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PhotoGuy1949 69 M
4  Articles
When the Honeymoon is Over   6/23/2005

It's an odd situation that affects almost all of us. What do we do to spice things up when the "Honeymoon is over"? Some people say a vacation, others say a bedroom wardrobe and others say counseling. Any ideas on what the best fix is?


1 Comments, 127 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Past Relationships   6/23/2005

If your last Relationship(s) have been wonderful, keep them locked in your heart and keep them safe. Those memories belong to you and you alone. And they are your treasure. <br> If they were lousy or worse, throw them away, they are old trash. That bag needs never to be opened again.


1 Comments, 117 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
PhotoGuy1949 69 M
4  Articles
How to Attract Her   6/2/2005

The age old question for men...."How do I get her attention?" Well, you May have already gotten her attention and don't even know it. On an everyday basis, I think we are observed more than we know. These are my ideas that will apply in most cases: 1. Be clean. No one likes to see dirty hands or clothes. If you smell like your favorite hunting dog, expect dogs to be attracted to you. ...


1 Comments, 145 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
lil2shy 72 F
1  Article
In need of advice   5/24/2005

New to meeting people on internet. Have winked and been winked at. Have viewed profile and looks fine. Have e-mail address and ready to go...where? Where to start? How much is too much/too little? Would appreciate you input.


2 Comments, 269 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
bklynblueeyes19 74 F
31  Articles
Response to "Matronly doesn't cut it" .........this isn't Victoria's Secret   5/24/2005

Do you see pictures here of men showing a little leg, waist or cleavage? Do men here look like Chippendale models? No on both counts. Women who post a photo showing self-esteem, good taste and restraint should be praised, not criticized. Good for the women in showing that this is the year 2004, not the era of the woman who had to rely only on the physical being to have value on this ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 90 Votes ,1.64 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
A Wink or A Note   5/8/2005

A Wink is fun but even a returned winked is only that. Just a Wink. Some of us cannot respond. Wouldn't a little note be better? You know something like "Hi, I think you're cute" or "Love Your Smile" etc. It really wouldn't take much but might get a response. <br> Sometimes when we get a wink, if we wink back we are hoping for some kind of response. The wink doesn't seem to lead ...


1 Comments, 101 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
Chinese Fable   5/2/2005

A water bearer in China had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which he carried across his neck. <br> One pot had a crack in it, while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water. <br> At the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full. <br> For a full two years this ...


0 Comments, 619 Views, 86 Votes ,8.82 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
How to Cross a River   4/30/2005

One day, three men were hiking and unexpectedly came upon a large raging, violent river. They needed to get to the other side, but had no idea of how to do so. <br> The first man prayed to God, saying, "Please God, give me the strength to cross this river." Poof! God gave him big arms and strong legs, and he was able to swim across the river in about two hours, after almost ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
What We Are Looking For   4/23/2005

Chat rooms are suppose to be Fun. It's Fantasy Land. Our Walt Disney World.....right at our finger tips. Where else can we meet and talk to folks all over the globe. This is where we go when we are all alone and hoping to find a friend. We can be anyone we want to be. Silly if we want to and no one to say we are just a bit off center. A place of solace and enjoyment when we are down ...


3 Comments, 266 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
The KEY TO HAPPINESS!   4/17/2005

YOU Need to Know There are so many bad ways to guide your life. If you buy into superficial beauty, and poor values, life will be questionable. Age can bring you either wisdom and satisfaction, or crush your life. The path you choose to follow can be strongly affected by others. <br> It’s your life. Want a good one? <br> ...


0 Comments, 178 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
Pay Back   3/21/2005

A wife was making a breakfast of fried eggs for her husband. Suddenly her husband burst into the kitchen. <br> "Careful. CAREFUL! Put in some more butter! Oh good grief! You're cooking too many at once. TOO MANY! Turn them! TURN THEM NOW! We need more butter. Oh Good Grief ! WHERE are we going to get MORE BUTTER? They're going to STICK! Careful CAREFUL! I said be ...


2 Comments, 167 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
Want to Jump Out of Bed Everyday?   3/21/2005

Want Love? Stop Being A Dork! Grow Up! Romance novels, magazines, and movies are for money! Don't let their ideas screw up your life. Get a great life! I am 55 and still haven’t found my soul mate. I have great values, and a wonderful life, filled with intensity and adventure! Meeting members of the opposite sex is difficult to avoid. Most don't have lives ...


1 Comments, 100 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
TO BE HAPPY YOU MUST KNOW!   3/7/2005

TO BE HAPPY YOU MUST KNOW! Sex is not the #1 value value in your life, even though it is very important! If you let it interfere with your judgment, you are in for a really bad time. This list is important in your life! So here it is. (Don’t be a stupid s***, not knowing this could really mess up your life!) You must judge this without asking. IF NOT PATIENT ENOUGH, ...


1 Comments, 224 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
LadyM 73 F
6  Articles
getting this club going is easy...   3/4/2005

Just because you are over 50, don't give up on people as friends. I joined to meet up with someone I couldn't write to without a membership, and wandered the chatlines to see who was on, and discovered nobody wants to talk unless its to the right person. Maybe its time people became more open and friendly and chatted a bit freely. There seems to be a snotty attitude of priggy ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 50 Votes ,2.69 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
What's Wrong With Women?   2/24/2005

What’s Wrong With Women? <br> There are Women, and there are Ladies. Speaking from a woman’s point of view, I am more afraid of Women. Most women are pretty nice, at least before some man messes them up. They can really be a treacherous enemy. Or they can be the sweetest possible heart you can find anywhere. Especially if a man is in the picture. It is bad ...


5 Comments, 217 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
Why God Made Moms   2/22/2005

(Answers given by elementary school age to the following questions.) <br> Why did God make mothers? 1. She's the only one who knows where the scotch tape is. 2. Mostly to clean the house. 3. To help us out of there when we were getting born. <br> How did God make mothers? 1. He used dirt, just like for the rest of us. 2. Magic plus super powers and a ...


1 Comments, 113 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
His Name was Fleming   2/18/2005

His name was Fleming, and he was a poor Scottish farmer. One day, while trying to make a living for his family, he heard a cry for help coming from a nearby bog. He dropped his tools and ran to the bog. There, mired to his waist in black muck, was a terrified boy, screaming and struggling to free himself. Farmer Fleming saved the lad from what could have been a slow and terrifying death. ...


1 Comments, 73 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Why Asking For Sex Is A Turn Off   2/14/2005

A large part of the Male population think they should ASK FOR SEX. Don't they know the turnoff is in the asking? Do men think women are so dumb as to not know what a man wants? If she was willing in the first place, the asking will probably send all romantic ideas out the window. A woman sees sex as a gift to someone she really cares for. Why would a man want to ruin a good thing. ...


2 Comments, 43 Views, 38 Votes ,7.14 Score
cookieface 70 F
6  Articles
LAME   2/12/2005

Does anyone out 'there' think this is the '...friendfinder' are the LAMEST personal services out there? First, they don't let you actually 'see' the profiles and PICTURES (browse) before joining...hmmmmmm THAT should tell one something! Then, IF one does get suckered into joining, one gets 'matches' that are nothing like the criteria listed. Thirdly, many of the contact members ...


3 Comments, 160 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
What's Wrong With Men?   2/12/2005

What’s Wrong With Men ? <br> Ok, so here we go with a birds eye view of the inner misgivings of a man. An entire room full of wonderful women. God Fearing, Smart, Pretty, Honest, Thoughtful, Intelligent, Caring, Faithful, Loving, Kind, Hard working, Dedicated, Inspiring, Friendly, Heart filled, Giving, and Willing women. All except one. That one is deceitful, ...


3 Comments, 147 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
Advice. Friends Have Great Lives? Who guided them?   2/10/2005

THE ROAD NOT TAKEN TWO ROADS DIVERGED IN A WOOD I TOOK THE ONE LESS TRAVELED BY AND THAT HAS MADE ALL THE DIFFERENCE Paraphrased R. Frost <br> DIFFERENCE IS STRENGTH Just exactly what does this mean? How can what is bad for most, be good for individuals? Here are some examples. The America Cup Race was 114 years old when this ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
Keep Your Fork   2/5/2005

There was a young woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal illness and had been given three months to live. So as she was getting her things "in order, " she contacted her Pastor and had him come to her house to discuss certain aspects of her final wishes. <br> She told him which songs she wanted sung at the service, what scriptures she would like read, and what outfit she ...


0 Comments, 624 Views, 79 Votes ,7.95 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
Lotus Touts   2/2/2005

ONE Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully. <br> TWO Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other. <br> THREE Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want. <br> FOUR When you say, "I love you, " mean it. <br> FIVE When you ...


0 Comments, 146 Views, 19 Votes ,6.82 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
Your Dessert Personality   2/2/2005

If all of the desserts listed below were sitting in front of you, which would you choose? Pick your dessert, then look to see what psychiatrists think about you! <br> (Sorry you can only pick one) <br> Angel Food Cake Brownies Lemon Meringue White Cake with Chocolate Icing Strawberry Shortcake Chocolate on Chocolate Cake Ice Cream Carrot Cake ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
A Whale of a Tale   1/28/2005

A little girl was talking to her teacher about whales. <br> The teacher said it was physically impossible for a whale to swallow a human because even though it was a very large mammal its throat was very small. <br> The little girl stated that Jonah was swallowed by a whale. Irritated, the teacher reiterated that a whale could not swallow a human; it was ...


0 Comments, 92 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
Cough Syrup   1/21/2005

The owner of this drug store walks in to find a guy leaning heavily against a wall. <br> The owner asks the clerk: "What's with that guy over there by the wall?" <br> The clerk responds: "Well, he came in here this morning to get something for his cough. I couldn't find the cough syrup, so I gave him an entire bottle of laxative." <br> The owner, ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
Lessons From a Hurricane   1/21/2005

I dedicate this to all those dear souls who endured 4 hurricanes in Florida last summer! <br> * Coffee and frozen pizzas can be made on a BBQ grill. * No matter how many times you flick the switch, lights don't work without electricity. * can survive 4 days or longer without a video game controller in their hand. * Cats are even more irritating without power. * He ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Adventrimax 73 M
18  Articles
Sex   1/11/2005

Sex is more fun than baseball and I've played both. <br> <br> I'm just not interested in sex anymore. Perhaps this comes from relatioship disappointments or just the cultural emphasis on it. <br> <br> I'm far more interested in what toppings a lady has on her coney. Ok, there's a sexual image there if you hold the onions. <br> <br> There ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
Karmagirl 54 F
1  Article
RE: Plus Size Women   1/2/2005

GIRL!! You have apparently been meeting the FEW MEN out there who do NOT appreciate a REAL WOMAN. I am a BBW and believe me I have YET to meet a man who did not appreciate me for ME. Men want a woman they can HOLD ON TO...not try to PROP UP from STARVATION. Its all about YOU and ATTITUDE towards YOURSELF. Walk into a room like you OWN IT girl. Keep your head high, dress appropriately, men ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 75 Votes ,0.34 Score
jstlkng 76 F
1  Article
Skeptical me, Successful us...   12/29/2004

Don't give up. If you too are skeptical , as I was, wondering if you are throwing your money away on a site that could not possibly find that certain someone .....I'm here to say it works! Of course there are stinkers and clinkers who will contact you, but they are pretty easy to spot ( and block). Shortly after reluctantly signing up with SFF, I was contacted by a man who actually lived ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 29 Votes ,7.75 Score