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Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Do you ever wonder?   5/27/2005

We put our pictures and profiles in here but get passed up a lot. Do you ever wonder what the viewer sees or what crosses the viewers mind when they read the profile? Or even an email? <br> I have many times said just a few words to a guy and he zooms out of sight never to be seen again. Makes me wonder if I have horns that I can't see, or speak a language understood only by me. ...


2 Comments, 98 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Choosing Friends On The Internet   5/22/2005

It seems to me that many people choose their net friends by location. But I wonder what the criteria is? <br> There are certainly so many more people on the East and West coast than anywhere else. What about the rest of us? <br> Are we judged by our location or is it just that California and Florida, and maybe Texas sound so much more intriguing. And also across the ocean ...


0 Comments, 82 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Am I Wrong?   5/18/2005

I certainly can't know what other ladies want but I sure do know what I would like to have. <br> I don't need things. They are unfulfilling! But I know that everyone is different. With different needs or desires. <br> I would like to see a smile, and know I put it there. I would love to look at eyes that sparkle and know it is just for me. I would like to wake up in the ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
How Good Can It Get?   5/18/2005

It's odd but true. There are so many of us in here with honest intentions. Men as well as women. We all are lonely and really wanting something more from life before it is too late. Even the game players have a need and have something in life that they are missing. <br> Since we all seem to speak a different language that is all our own, we seem to mess up without knowing why or ...


0 Comments, 63 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
A Wink or A Note   5/7/2005

A Wink is fun but even a returned winked is only that. Just a Wink. Some of us cannot respond. Wouldn't a little note be better? You know something like "Hi, I think you're cute" or "Love Your Smile" etc. It really wouldn't take much but might get a response. <br> Sometimes when we get a wink, if we wink back we are hoping for some kind of response. The wink doesn't seem to lead ...


1 Comments, 101 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
How To Respond   5/5/2005

It would really be nice (I think) if some men would write some articles about what they would like to see as a response to an email. <br> So often we get a note and it says "You sound interesting, tell me more about yourself" or "We have a lot in common, would like to meet" or some such attention Then we send a return email and never hear from them again. Hmmmmm. ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
Why Do They Do That?   5/1/2005

We meet a good man. He is interesting and fun and then the tables turn. He starts talking about his former ladies and their escapades. Sorry fella's, we ladies don't really care what you did with someone else. Our moment starts from the time we meet. Before that is your own private sanctuary.....we don't care and prefer not to hear about it. We can't tell if you are bragging or comparing ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
PhotoGuy1949 69 M
4  Articles
When the Honeymoon is Over   4/30/2005

It's an odd situation that affects almost all of us. What do we do to spice things up when the "Honeymoon is over"? Some people say a vacation, others say a bedroom wardrobe and others say counseling. Any ideas on what the best fix is?


1 Comments, 127 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
PhotoGuy1949 69 M
4  Articles
How to Attract Her   4/29/2005

The age old question for men...."How do I get her attention?" Well, you May have already gotten her attention and don't even know it. On an everyday basis, I think we are observed more than we know. These are my ideas that will apply in most cases: 1. Be clean. No one likes to see dirty hands or clothes. If you smell like your favorite hunting dog, expect dogs to be attracted to you. ...


1 Comments, 145 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
Buttercup999 68 F
3  Articles
A Woman's Advice on Men's Profiles   4/25/2005

Thank you for being willing to read this! So often I read a man's profile, and end up thinking "if only he hadn't written this or that sentence'" Am I too fussy? Certainly! But here's what I've been wanting to tell some of you men about your profiles...and maybe you can get more dates, who knows, by taking some of my ideas: <br> 1. Leave out ALL references to sex. Guys, ...


5 Comments, 331 Views, 25 Votes ,5.90 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
TO BE HAPPY YOU MUST KNOW!   2/21/2005

TO BE HAPPY YOU MUST KNOW! Sex is not the #1 value value in your life, even though it is very important! If you let it interfere with your judgment, you are in for a really bad time. This list is important in your life! So here it is. (Don’t be a stupid s***, not knowing this could really mess up your life!) You must judge this without asking. IF NOT PATIENT ENOUGH, ...


1 Comments, 224 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
dlw78216 69 F
6  Articles
life, 101   2/20/2005

Stay in touch with your family. But don't live in the same town. <br> Make sure your know how much you love them. Make sure they also know that you are not the bank, the daycare or the doormat. <br> Get in shape, take pride in the way you look but understand that you probably didn't look like christie brinkley when you were young and you certainly aren't going to ...


1 Comments, 97 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
ACTS STRANGE?   2/19/2005

ACTS STRANGE? Is your very moody, doesn’t laugh, or doesn't like to be touched? Do they sit and stare blankly? Be very concerned, you are about to be tested. If they are ill at ease amongst almost all but you, be very suspicious! Lack of trust is a sure sign that something is very wrong in their lives. Good parents deal with a threat to their 's life. Bad parents look ...


4 Comments, 145 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
Grandkids Can't Swim? Be A Trusted Friend, Theyll Love You!   2/19/2005

SWIM IN 10 MINUTES $1 MTBSW* Lei was standing by the elevator of the Long Beach Airport Marriott, my favorite hotel chain. We talked for a moment, and cliqued instantly! Sparkling conversation took us all afternoon, and through dinner. Breathtaking tales of snorkeling, midst clouds of rainbow colored fish, had her filled with regret. “What’s ...


0 Comments, 63 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
Want to Jump Out of Bed Everyday?   2/19/2005

Want Love? Stop Being A Dork! Grow Up! Romance novels, magazines, and movies are for money! Don't let their ideas screw up your life. Get a great life! I am 55 and still haven’t found my soul mate. I have great values, and a wonderful life, filled with intensity and adventure! Meeting members of the opposite sex is difficult to avoid. Most don't have lives ...


1 Comments, 100 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
Pay Back   2/19/2005

A wife was making a breakfast of fried eggs for her husband. Suddenly her husband burst into the kitchen. <br> "Careful. CAREFUL! Put in some more butter! Oh good grief! You're cooking too many at once. TOO MANY! Turn them! TURN THEM NOW! We need more butter. Oh Good Grief ! WHERE are we going to get MORE BUTTER? They're going to STICK! Careful CAREFUL! I said be ...


2 Comments, 167 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
Why God Made Moms   2/19/2005

(Answers given by elementary school age to the following questions.) <br> Why did God make mothers? 1. She's the only one who knows where the scotch tape is. 2. Mostly to clean the house. 3. To help us out of there when we were getting born. <br> How did God make mothers? 1. He used dirt, just like for the rest of us. 2. Magic plus super powers and a ...


1 Comments, 113 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
lil2shy 72 F
1  Article
In need of advice   2/17/2005

New to meeting people on internet. Have winked and been winked at. Have viewed profile and looks fine. Have e-mail address and ready to go...where? Where to start? How much is too much/too little? Would appreciate you input.


2 Comments, 269 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
The KEY TO HAPPINESS!   2/13/2005

YOU Need to Know There are so many bad ways to guide your life. If you buy into superficial beauty, and poor values, life will be questionable. Age can bring you either wisdom and satisfaction, or crush your life. The path you choose to follow can be strongly affected by others. <br> It’s your life. Want a good one? <br> ...


0 Comments, 178 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
What We Are Looking For   2/13/2005

Chat rooms are suppose to be Fun. It's Fantasy Land. Our Walt Disney World.....right at our finger tips. Where else can we meet and talk to folks all over the globe. This is where we go when we are all alone and hoping to find a friend. We can be anyone we want to be. Silly if we want to and no one to say we are just a bit off center. A place of solace and enjoyment when we are down ...


3 Comments, 266 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
Old Men Can Still Think!   2/10/2005

An elderly man in Florida had owned a large farm for several years. He had a large pond in the back, fixed up nice; picnic tables, horseshoe courts, and some apple and peach trees. The pond was properly shaped and fixed up for swimming when it was built. One evening, the old farmer decided to go down to the pond, as he hadn't been there for a while, and look it over. He grabbed a ...


1 Comments, 2186 Views, 335 Votes ,6.96 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
Advice. Friends Have Great Lives? Who guided them?   2/10/2005

THE ROAD NOT TAKEN TWO ROADS DIVERGED IN A WOOD I TOOK THE ONE LESS TRAVELED BY AND THAT HAS MADE ALL THE DIFFERENCE Paraphrased R. Frost <br> DIFFERENCE IS STRENGTH Just exactly what does this mean? How can what is bad for most, be good for individuals? Here are some examples. The America Cup Race was 114 years old when this ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
Get What You Want Out of Life! Excerpt from my book.   2/10/2005

CHANGE Why do we fear it? Is staying in place worth Not knowing what is around the next corner? Taking a step is not jumping off a cliff. Safety can be death. Familiarity can suffocate. The abyss you fear Is a womb of rose petals, A soft pillow of reward for the risk you took in moving off your position. Jump and touch the sky. Your arms extend into the infinite, ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
Chinese Fable   2/8/2005

A water bearer in China had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which he carried across his neck. <br> One pot had a crack in it, while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water. <br> At the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full. <br> For a full two years this ...


0 Comments, 619 Views, 86 Votes ,8.82 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
His Name was Fleming   2/6/2005

His name was Fleming, and he was a poor Scottish farmer. One day, while trying to make a living for his family, he heard a cry for help coming from a nearby bog. He dropped his tools and ran to the bog. There, mired to his waist in black muck, was a terrified boy, screaming and struggling to free himself. Farmer Fleming saved the lad from what could have been a slow and terrifying death. ...


1 Comments, 73 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
gentlewar 75 M
22  Articles
You A Writer? Learn if you are pleasant to correspond to. Fair?   2/5/2005

Gentle cheer, bids you share, quiet morning. Mists, softly lifting, just before dawn. A time for thinking, surrounded by tranquil feelings of daybreak. Still dark, but soon. The beauty of the sun, breathes a delicate glow, into the night. So subtle, you don't even know, ‘til the trees, walk into the light. Day begins. Gentle Warrior calls your name. A magical adventure ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 0 Votes
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
The Little Things   1/31/2005

The 'L I T T L E' things . <br> As you might know, the head of the company survived 9/11 because his started kindergarten. <br> Another fellow was alive because it was his turn to bring donuts. <br> One woman was late because her alarm clock didn't go off in time. <br> One was late because of being stuck on the NJ Turnpike because of an auto ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
What's Wrong With Women?   1/30/2005

What’s Wrong With Women? <br> There are Women, and there are Ladies. Speaking from a woman’s point of view, I am more afraid of Women. Most women are pretty nice, at least before some man messes them up. They can really be a treacherous enemy. Or they can be the sweetest possible heart you can find anywhere. Especially if a man is in the picture. It is bad ...


5 Comments, 217 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
Scooter104 87 F
32  Articles
What's Wrong With Men?   1/30/2005

What’s Wrong With Men ? <br> Ok, so here we go with a birds eye view of the inner misgivings of a man. An entire room full of wonderful women. God Fearing, Smart, Pretty, Honest, Thoughtful, Intelligent, Caring, Faithful, Loving, Kind, Hard working, Dedicated, Inspiring, Friendly, Heart filled, Giving, and Willing women. All except one. That one is deceitful, ...


3 Comments, 147 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
kag0113 73 F
56  Articles
Tequila & Salt   1/29/2005

You may not realize it, but it's 100% true.... <br> There are at least two people in this world that you would die for. <br> At least 15 people in this world love you in some way. <br> The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you. <br> A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don't like you. ...


0 Comments, 54 Views, 7 Votes ,5.84 Score