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Rocketship 79F
18528 posts
9/19/2018 5:57 pm

Interesting blog with a great deal of merit.... imho.


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
9/19/2018 7:32 pm

Good article.......It's tragic that anyone believes that shame is a healthy motivator.......I wrote a Child Psychology paper on our society's use of humiliation/shame as a way to control the behaviour of children and the life-long harm that it does. I presented the paper at an Early Education conference and facilitated a discussion following ..........It's so damaging and so deeply ingrained in our culture that we often miss it. Religion has played a large part in digging it deeply into our social structure. When I went back into the classroom< I was hyper aware of it and tried to uproot it by calling it out in staff-meetings, but even those who had been at the discussion and agreed that we needed to make changes, even those teachers fell back on using humiliation as a tool to control children........We have a lot of work to do on this.....all of us, parents, grandparents, educators, care-givers of all kinds.

I challenge everyone who reads this to look deeply at how shame has shaped their lives and our society.....to follow your anxiety and pain back to shame.


jiminycricket1 73M
13732 posts
9/20/2018 5:35 am

Well. of course.. women are the apple of Eden.

It's never about the sin... but about the temptation....

And so it is written and so it is true....??????????????

God created man
Man created the Devil
And women bring the devil out , in men..

In a MAN'S world ...the only flaw that God created in a MAN.....Is the FAULT of WOMAN.

My God.. it's so obvious.. the long hair and eyelashes.. the full lips, the big breasts, and unholy holely.......
At the core of that apple is temptation..The DEVIL'S workshop.....

Can I get "A-MEN"!....... about temptation?


Rentier2 79M
950 posts
9/20/2018 5:35 am

We are sexually weak.
I strive to become weaker.


jiminycricket1 73M
13732 posts
9/20/2018 5:55 am

"Democrats suffering from "Trump Derangement Syndrome." They want to politically lynch Kavanaugh. After all, they believe he deserves it. He's a white, straight, male Republican." big's... comment on another blog...

Like what does white. straight. male... have squat diddly to do with it?.....Now you got to get the meaning.........If you're not Republican.. you are not a white straight, Christian, Male............You're something else... like a "fag", a man hater, a disbeliever, an Atheist, A liberal, or a WOMAN!

Now.... "big", ass-erts that he identifies with Trump and "Kavenaugh"... And although, I may not know how to spell.. Asswhole........I know one... when I see one..
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Archer62 83F
7051 posts
9/20/2018 7:20 am

ALL THIS SEX NONSENSE STEMS FROM THE JUDEO-CHRISTIAN TRADITION FROM GENESIS RIGHT ON TO THE FIRST CHRISTIAN SAINTS. IT'S HORRENDOUS TO REALIZE THE MYTH OF ADAM AND EVE AND THE VIRGIN BIRTH HAVE RUINED THE STATUTE OF THE FEMALE FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS.


Katie_au_lait 78F
7026 posts
9/20/2018 10:51 am

    Quoting Archer62:
    ALL THIS SEX NONSENSE STEMS FROM THE JUDEO-CHRISTIAN TRADITION FROM GENESIS RIGHT ON TO THE FIRST CHRISTIAN SAINTS. IT'S HORRENDOUS TO REALIZE THE MYTH OF ADAM AND EVE AND THE VIRGIN BIRTH HAVE RUINED THE STATUTE OF THE FEMALE FOR THOUSANDS OF YEARS.
EXACTLY!


sparkleflit 76F
10271 posts
9/20/2018 12:49 pm

    Quoting  :

The Jewish Religion and the Catholic church started using shame as way to control people a long time ago. Shame is the reason the Catholic church has been able to cover up the child abuse for so long. Many institutions under the guise of Religion, like the work-houses for "wayward" girls, the residential schools for Native children, the orphanages.....All used humiliation and shame as a way to control........


Katie_au_lait 78F
7026 posts
9/21/2018 11:48 pm

    Quoting sparkleflit:
    The Jewish Religion and the Catholic church started using shame as way to control people a long time ago. Shame is the reason the Catholic church has been able to cover up the child abuse for so long. Many institutions under the guise of Religion, like the work-houses for "wayward" girls, the residential schools for Native children, the orphanages.....All used humiliation and shame as a way to control........
But it seems "God" it's all His plan...He told them to do it... it's so much more convenient to lay the blame on "God" for their depraved cruelty instead of themselves.

Imagine going through millenniums without attaching or even acknowledging any blame to yourself.
GOD IS A SCAPEGOAT!


Katie_au_lait 78F
7026 posts
9/22/2018 12:29 am

oops...that should be millennia!