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camphilllady 73 F
3  Articles
Making Friends (or More) Through the Internet   3/15/2006

After one and half years on three different internet "meeting" sites I've met some people in person, dated a few and talked to hundreds in chatrooms, IM and via email. It's brought me to a few conclusions:
1. Take each encounter as exactly that...an encounter. Some people will like you and some won't. Some will have needs you can't meet and some will not meet the needs you have. ...


1 Comments, 92 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
LehighVGuy 61 M
1  Article
Instant messenger Scams   3/4/2006

While using the Instant Messenger, I have often been invited to chat by a variety of people who have this general profile: young woman, attractive, often a "missionary" living in Africa, and immediately wants to continue our chat on Yahoo Messenger. I have "strung" them along and a few ask for money to help them get back to the U.S. because she is Sooo in love with me and what a great time ...


3 Comments, 92 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
cybersex   3/2/2006

SOME men, not all, are either really conceited to the height that women are sick of hearing about all their fame and fortune, and that they are looking for a nice lady to retire with, or they are into cybersex and exposing their body all over the world, thru a screen, yet, plus encouraging all the young ladies 18 and older to email them. Women, on the other hand, most of them, are looking ...


3 Comments, 128 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
Shattered Moments   2/17/2006

This has been passed through and around for along time and yet we are still all wondering just what is the reason that couple's, after years of marriage, feel its time to call it quits. Why don't they want to stay with the one that they have romanced, fell in love with raised a family with, and grew together over and over, throughout the years. Had many of argruements, worked together on ...


4 Comments, 105 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
pomeroy 69 F
4  Articles
Valentines Day alone, The Princessa Treatment for Women   2/8/2006

Valentines Day, Alone, Sounds a little dismal eh? Whether it is a temporary condition, brought on by your busy days, or you haven’t found the one, or the one isn’t near, it could really “bum you out, ” unless you remember that you are a Princessa. A true Princessa knows that she has alone time, and that precious time will be spent to revitalize, luxuriously, ...


4 Comments, 113 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
drummerdude 59 M
1  Article
Rudeness in not responding to ones add   2/3/2006

Have you ever noticed how many people write letters to each other here, and you never get a response? We all tend in this world to be rude in some form, fashion or style, wether we think we are being that way on purpose or not. The same goes in responding to ones add's here on Senior Friend Finder. I have noticed that if someone isn't interested in another person, instead of not taking a ...


2 Comments, 174 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
blubabyxxoo 57 F
6  Articles
Oh my gosh!!!!   1/28/2006

Why is it when you ask a man to send another photo they always seem to have a nude photo handy? Now I am soooo not a prude. And I also actually take a good look at these pictures lol...but come on......Do these guys think that I can actually take them serious after they send me a nude ( at least so soon) ha ha Plus I am amazed at the number of men that have photo's of their penis'. Come on ...


2 Comments, 58 Views, 9 Votes ,5.56 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Some are loners.   1/8/2006

For many of us, it seems we were meant to be alone. The question is why. <br> Put yourself out there is what we are told. So we try. It still doesn't seem to work. <br> I've had many blessings. Have a lot to offer. But that doesn't guarantee anything. <br> Life isn't easy and it never will be. But it could be easier if it was divided by 2. The realities of life ...


1 Comments, 142 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
Lollipop2005 80 F
1  Article
WHY IS IT THAT YOU MEN DON'T EVEN RESPOND?   12/31/2005

I am relatively new to Senior Friendfinders but find that although I have searched and answered say "Men searching Women" sections in different states and Canada and not even ONE reply. Has anyone else had this luck??? I don't know if these are old names and profiles they're using or still have not removed those that were fortunate enough to have found their "true love" or perhaps they ...


5 Comments, 378 Views, 15 Votes ,4.66 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Do you ever wonder?   12/26/2005

We put our pictures and profiles in here but get passed up a lot. Do you ever wonder what the viewer sees or what crosses the viewers mind when they read the profile? Or even an email? <br> I have many times said just a few words to a guy and he zooms out of sight never to be seen again. Makes me wonder if I have horns that I can't see, or speak a language understood only by me. ...


2 Comments, 98 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
can one know   12/19/2005

I have never been involved with anyone on here before or had a long distance relationship. Do we just play the role and hope for the best or do we insist on meeting somewhere along the way.Take two people of the opposite sex that feels the chemistry just by communicating with each other, and, yes, possibly seeing pictures of the other, where does one draw the line and say we need to meet. ...


8 Comments, 310 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Meditiaton to Visualize Prosperous Financial Reality   12/4/2005

Write down everything that opposes you in getting the prosperous financial reality that you desire could be;fear, lack of experience, lack of contacts, ad infitum). Also take one piece of parchment paper and write the same things on it. <br> Every night for three nights keep writing everything that you can think of , burn the papers with the writings on it while visualizing ...


1 Comments, 101 Views, 15 Votes ,0.68 Score
makarsa 65 M
10  Articles
Restlessness and discontent   11/27/2005

Generally I give preferance to unconvetional, new ideas, excitement and changes but become easily boared and also move on prematurely put the things unfinished.Nevertheless, can you suggest me how can I get rid from the deep inner restlessness and all discontents?


3 Comments, 115 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Turn On My Light   11/11/2005

Maybe it would be a good idea if SFF started a new section on "Why Doesn't My Light Shine" Just a section where we could go in and ask for personal opinions of why we are bombing in here. Then others could tell us why they decline us or pass us by. Just constructive criticism. Not to be mean but to be honest and give us some pointers. We can't fix it if we don't know what is broke.


0 Comments, 116 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
Buttercup999 68 F
3  Articles
A Woman's Advice on Men's Profiles   10/17/2005

Thank you for being willing to read this! So often I read a man's profile, and end up thinking "if only he hadn't written this or that sentence'" Am I too fussy? Certainly! But here's what I've been wanting to tell some of you men about your profiles...and maybe you can get more dates, who knows, by taking some of my ideas: <br> 1. Leave out ALL references to sex. Guys, ...


5 Comments, 331 Views, 25 Votes ,5.90 Score
Arizonablossom 61 F
2  Articles
Nursing Homes Should be better   10/8/2005

My father is in a nursing home. When I go to visit him, I know that he doesn't like it their, but, I know he's getting the care that he need's their. I feel very sad when it's time to leave. I know he doesn't want me to leave, or say good-bye. I've told him that I've their could be anywhere in the world that I would want him to be, it would doing what he use to do. He was a ham radio ...


3 Comments, 53 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
dlw78216 69 F
6  Articles
life, 101   9/25/2005

Stay in touch with your family. But don't live in the same town. <br> Make sure your know how much you love them. Make sure they also know that you are not the bank, the daycare or the doormat. <br> Get in shape, take pride in the way you look but understand that you probably didn't look like christie brinkley when you were young and you certainly aren't going to ...


1 Comments, 97 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
The Most   9/8/2005

The most destructive habit.......Worry The greatest Joy.................Giving The greatest loss............Loss of self-respect <br> The most satisfying work......Helping others The ugliest personality trait...Selfishness The most endangered species...Dedicated leaders <br> Our greatest natural resource...Our youth The greatest "shot in the arm"..Encouragement The ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Choosing Friends On The Internet   8/27/2005

It seems to me that many people choose their net friends by location. But I wonder what the criteria is? <br> There are certainly so many more people on the East and West coast than anywhere else. What about the rest of us? <br> Are we judged by our location or is it just that California and Florida, and maybe Texas sound so much more intriguing. And also across the ocean ...


0 Comments, 82 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
photos4Utoo 66 M
1  Article
Let your beauty shine!   8/23/2005

Add photos to your listing that show who you are. <br> Ideas on finding a photographer to work with: <br> Look for photographers on SFF. <br> Offer to model for photo classes at a local college. <br> If you like photography take a class and get to know others with this interest. <br> Thoughts on what you can do to help the photographer: ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 13 Votes ,1.63 Score
SasySheBear 64 F
4  Articles
Tired of Small Minds   8/23/2005

Here is a thought for those men out there who believe they have all the answers to the "big" ladies dilemmma. No one is accusing you of not taking notice of a beautiful, kind hearted, capable of returning more love than you can handle. However get your facts straight before writing an article about a topic you have no idea of what you know nothing about. Now that is not proper English I ...


2 Comments, 14 Views, 27 Votes ,4.50 Score
SasySheBear 64 F
4  Articles
Not So Confused   8/23/2005

Today I mananged to read every article placed here. I will say that I have the best laugh Ive had in months. Many articles were great and deserved to be here. The rest was mind boggling. Why so many of the same people wrote articles is beyond me. Why? Because all the articles written by the same people were complaints. Not once did they have a kind word to say, but only complained about the ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 30 Votes ,2.65 Score
lucylynn49 63 F
1  Article
The Big Red Flags   8/23/2005

Ever heard the expression, go with your gut feeling? It’s true you know. If you listen to your gut you can’t go wrong and soon you’ll understand which issue are going to be big red flags when meeting and dating on the Internet. I’ve listed a few below <br> 1. Do they live with ma? Unless there under 21 that might be a big red flag as to their ability ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 31 Votes ,6.59 Score
TreesandME 75 F
15  Articles
Relationship Doom...   8/11/2005

As a relationship gets deeper, many issues can surface, any one of which can spell doom. If you or your partner have any of the issues listed below, don't ruin your relationship by ignoring them. Be sure to talk about them openly and honestly. <br> Decision Making "I find myself paralyzed anytime I need to make an important decision." Living On the Sidelines "I'm not taking ...


0 Comments, 262 Views, 18 Votes ,2.58 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Are You Throwing Away Your Chances   8/9/2005

If you are a sincere guy and looking for a real relationship, don't throw it away. Guys seem to think women like all the sex talk and maybe some do. But it should not be the first item on the lets get acquainted list. It's a quick turn off. You could at least give it a little time to see if that is what she wants. When you come on so strong in the first two sentences, it appears to be ...


0 Comments, 101 Views, 12 Votes ,5.63 Score
cookieface 70 F
6  Articles
WHAT LADIES ARE LOOKING FOR!   7/23/2005

Naturally, I can only speak for myself; however, here goes: First, I joined this service to find someone who ACTUALLY READS my profile...which states exactly the type of person I seek! If I state that I won't answer winks or contacts without pictures, why on earth do I keep getting 'winks' with NO picture? In addition, (mind you, this is not meant to be disrespectful); however, it would ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 105 Votes ,1.17 Score
richard6029 72 M
28  Articles
How long to grow up?   7/22/2005

Human beings can be very cruel. We've all done it. Laughed at or called out some 'witty' remark. To someone with a deformity or illness. That makes them not quite 'normal'. 'If' I had been born with the sence I have now. Maybe I would not have made so many people unhappy. But it has taken half a century of life to learn this mistake. Yesterday I was in a pub having lunch. At the same time ...


1 Comments, 97 Views, 8 Votes ,6.26 Score
cel000 81 F
3  Articles
Love is Divine   7/10/2005

When you're 17 or 70, or in between, love is the supreme emotion that lifts you off the floor and lets you walk on air. When you're in love, everything is brighter and better. You feel like singing, dancing, whistling, skipping, kissing and touching. The sky is bluer, the dark clouds less threatening. Your smile is broader. You want to shout it from the housetops to tell the world the ...


1 Comments, 215 Views, 23 Votes ,5.93 Score
TreesandME 75 F
15  Articles
Social Tips for Rednecks ......   7/3/2005

and just plain good advice <br> In General... <br> 1. Never take a beer to an interview. 2. Always identify people in your yard before shooting them. 3. It's considered tacky to take a cooler to church. 4. If you have to vacuum the bed, it's time to change the sheets. 5. Even if you're certain that you're included in the will, it's rude to drive a U-haul to ...


2 Comments, 136 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
ACTS STRANGE?   6/24/2005

ACTS STRANGE? Is your very moody, doesn’t laugh, or doesn't like to be touched? Do they sit and stare blankly? Be very concerned, you are about to be tested. If they are ill at ease amongst almost all but you, be very suspicious! Lack of trust is a sure sign that something is very wrong in their lives. Good parents deal with a threat to their 's life. Bad parents look ...


4 Comments, 145 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score