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Beth1949 75F
3124 posts
5/10/2018 2:56 am

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1/9/2019 8:48 am

FOR THE FIRST ANNIVERSARY OF MY DECEASED HUBBY

Dear readers, today, I am back with this special blog, it's my first for this present year, as I wanted it to be The Commemoration of the First Anniversary of my Husband's demise on the 10th May 2017. It's a Reverence, an Homage with all respects, a tribute to an exceptional man in my life during our 45 years of marriage. He's been a respected man all through, with lots of virtues and integrity, an absolute devoted man to his beloved family. Therefore, I have devoted my first blog of this year to him.
Thank you sincerely for your read and views.
Lisa.
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Our beloved and unforgettable hubby and dad, it's one year to date, since you've left us when God had called you home, in his great heaven. You've left us with regrets, shedding the last tears from your green eyes. Too weak, you were unable to tell us "Goodbye", but just staring at us until... You drew your last breath, then finally, your eyelids closed to never open again. These moments are explicitly engraved in our memory and in our hearts. Just... as your voice is distinctly recorded in our mind, which we'll never fail to recall. If I could give you some of my strength and health, to survive some more time, I would have voluntarily done so.... but Halas!!. God had wanted it otherwise.

Despite your regrettable demise, your words and your advice will never be forgotten, Your wisdom, your quotes and your paragon, are for us, such great lessons. All through your life with us, you've been an exemplary spouse and father. You've done all your utmost best to give us such a decent and comfortable life. Our fanciful and important needs, you had provided us without any complain. Your respect, your care, your attention, your tolerance, your devotion and most of all "Your love", were a bundle of treasures that made our life marvelous as you wanted it to be. Your aim for our future, as you so desired and expressed it , will be achieved.

Emily and I, we'll follow and accomplish all your former requests to us. Your best wishes for each of us, we've vowed to fulfill them accordingly. Those special memories of you, will always bring a tender smile to us. Your sweet and distinguish fragrances are still being smelt in your room. Though you have humbly bowed to death to honor God and his supreme will. If we could have you back just for a little while, we would feel so blissful. But... where you are now, you feel no pain, no suffering, no anxiety, and no fear. As you've gone to heaven with God, who's keeping you in his mighty devine home. You are surely watching over us and guiding us from above, with the same devotion. Wherever we are or will be, we shall always remember you with love and admiration.

"GONE... ALWAYS LOVED... AND... NEVER FORGOTTEN".
REST IN PEACE OUR BELOVED AND CHERISHED HUBBY AND DAD.
MAY OUR LORD GOD, KEEP YOU WITH HIM FOREVER AND EVER.

From your Widow and :
Elizabeth (Lisa) and Emily.













Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/10/2018 3:47 am

One of my Hubby's meaningful quotes was:
"Keep your candle lit, it will light up your paths, showing you the right ones.
It will brighten your hopes and your objectives will be attained, if you keep your candle lit".


hermitinthecity 70M
1691 posts
5/10/2018 4:52 am

I dont know what to say, grief is so difficult. I pray your pain will diminish in time though I know your love never will. God bless.

Judgment Day will be interesting - and all paths lead there.


MrsJoe 76F
17308 posts
5/10/2018 5:03 am

Beautiful tribute to your husband.

Be a prism, spreading God's light and love, not a mirror reflecting the world's hatred.


Seattlechick8 67F

5/10/2018 7:11 am

Hugs Sweet Lady-- Lovely Blog


Archer62 83F
7051 posts
5/10/2018 9:00 am

Thanks for the inspiring blog, Beth. He must have been a wonderful person, I wish I had known him.


1gasilverhead2 83M
4003 posts
5/10/2018 9:06 am

This is not just a blog. It is words from the heart which had known and will always know true love.

Beth, you did well; I pray the pain will diminish and the pain subside to the point you and your wonderful daughter can speak with him in joy.

I know yours and Lisa's love for him will never die but I hope the joys of his love will bring a smile to both of your faces in time that you both will know peace.

Yes lady, I agree with him, both of you ladies keep your candle lit.

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The beginning of life, conception..


Abelle2 83F
31211 posts
5/10/2018 5:37 pm

A wonderful heartfelt blog to your husband and may you have peace.


frenchsalsa2 77F
7809 posts
5/10/2018 6:10 pm

What a wonderful loving tribute to your husband... Bless you!


bijou624

5/11/2018 1:46 am

What a beautiful tribute and such an amazing legacy your husband left. My mother died a few months ago and yesterday would have been her birthday. These special days really make you remember these special people who were once such a big part of your life. All the best to you Lisa and welcome back.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/11/2018 11:55 am

Hermit, my first greeting to you this year,

As this is my first blog for this year and I wanted it to be, I am glad for your above nice comments. Thank you greatly for your read and your time taken to express those encouraging words, I do appreciate them so much. Thank you again Hermit.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/11/2018 12:01 pm

MrsJoe, hi and welcome to my blog.

Thank you so much for your expressive comments on this blog of mine. Am so happy reading you on here. Thank you for your appreciation as well. My best wishes to you and your husband.
Lisa,


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/11/2018 12:09 pm

Seattlechick, hi and you are welcome.

I am so glad meeting you for the first time on my blog. I appreciate greatly your visit and your nice comments. Thanks for your hugs, I hope reading from you again on my future blogs. Hugs back to you with my kind wishes.
Lisa,


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/11/2018 12:17 pm

Archer dear Lady, hi and welcome as well.

How glad I am, reading from you as usual on my first blog of this year. Thank you so much for your appreciation and for your pleasing comments. Unfortunately you haven't got the chance to know my husband before but you have got an idea of his being through this blog of mine. Thank you again Archer. My kind regards to you.
Lisa,


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/11/2018 12:33 pm

1Ga, hi , you are so welcome as usual.

1Ga, you've rendered me speechless by your delighted above comments. They are so expressive from your kind feelings towards me and my daughter. Thank you greatly for your visit also. I do appreciate every encouraging word of yours. Am sure my daughter will as well and we have both promised to keep our candles lit and to accomplish my late husband's desires. Thank you again 1Ga. My respectful greetings to you and your family. God bless all of you.
Lisa,


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/11/2018 12:42 pm

HankWilliam, hi and welcome as usual,

Your visit and your nice above comments are greatly appreciated by me and will surely be from my daughter as well. Thank you from both of us. God bless you too Hank. Hope reading again from you on my future blogs. My best wishes to you.
Lisa,


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/11/2018 12:59 pm

XingH, hello and welcome to my blog.

Your visit as well as your your pleasant comments are well appreciated. Thank you so much for them. Thank you for your kind expression which is meaningful. Thank you significantly for your encouragement. My kind regards to you XingH.
Lisa,


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/11/2018 9:33 pm

JKH, hi and welcome.

Thank you for your visit and your appreciation of my above blog.
Nice reading you again after a long time. My kind regards.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/11/2018 9:37 pm

Abelle, hi dear Lady,

I am really delighted reading from you on my above blog. Thank you so much for your wonderful words which I appreciate so much. My warm greetings to you and your husband. Best wishes to both of you.
Lisa,


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/11/2018 9:45 pm

Frenchsalsa, salut et bienvenue sur mon blog.

How glad I am reading from you on this first blog of mine this year. Thank you very much for your visit and for your appreciation. Hope reading from you again on my future blog. Mes respectueuses salutations à vous chère amie.
Lisa,


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/11/2018 9:55 pm

Bijou, my dear friend, hi and welcome.

Bonjour ma chere amie. Happy reading from you again on my first blog this year. I hope you're doing well with your family. Sorry for the recent demise of your mother. My hearty condolences to you. You are quite right Bijou, we can't forget our loved ones though departed from us. The memories remain and the love don't fade away. Thank you greatly for your appreciation of my above blog, hope reading from you again on my future ones. Greetings to you and all of yours.
Lisa,


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/11/2018 10:42 pm

Musser, hello and welcome to my blog.

How great reading from you again on my present blog, Thank you substantially for your visit and for your wonderful expressive comments, which I evidently appreciate. Your kind wishes to me and Emily, are essentially acknowledged and for which we thank you as well. Thank you so much for your pleasant acronym. We reiterate our kindest regards to you and all of yours. Please kindly extend our greetings to each of them.
Lisa,


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/11/2018 10:56 pm

Earthytaurus dear Lady, hi and welcome to my blog.

It gladdens me so much, reading from you on my present above blog. Your visit and each of your wordings is so meaningful and goes straight right to our hearts. ET your feelings and your shared sorrow with us, My daughter and I, really appreciate extensively your expressions. Thank you once more ET. Our best wishes to you Lady.
Lisa,


GLUMO 88F
9730 posts
5/12/2018 4:50 pm

!
Dear Lisa, you have been missed here.
This is a very touching blog. I think that our beloved ones who passed away have not gone away completely... Their memory will remain forever. Keep all the good moments within your heart and smile to him.
A big hug



Trust in dreams, for in them is hidden the gate to eternity.(Khalil Gibran)


frenchsalsa2 77F
7809 posts
5/12/2018 5:52 pm

    Quoting Beth1949:
    Frenchsalsa, salut et bienvenue sur mon blog.

    How glad I am reading from you on this first blog of mine this year. Thank you very much for your visit and for your appreciation. Hope reading from you again on my future blog. Mes respectueuses salutations à vous chère amie.
    Lisa,

Salut Lisa... je vous remercie... Gros câlins d'une chère amie canadienne.
I shall visit again.


Maudie1 74F
8151 posts
5/13/2018 12:33 am

What a beautiful tribute Lisa. Hugs to you and your family.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/13/2018 9:36 am

My dear Lucy, hi and hugs to you.

You are always warmly welcome to my blog as usual. I am very happy reading from you on my first blog of this year. Thank you so much for your visit and your delighted comments which I appreciate so greatly. You are right in each of your above words . I have waited since and for the exact date to post my above blog for the first anniversary of my hubby's death. That was my aim and that's why I didn't post any other blog since. I couldn't leave this date to pass without posting this blog. Thank you again my dear Lucy. God bless you and all of yours.
Lisa,


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/13/2018 9:43 am

Frenchsalsa ma chere amie, salut,

Comme c'est beau de vous lire encore une fois sur mon blog. Thank you for your pleasant words for the second time. You are and will be always warmly welcome on my blogs, it's a great pleasure reading from you at any time. Je vous embrasse amicalement avec tous mes respects a votre egard. Thank you so much again dear Lady. Mes aminties les plus sinceres.
Lisa,


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/13/2018 9:50 am

Maudie, my dear friend, hello and welcome.

How happy I am, reading from you on this blog of mine. Thank you so much for your visit, for your wonderful words. and for your appreciation of my above blog. Your presence on my blog, is always a pleasure. I hope you're doing well as well as your family. Thank once more Maudie. With my kindest regards.
Lisa,


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
5/23/2018 3:13 am

Sarah, ma chère amie, sois la bienvenue .

Comme je suis très heureuse de te lire ici sur mon blog. Merci de ta visite et de tes mots très touchant. Cela me va au coeur vraiment et j'suis très charmée de ton appréciation biensure. Presentes me vives salutations a toute ta famille. J'espere te lire encore bientôt ou quand tu en auras le temps. Merci encore ma douce amie.
Lisa,


starwomyn 70F
8871 posts
5/29/2018 9:24 pm

My hubby left this world May 15, 2013. I remember driving to work and being in tears by the time I got there. I don't cry as much five years later. I smile and laugh more of our memories.

Abracadabra


lakeslady28562 74F
8 posts
6/7/2018 11:09 am

Beth I don't know you by your actual name, so I will use your screen name. This was a wonderful tribute to the man who brought you such happiness. I pray future tributes will be the living of a good life in his honor. Lakeslady


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
6/7/2018 12:06 pm

Starwomyn, hi and welcome to my blog.

How delighted I am, reading from you once more on my above blog. thank you greatly for your visit and you wonderful comments which I so much appreciate. I do share your feelings of losing a beloved one whom we can't really forget, but we get by and the pleasant memory remains. Thank you again Starwomyn. Hope reading from you again on my future blogs. I wish you all my best.
Lisa.


Beth1949 75F
2715 posts
6/7/2018 12:13 pm

LakesLady, my dear friend, hi,

You are so warmly welcome on this blog of mine. It's my great pleasure reading from you on here for the first time. Thank you for your appreciation as well. Oh yes, dear Lady, my late husband was such a wonderful man and he really deserves such a tribute from me as well as from our daughter. Thank you again LakesLady, hoping to read from you again in the future. I do treasure your kind visit and your delighted above comments. My kind wishes to you.
Lisa,