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" KINDS OF HUMOR DIFFERS FROM ONE ANOTHER " HIRAMHANKWILLIAM, IT SEEMS, YOU COULDN'T UNDERSTAND HOW YOUR COMMENTS ON MY RECENT BLOG, WERE MORE RUDE, DISRESPECTFUL AND IMPOLITE, THAN MY RESPONSE TO YOU. MY HUMOR IS CONSIDERABLY UNLIKE YOURS, AM SORRY. I AM NOT FOR THIS TYPE AND I DON'T THINK MY RETORT BACK, SHOULD HURT YOU, SHOULD IT!!??. EVEN IF YOU PRETEND YOUR COMMENTS WAS A JOKE, YOU COULD HAVE USED ANY FICTIVE NAME AND NOT DIRECTED IT TO ME AS SUCH. HAVE I USED YOUR NAME/HANDLE IN THAT MORAL JOKE OR IN ANY OF MY PREVIOUS BLOGS BEFORE??. I HAD NEVER AND WILL NEVER DO IT AS WELL. THIS IS NOT IN MY CHARACTER AND BEHAVIOR. I ALWAYS RESPECT EVERYONE WHOMEVER HE/SHE IS AND I AVOID OFFENDING ANYONE AS LONG AS NO ONE OFFENDS ME TOO. YOUR SORT OF HUMOR IS YOURS, YOU MAY POST SUCH OR SIMILAR ANYWHERE ELSE BUT NOT ON MY BLOG. I DO NOT ENTERTAIN SUCH TYPE AT ALL. FOR YOUR UNDERSTANDING, THANK YOU. |
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DianeMarie dear, hi, Am so glad reading from you for the first time on my blog. You are welcome and will always be too. Thank you so much for your nice and encouraging comments on here. As you may have understood, that man has really misbehaved in his comments on my referred blog. I always respect everyone on here regardless who they are. And I don't entertain such vulgar comments too. Specially referred to me directly. It's impolite really, I have never before referred to that person's name in any of blog in such manner. Thank you again DianeMarie, it is so kind of you really. Hope reading from you again in the future. I wish you and all of yours, a pleasant weekend. With my kind regards, Lisa. 
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Mary Ann, my dear friend, hi, Thank you so much for your visit and nice comments. You are very right Mary Ann. As you know me, I've always respected everyone on this and I don't like that type of comments of that man, so I was obliged to reply him as he deserved. I wouldn't care to lose one such reader at all. I rather have a few respectful ones than to have a lot commenting such as he did. Thank you again dear Mary Ann, I wish you a wonderful weekend. My kind regards to you. Lisa.
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MrsJoe, hi, Really I didn't guess that there's still mindless people at this age as such. Where most are matured and understandable on here, except the nonsensical, ludicrous and ridiculous ones. The perverts who want to contaminate the mind of others by diverting anything which suit them. But me, I won't let pass easily this idiocy. Why did my retort hurt that much??. His type of humor he keeps it for himself or post such elsewhere but not on my blog. I don't agree for such and I won't let me be influenced by such also. Why others who commented on that blog didn't post such as he did?. Though all had read the same blog but yet they were thoughtful before posting. As I am not tolerant to this extent, I was therefore free to respond to him accordingly. That's me, MrsJoe. Thank you again for your opinion which I appreciate too. Enjoy a blessed weekend MrsJoe. My best wishes to you and your spouse. Lisa.
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Maggie dear, hi, Thank you for your visit and you comments Maggie. When an intelligent person understand that blog, he surely would think twice before posting such silly comments directing it to me personally!!. Whereas, neither his name nor handle has been used in the text of that story. He might have thought that I would clap for him!! But unfortunately, I had my prompt reply to him which he never expected. That's what hurts him and for which I do not care also. "It was just a prompt reply from the Shepherdess to the shepherd!!". Enjoy your weekend Maggie. Lisa.
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JKH, hi, I really wouldn't bother if all have no sense of humor as you stipulated above. Each may have his/her own sense of humor but must not think that all must accept it also.. If I hadn't used his name in that story, logically he should have thought well before directing his comments or diverting that silly post to me. That sort of humor isn't my type. There is surely a difference between decent type of humor and his own type, I cannot tolerate it. If he is offended by my retort, he should have thought well about my disgust of his comments too. Those having this sort of humor, may they post it elsewhere but not on my blog, am sorry. Thank you again JKH. Wishing you a pleasant weekend. Lisa.
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Liszt hi, I do appreciate your visit and your peaceful comments. Thank you so much, Liszt. You are quite right, my culture is different from yours there, I do agree for it. But, even if we have different cultures, I always try to care for each and everyone on this site, I try not to offend anyone as much as I can, to respect all as you have read on all my blogs. That's why you may have noticed also, that I do not comment on any political blogs too. I don't feel myself in the right place to do so. In a way not to offend the feelings of others. I do read most if not all the blogs but unable to post my comments, feeling that am not fit to do so, being from another country. I have understood very well your explanation for which I greatly thank you Liszt. But be known for my different culture, habits and character, I cannot change all these at this age now. I have grown up as such, maybe too much respect for others and expecting the same from others too. Frankly, I had never got such type of comments before on my blogs, as the one of Hank. I was really shocked, got angry while reading it as I am not used to such. And that's why I responded to him accordingly. He felt offended but he should have thought that I was too, reading his. Thank you again Liszt and have a nice weekend. Kind regards, Lisa.
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3/4/2016 11:56 am |
Hi Lisa: I agree with MrsJoe and Liszt. This situation reminds me of a blog by LookLook a while ago saying they were expecting a monsoon in his area. Of course we don't have any monsoons here, so I made the nicest reply you could ever imagine, but he somehow took it as some horrible insult and told me how stupid I was to make such a ridiculous reply. I hope you and Hiram can work this out, as he was just kidding around.
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Bijou my dear friend, hello, I am very happy reading from you on here, thank you so much for your visit and your nice comments as usual. I guess the comments from Hank was just a mistake as he did not think that the cultures are not the same. What Liszt has explained to me, I agree but you know at our present age, it's not easy to change the custom, the character and the habit. That's why I was angry about Hank's comments to me. However I have no grudge against him and neither against anyone too. We are all friends on here and any mistake or misunderstanding can be corrected and we learn from it. Concerning Looklook's response to you on his blog, I had not observed that really, or I may have missed it. At times you know one thing or another may bring feeling of anger or so. Let it pass Bijou, I believe Looklook didn't really mean it. As for Hank, it's ok, once each recognizes where lies the mistake, then it is considered as solved. I am not a rancored person and I do not nourish any hate or grudge against anyone as well. I heartily thank you Bijou for your opinion and your input on this case. I wish you and all of yours a happy weekend. My warm regards to you. Lisa, 
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HANK HI, Thank you for coming back on this post of mine. You are still welcome as anyone else. HANK, IT'S NOT A MATTER OF WIN OR LOSE, BUT FOR EACH TO RECOGNIZE THE MISTHOUGHTS AND THE THE MISUNDERSTANDING OR THE MISINTERPRETATION IN OUR EXCHANGE. We still have to learn from them and we shouldn't engender and keep any grudge against anyone, I do not for sure. We just learn from the character and culture of one another. You may be used to something which I am not, there lies the misunderstanding, because the cultures differ too. Anyhow, let's forget about it and take care of it in the future. Let's perceive and learn from the mistakes. Let's take care of the other's feelings by pondering if it may hurt or offend the other. It will be then A WIN-WIN case for everyone. I don't consider myself as a winner as you've mentioned above. Consider it as a mutual WIN because we have learned and got a lesson from it. We do learn at any age. It is not a shame nor disgraceful. I hope this case will be soon forgotten and everything will go normal, better than before even. Friendship will remain, maybe a bit more careful than usual when respect and trust are observed. I wish you a peaceful and pleasant weekend Hank. Kind regards, Lisa.
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