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WebCams and the Iggie Button
Posted:Aug 8, 2006 11:10 pm
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I am happily working on a Blog and suddenly on my messenger is goes


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joeblow: wazup


Star: are you an astrologer or a geocaher

joeblow: what's that


star: do I know you???


joeblow: nah

star: I notice that you have an adult profile - is there anything I want to see?

joeblow: no

star: I am interested in the ring and ceremony
when are we getting married


joeblow: huh

star: That's Right Mr.Joe I am interested in the ring and ceremony when are we getting married

joeblow: I am already married, I am looking for some DISCREET no stings fun. Do you have a WebCam. ASL

star: HASTA LA VISTA! DARLIN

STAR pushes the Ignore (Stop Receiving Messages From JoeBlow) Button and into the Iggie Bin He Goes..............

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The Last Time I Spent With My Mother - A Relationship Healed
Posted:Aug 5, 2006 11:21 pm
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2006 12:23 am
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My Mother and I had a troubled relationship for a number of years. She was born premature with a hearing disability. I inherited that disability. She had some major league anger control problems. She was in and out of the Bobbie hatch. There was a lot of battering and physical abuse that went on in my childhood. I remember going to church and asking God for help. That help never came or maybe it was God's help that gave me the strength to survive a difficult childhood.

The way I functioned as a was to raid the family liquor supply and get as drunk as possible. By the time the Holidays came, the vodka was watered down. When booze was not available, I drank Listerine. Later on, I discovered that Valium and Vodka mixed together quite nicely. I was a teenage closet alcoholic.

I actually made it on the honor roll in High School, I graduated and moved to Hollywood. That was major league trouble. I was naive to the point of stupidity. Finally, I decided to try Beauty School. A fellow student in the school joined A.A. and asked me to go to meetings with her. She didn't want to face those scary old drunks all by herself. I carefuly listened in the meetings and concluded that I was a drunk. I didn't go as far down like some of the other members but the handwriting was written on the wall. The A.A. members let me stay. There were two relapses but I've been there since. I was 21 years old. I reached the legal drinking age and decided to quit.

One of the first things I had to deal with sober was my anger with Mother. I later realized that she was sick like I was. I got the 12 Steps and an opportunity to get well- She got the Bobbie Hatch, Shock Treatments and the Thorazine Trudge. We both grew up with feelings of isolation because of hearing disabilities. I got digital hearing aids. She never wore hearing aids until she got older when I told her she need them. She stayed in isolation. I was able to reach out with the help of the 12 Step Community.

Mother would often ask me when I was going to get married and settle down. My first marriage in my thirties was the most unsettling experience I ever went through. In 1994, I decided to give marriage a second try. The Wedding was to take place at a Nudist Resort. I sent my mother a plane ticket to California. I purchased bus passes for her and my boys. When I was at work, my boys took her to the beach everyday. My father used to fish off of the Pier off of the Ventura Beach.

When I was off work for the Weekend, my soon to be hubby and I took her to the Clothing Optional Beach near Carpenteria. My grandmother told my mother over the phone that she was "being bad!" Later that evening, we went to a male strip show. I waved bills over my Mother's head so that that dancers would give her a special show. I still remember my Mother putting money in a man's g-string with her teeth. We had pictures especially for my grandmother's benefit.

I took her to a Psychic Faire in Ojai. One reader could tell that I also know how to read cards. Another reader worked with Guardian Angels. She was so right on target with the challenges in Mother's Life and gave her the name of her Guardian Angel. That meant so much to my Mother.

The next week, I had off at work. We drove to the Tree House Nudist Resort for the Wedding. That was my second marriage. My mother wore a Tree house Nudist Resort Tee-Shirt for the Bowling League when She got back to Arkansas. My grandmother fumed.

A few years later, my Mother and Grandmother moved to Las Vegas with my Brothers. My grandmother was diagnosed with Cancer and died a few weeks later. Mother did her usually Boobie Hatch trip. She always did that when somebody died. A few month later, she was released from the Boobie Hatch. The next week she collapsed and into the SpiritWorld she went.

She did not have an easy life at all. I sincerely pray that the next one will be better.

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Darrell Martinie, the Cosmic Muffin Goes to the Spirit World.
Posted:Aug 5, 2006 12:47 pm
Last Updated:Aug 20, 2006 11:55 pm
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Darrell Martinie the Cosmic Muffin Professional Astrologer and Famed Radio Talk Personality died in his home after a a three year battle with cancer on Wednesday, July 26, 2006..

One of the major challenges that Astrologers deal with is explaining Cosmic happenings in a way that the general public can understand while keeping it interesting for Astrologers.

The Cosmic Muffin successfully operated outside of the box in his own personal life and in the Astrological Community as well.

His radio talk shows moved outside of the easier softer way of focusing on “sun sign” astrology and reach out, focusing on aspects and angles which affect everyone both in the business and personal aspects of their lives. These shows are remembered by many for the tag line, “It is a wise person who rules the stars, a fool who is ruled by them, over and out. In 1993, William Weld, the Governor of the Commonwealth of Massachusetts, and a “Muffin” fan for many years, proclaimed Darrell Martinie, The Cosmic Muffin, official astrologer for the Commonwealth of Massachusetts, a fact which is also an answer in the millennium edition of Trivial Pursuit.

On May 17th 2004, Mr. Martinie and his life partner of 33 years, Edward Boesel, were the first same sex couple to obtain a marriage license in their town of Saugus, which marriage was officiated by Oedipus (the program director for WBCN) on May 28th at the World Trade Center in Boston.

His contribution to the Astrological Community is his legacy.


It's a wise man who rules the stars. It's a fool who's ruled by them. Over and Out"

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White Shirt dyed in Tea and My Father's Early Demise!
Posted:Aug 5, 2006 2:29 am
Last Updated:Aug 6, 2006 1:11 am
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August gets me to thinking about my parents both Leos who are now in the SpiritWorld. Growing up with two Leo parents may be the reason I went deaf.

My father was a Korean and Vietnam War Veteran. He was hurt in a Hotel Bombing in Saigon and that was the end of his military career. For the rest of his life he continued to watch military television shows like Combat, Hogan's Heroes and the Green Berets. My Mother was a major league nag - and that is a mild deception of what she was. I sometime wonder if that is why he VOLUNTEERED for Vietnam. He left her in the States with five . Sometimes, I speculate that her nagging lead him into an early grave.

He was at the Veteran's Hospital - told the Nurse that he was take a shower before watching another Military Television Show. He collapse in the shower and into the spirit world he went.

Mother wanted him to be buried in his old Uniform but wondered how the Mortician would fit it on him. She was assured that they would make it fit. I didn't have the heart to tell her that they would cut the back and fit it around him. He needed a brown shirt for the Uniform. I dyed a white shirt in tea to make it brown. Not quite up to Military standards but the creator won't object.

We placed a box of cigars with a lighter in the coffin. I placed a gold cross in his hand and noticed that he was not wearing any pants. I visualized him meeting his maker with no pants but at least he could light his cigar.

My mother had a habit of making a big scene and having a nervous break-down whenever somebody died. My father's death obviously no exception. It was more painful dealing with my Mother's pain than it was my father's death. I was not able to cry until three months later.

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My Mother's Wake and Never Book A Flight on a Full Moon
Posted:Aug 5, 2006 12:34 am
Last Updated:Aug 8, 2006 11:15 pm
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In July, my mother died suddenly and unexpectedly. She died in Las Vegas. There was a grave site waiting for my mother next to my father who is buried in California. The Burial Insurance had lapsed.

My sister and I pondered on how we were going to get Mother to California and transport ourselves to California as well. "We are not," I told my sister. We agreed to split the cost of cremation. Mother would have been rolling around in her ashes if she knew what we were doing.

"We are not taking her to California," my sister advised us. We'll scatter her ashes along a river in Arkansas. "Isn't that against the Catholic Rules," my youngest brother asked. "I think we can do it as long as she stays in a container, I answered my brother. He suggested that we bury her remains in his wife's family graveyard. A fence post digger should adequately do the job. Legally there the hole had to be at least three feet. Thus the arrangements were made.

My oldest brother picked the ashes and was advised to turn them over to the funeral director. He said there would be no funeral director. "Down South, they don't need no funeral director!" an elderly man listening in commented.

My younger was in California for the summer with his father. My older lived in California at the time. My boys collected dirt from my father's grave site. I booked a flight for my oldest to travel to West Virginia with the youngest . I should know better than to book a flight on a full moon. There was a security breech which caused a big mess at the Chicago Airport! My boys were stranded in Chicago! I was hysterical as I was talking to the airline. Is that plane going to wait for my boys. Nope! Eventually, I did talk to my sons. The Airport put them up at the Chicago Hilton. They thought it was cool.

They were a day late, but we still made it in time after 16 hour drive in time for Mother's Wake. Friar Tuck wasn't there. I did a Pagan Style Ceremony for my Southern Baptist Siblings. I explained the Medicine Wheel, the Red Road/Earth Walk and finally the Blue Road/Spirit World. I gave everyone some dirt from my Father's Grave. We added the dirt to her grave and each shared our relationship and a short story about Mother - We placed her remains in the three foot hole. I placed some crystals and rosary beads in there. My younger brother placed a can of coke in there for Mother. We did an energy circle and released my Mother's Spirit.

It may not have been the ceremony that she wanted but we did the best we could with what we had to work with and it turned out all right after all.

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Venus Return Chart - When Will Love Come
Posted:Aug 4, 2006 1:46 am
Last Updated:Aug 5, 2006 1:33 pm
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A Venus Return is when Venus returns to the same position that it was at Birth. This represents a window of time when a love connection is on the horizon.

First the BirthChart Is Cast
Native
July 26, 1951
Goose Creek - South Carolina
0617 AM EST
080W01'58 32N58'51


Sun/Rising Sign Leo keeping company with Pluto and Mercury. Taurus Moon Keeping Company with the Port of Fortune in the Tenth HOuse

Venus is in Virgo/ Mars is In Cancer


THIS MAN IS FIRE AND EARTH

Venus Return Chart
September 6, 2006
Grantville, GA
01:57 PM EDT
084W50'09 33N14'05


Late Summer begins the Window of Time for the Love Connection on the Horizon. The Ascendant is in Sagittarius Fifth House - keeping company with Pluto.

Sagattarius is travel, higher education and the spiritual community. The Fifth House is the House of Lovers. Pluto likes the walk on the mysterious side but makes for intense whoopee.


Mr. Fire and Earth takes a trip - encounters a dark lady and a good time is had by both.

Is Mr. Fire and Earth destined for a groomsuit. At this point we look at the Seventh HOuse which is occupied by a retrograded Aquarian Neptune. The Potential Partner is a creative soul into education. A teacher who left the scene and comes back into the picture.

Mr. Fire and Earth would do well with Ms. Water and Air.

Scorpio Sun - Gemini Moon

disclaimer - although this is the birthday of a real person - the place and time of birth are fictious
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Boycott or a Conspiracy? Horary Astrology Is In The Know
Posted:Jul 28, 2006 9:32 am
Last Updated:Aug 25, 2014 1:40 am
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The Questions are disappearing , the scores are changing. Is it a Boycott or a Conspiracy? The Stars will solve the great mystery.

The Question???
Boycott? Conspiracy? WTF
Mystery of the Disappearing Questions
July 27, 2006 - Crab Orchard KY
0955 AM EDT 084W30'24 37N27'52



The Chart is Cast
Ascendant is 13 Degrees Virgo
keeping company with the 1st House South Node and a 12th House Moon and Mars


Virgo can be a nitpicker or a troubleshooter, good or bad depending on the prospective
The 12th House is secrets - The Moon and Mars - Secret Aggressions done by anonymous profiles.

The Quadrant (Questioner is represented by the Traditional Ruler of Virgo which is A retrograded Cancer Mercury in the 11th House. Home/Community - A home away from home within the community. The Retrograde leaves and returns - Not a boycott at all. Simply going on vacation or taking a break. So what's the BFD.


The Sun and Saturn keeping company together in a Mosh Pit may be a bit too close for comfort. Leaving the scene is wise.

If there be a conspiracy - It would be found in the Seventh House of Open Enemies. Pisces with the North Node and Retrograded Uranus. Strange inspirations from too much firewater, wacky weed or perhaps ET forgot to phone home.

The Other Party is represented by a Scorpio Jupiter in the Third house. Kissin Cousins need to endulge in more whoopee and less wackyweed inspired fantasies.

and a good time will be had by all after all.


CYOA - Disclaimer
All conspiracy theories in this blog have no existance outside the imagination of ..........

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Eight Below - A Mushy Film for Lovers - Husky or Otherwse
Posted:Jul 23, 2006 2:19 pm
Last Updated:Aug 3, 2006 9:31 pm
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This movie is based on a true event in 1957, where an expedition in the Antarctica goes bad. The research team have to evacuate and leave behind Six Huskies and Two Malamutes who are forced to fend for themselves for over six months in the Antarctic Winter.

If you can imagine the look your gives you - when you leave him in the comfort of his own home. Visualize looking in the eyes of Maya, Max, Shorty, Dewey, Truman, Shadow, Buck and Old Jack who just saved your live while you leave them chained up in a storm. –


In the 1957 event - there were fifteen dogs and two survived.

In the movie there were Eight Dogs and Six Survived.

The Movie is filmed in bright daylight at a time Antarctica is locked in round-the-clock darkness during the Winter Months.


Nevertheless, a Walt Disney Movie can’t have too much darkness and doom. They would have never been able to film the beautiful scenery with the Gorgeous Pooches in the dark. The movie was actully filmed in Canada which is closer to the North Pole than the South Pole.

Hollywood is entitled to take a few creative liberties in the quest for entertainment. One of the dogs came from a puppy mill while another one came from the pound. Now they are Stars!


In the movie, a survivalist guide is ordered to take a geologist who is looking for a meteorite from Mercury through dangerous grounds with his team of sled dogs. The Scientist has a near mishap and the dogs bail him out. He has another accident because of Self-Will-Run-Riot and is rescued by Maya the Alpha Female in the pack.

It is Maya's leadership and the dogs working together keep the men alive, as the dogs drag their sled and its two–now unconscious–occupants back to base. The expedition team is forced to evacuate because of the storm of the century but there no room to bring the dogs. They are chained up and left to weather the storm. They are unable to come back for the dogs because of the storm.

The rest of the story is about how the animals eventually break loose from the chains and help each other survive and how their master desperately searches for a way to return to his beloved companions. The story has a happy ending when he is finally able to return and discover that six of the dogs survived.


This is the ideal feel good mushy movie for those of us who are people.



I wonder how Ferlin the Husky Hound Mutt would fare in the wilderness. I usually have to keep him out of trouble rather than the other way around. I did get lost in the woods once and I suspect Ferlin could have found his way out quicker than I did.

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Timing of A Relationship Via Astrology
Posted:Jul 20, 2006 10:08 pm
Last Updated:Jul 26, 2006 6:40 am
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The techniques used in the study of this "first meeting" chart are culled from the branch of astrology called Electional Astrology, Although it is actually an event chart rather than an Electional Chart.

The Question is asked and the Chart is Cast
When Man Finally Meets Woman On SFF Campus - Is it a Love Connection according to the Stars???
June 18, 2006
1330:54 EDT
080W25'45 37N48'06


The Ascendant is 29 degrees Virgo with a 00degrees Libra South Node on the horizon

The Moon is 29 degrees Pisces with a 00degree Aries North Node in the Seventh House.

Chiron keeps company with Neptune in the Fifth House. dealing with addiction issues return to a healing community.


Both the man and woman have unfinished business before they can move forward into a relationship.

The Woman is represented by the Traditonal Ruler of Virgo - Cancer Mercury in the Tenth House with the Port of Fortune. It is best to focus on Professional and Business Ventures and let the Relationship issues heal in their own time.

The Man is represented by A Retrograded Jupiter in the Second HOuse. He has lost his fortune because of his previous relationship but it will return to him.

So.............is it a love connection. If they focus on the unfinished business - they will gain more clarity on what direction required for moving forward.


Either Way, it is not wise to push the river. It will flow the way it wants to.
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Time Warp????? Miscommunications????? It's Mercury REtrograde's FauLt!!!!
Posted:Jul 20, 2006 6:16 pm
Last Updated:Aug 25, 2014 1:42 am
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Did it go through a time warp?????
OK, WTF???

Could it be the SFF Police or did everyone escape from the same boobie hatch.
Surely they are not smoking or drinking Mind-Altering chemicals - allopathic or otherwise.


There are pages and pages of old posts over the newer one. Perhaps it's those darn Blog Bullies. A Time Warp maybe? or maybe it's


Mercury Retrograde!!!

Miscommunications and Mix-up is the usual Forte of Mercury Retrograde which happens about three times a year.


THE HORARY CHART IS CAST:
Is It Mercury Retrograde's Fault???
July 20, 2006 2014:32 EDT
080W32'22 37N44'42


The Ascendant is 22 Degrees Capricorn
The Moon is 5 Degrees Gemini in the Fifth House.
The Planetary Hour is
MERCURY!!!!!


Capricorn can be a grouch but behind closed doors - Capricorn Sizzles.

A Gemini Moon in the Fifth House of Pleasure. Some Folks from a distance are watching the miscommunications in action and having a good laugh!

THE NATIVE IS REPRESENTED A SEVENTH HOUSE SATURN WHICH IS DOING THE WILD AND WICKED DANCE WITH BRATTY MARS WITH LEO INTECEPTING. THE SUN AND RETROGRADED MERCURY AND ARE ARE HOT TO TROTTING TOGETHER WITH CANCER IN THE SEVENTH HOUSE.

The Seventh HOuse deals with Relationship issues. Folks are becoming couples and keeping house together.


However!!!!!!

something is about to get heated up on the home front. So will these new couples make passion love or passionate war???? Perhaps a combination thereof. It depends on which aspect of planetary energies the couples wish to utilize.

Nevertheless..................Mercury will be direct in about a week so the magazine postings should strighten out. It is going to be really really interesting to see what Mars does to it in August. Blogland is going to be a much much safe to watch as the Natives declares, "That Darn Star was right after all AS USUAL!!!!

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