation and my humble thanks to you. I am so happy my story and the related photos have also pleased you, thanks also for your nice compliments as well. My kind regards to you. Lisa.
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