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Old Men Can Still Think! 7/12/2006
An elderly man in Florida had owned a large farm for several
years. He had a large pond in the back, fixed up nice; picnic
tables, horseshoe courts, and some apple and peach trees.
The pond was properly shaped and fixed up for swimming when
it was built.
One evening, the old farmer decided to go down to the pond,
as he hadn't been there for a while, and look it over.
He grabbed a ...
1 Comments, 2186 Views,
335 Votes
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Advice for Widowers 3/29/2008
Dear Members,
I titled this article "Adive for Widowers"
because I only communicate with the gentlemen members,
but I'm sure this could probably apply to the women
as well.
Gentlemen, I think it's wonderful that you had such
a long and happy marriage and I'm sure that most of us
wish we had been that fortunate. That being ...
2 Comments, 1740 Views,
219 Votes
,8.51 Score |
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Create a New Life byGetting Rid of Physical Clutter and Emotional Baggage 10/17/2006
Getting rid of clutter is essential to good feng shui! Physical
clutter parallels with emotinal baggage. It you have to
struggle to walk through your home, you will also struggle
through other aspects of your life. I put together a tangible
way to get rid of the clutter and the baggage at the same time.
The first step is to meditate on an area in my life that needs
improvement. For ...
5 Comments, 2069 Views,
219 Votes
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why not put a picture online for men to see? 7/31/2006
I get a lot of emails however the great majority of them do
not have a photo online. I believe it is necessary to see
what the other party looks like. Looks is not everything
but I believe there has to be an attraction and chemistry
to follow up on talking to them or meeting them. I definitely
would not travel a very long distance to meet someone sight
unseen. What is everyone else opinion ...
0 Comments, 37 Views,
211 Votes
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Self Value 6/23/2007
I started my Spring Cleaning in my garage. Looking through
all school papers, I found this passage and wanted to share
it with you. Unfortunately, it does not state the author
to give him/her credit... A well-known speaker started off his seminar by holding
up a twenty-dollar bill in the room of two hunded: "Who
would like this twenty-dollar bill?" Hands started
going up. He said: "I am going ...
2 Comments, 890 Views,
108 Votes
,7.96 Score |
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WHAT LADIES ARE LOOKING FOR! 7/23/2005
Naturally, I can only speak for myself; however, here goes:
First, I joined this service to find someone who ACTUALLY
READS my profile...which states exactly the type of person
I seek! If I state that I won't answer winks or contacts
without pictures, why on earth do I keep getting 'winks'
with NO picture? In addition, (mind you, this is not meant
to be disrespectful); however, it would ...
0 Comments, 43 Views,
105 Votes
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Response to "Matronly doesn't cut it" .........this isn't Victoria's Secret 5/24/2005
Do you see pictures here of men showing a little leg, waist
or cleavage? Do men here look like Chippendale models?
No on both counts. Women who post a photo showing self-esteem,
good taste and restraint should be praised, not criticized.
Good for the women in showing that this is the year 2004,
not the era of the woman who had to rely only on the physical
being to have value on this ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
90 Votes
,1.64 Score |
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Chinese Fable 5/2/2005
A water bearer in China had two large pots, each hung on the
ends of a pole which he carried across his neck.
<br>
One pot had a crack in it, while the other pot was perfect
and always delivered a full portion of water.
<br>
At the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the
cracked pot arrived only half full.
<br>
For a full two years this ...
0 Comments, 619 Views,
86 Votes
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How does an older woman get responses? 11/2/2004
How does an older woman, who is younger looking and acting
for her age, sell herself to men her age or younger, when
she is an honest, loving, kind, passionate, humorous,
caring person with a heart of gold that just wants a man to
share her life, or give her a chance to be a friend, spend
time with her to see if anything more than friendship could
develop? I am a widow and would like to ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
81 Votes
,8.18 Score |
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Keep Your Fork 2/5/2005
There was a young woman who had been diagnosed with a terminal
illness and had been given three months to live. So as she
was getting her things "in order, " she contacted
her Pastor and had him come to her house to discuss certain
aspects of her final wishes.
<br>
She told him which songs she wanted sung at the service,
what scriptures she would like read, and what outfit she ...
0 Comments, 624 Views,
79 Votes
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RE: Plus Size Women 1/2/2005
GIRL!! You have apparently been meeting the FEW MEN out
there who do NOT appreciate a REAL WOMAN. I am a BBW and believe
me I have YET to meet a man who did not appreciate me for ME.
Men want a woman they can HOLD ON TO...not try to PROP UP from
STARVATION. Its all about YOU and ATTITUDE towards YOURSELF.
Walk into a room like you OWN IT girl. Keep your head high,
dress appropriately, men ...
0 Comments, 48 Views,
75 Votes
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Senior FF Question!!! 11/13/2004
Is anyone else out there frustrated with the fact that after
one's membership expires, one can't 'see'
pictures and profiles---???? This is the ONLY service
whereby this occurs (exception: FrienFinder --same company).
<br>
I MIGHT 'join' again, IF I COULD SEE the people
who are posting profiles! Personally, I'm NOT going
to put my money back into a membership, 'till I see the ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
74 Votes
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Why dont men take serious the the friendships? 11/15/2006
Why dont men take serious the friendships?
I have encountered many examples in my SFF life where men
consider my friendship only as a game or passing their time.
They like saying "You are my friend" or "We
could have a nice friendship going on here" but in
my experiences there is nothing behind the words.
They have been playing games and gave very much pain and
tears with this to me. In ...
0 Comments, 68 Views,
70 Votes
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Why can't you reply? 7/16/2007
Why is it that people do not or cannot be bothered to reply
to either winks or messages?. I get so disheartened and
wonder why i am bothering when no one cares enough to respond
to my advances. Even if they only said 'thanks but no
thanks', it's at least something and you know
not to bother then again.
I'm not asking anyone to marry me, just to maybe talk
and get to know them, to see if ...
0 Comments, 79 Views,
65 Votes
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Glamour Shots (Photos) 6/17/2006
I'm certainly no expert on the "whys and wherefores"
of finding someone on these site's. However, I can
speak from personal experience about viewing the so-called
"glamour shots" that many women post for their
pictures. Certainly they are beautiful to behold, and
I know most women like to be seen with a beautiful dress and
all the accouterments they would wear on an evening out
on the ...
5 Comments, 198 Views,
63 Votes
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getting this club going is easy... 3/4/2005
Just because you are over 50, don't give up on people
as friends.
I joined to meet up with someone I couldn't write to
without a membership, and wandered the chatlines to see
who was on, and discovered nobody wants to talk unless its
to the right person.
Maybe its time people became more open and friendly and
chatted a bit freely.
There seems to be a snotty attitude of priggy ...
0 Comments, 55 Views,
50 Votes
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I've been used by two wives financialy &mentaly 4/6/2007
I used to respect and love women but I've been used so badly
I don't think there are any honest good women that exist
any more. I dont want to go it alone but I just may do that.
because of my looks and build there are some gay guys at the
gym I just joined trying to convince me to "go the other way".
They tell me to visit them and just let it happen. I want and
need a woman but I've been ...
2 Comments, 83 Views,
44 Votes
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Why Asking For Sex Is A Turn Off 2/14/2005
A large part of the Male population think they should ASK
FOR SEX. Don't they know the turnoff is in the asking?
Do men think women are so dumb as to not know what a man wants?
If she was willing in the first place, the asking will probably
send all romantic ideas out the window.
A woman sees sex as a gift to someone she really cares for.
Why would a man want to ruin a good thing. ...
2 Comments, 43 Views,
38 Votes
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The Big Red Flags 8/23/2005
Ever heard the expression, go with your gut feeling?
It’s true you know. If you listen to your gut you can’t go
wrong and soon you’ll understand which issue are going
to be big red flags when meeting and dating on the Internet.
I’ve listed a few below
<br>
1. Do they live with ma? Unless there under 21 that might
be a big red flag as to their ability ...
0 Comments, 50 Views,
31 Votes
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Not So Confused 8/23/2005
Today I mananged to read every article placed here. I will
say that I have the best laugh Ive had in months. Many articles
were great and deserved to be here. The rest was mind boggling.
Why so many of the same people wrote articles is beyond me.
Why? Because all the articles written by the same people
were complaints. Not once did they have a kind word to say,
but only complained about the ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
30 Votes
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Skeptical me, Successful us... 12/29/2004
Don't give up. If you too are skeptical , as I was, wondering
if you are throwing your money away on a site that could not
possibly find that certain someone .....I'm here
to say it works! Of course there are stinkers and clinkers
who will contact you, but they are pretty easy to spot ( and
block). Shortly after reluctantly signing up with SFF,
I was contacted by a man who actually lived ...
0 Comments, 40 Views,
29 Votes
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The First Chakra - The Root of is all!!!!! 12/24/2006
The First Chakra has the major energy field found by the
base of the spine. There are also whirls of energy that can
be in the legs and feet. Issues with the First Chakra are
Tribal Roots, Group Safety, and security. Sypmtoms of
First Chakra Inbalance is Lower back pain, depression,
and the immune system. The Root Chakra can be strengthened
by writing about the Root issues to find ...
2 Comments, 96 Views,
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Just for today 3/29/2006
Beware the ides of March!!
4 Comments, 119 Views,
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Tired of Small Minds 8/23/2005
Here is a thought for those men out there who believe they
have all the answers to the "big" ladies dilemmma.
No one is accusing you of not taking notice of a beautiful,
kind hearted, capable of returning more love than you can
handle. However get your facts straight before writing
an article about a topic you have no idea of what you know
nothing about. Now that is not proper English I ...
2 Comments, 14 Views,
27 Votes
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Don't Miss It!! 4/12/2006
On Wednesday at two minutes and three seconds after 1am
the time and date will be 01-02-03- 04-05-06.
This won't happen again until 3006.
Any gal want to join me at Doc's for tacos, beer and levity
to watch this once in a lifetime event roll in? If so, just
show up around 6pm and ask for Bill's table.
1 Comments, 71 Views,
25 Votes
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A Woman's Advice on Men's Profiles 10/17/2005
Thank you for being willing to read this! So often I read
a man's profile, and end up thinking "if only
he hadn't written this or that sentence'"
Am I too fussy? Certainly! But here's what I've
been wanting to tell some of you men about your profiles...and
maybe you can get more dates, who knows, by taking some of
my ideas:
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1. Leave out ALL references to sex. Guys, ...
5 Comments, 331 Views,
25 Votes
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Written Laws verus Unwritten Customs 12/27/2006
No written law has ever been
more binding than unwritten custom supported by popular
opinion.
Carrie Chapman Catt (1859-1947)
Speech at the Senate hearing on woman's suffrage,
February 13, 1900
Not following the Crowd can
be very good...
4 Comments, 130 Views,
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Something New Under The Sun?? 4/12/2006
Has our game evolved from who can post the most articles/answers
to who can use the most bandwidth with the largest colored
fonts?
1 Comments, 125 Views,
24 Votes
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Am I asking for the impossible? 5/13/2006
My profile says it all. i am terminally ill and I am still
looking for that someone to caress me and hold me. Is this
asking to much of a man? I know if I found a man and he feel in
love with me it would be an unjustice because I would soon
leave him a widower. I am totally confused, because my heart
wants so much to be loved and wanted, but reality kicks in
and I know there is no man going ...
10 Comments, 458 Views,
23 Votes
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Love is Divine 7/10/2005
When you're 17 or 70, or in between, love is the supreme
emotion that lifts you off the floor and lets you walk on
air. When you're in love, everything is brighter and
better. You feel like singing, dancing, whistling, skipping,
kissing and touching. The sky is bluer, the dark clouds
less threatening. Your smile is broader. You want to shout
it from the housetops to tell the world the ...
1 Comments, 215 Views,
23 Votes
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Getting Started 5/8/2008
We did not know how to get started in the swinging life still.
Then we saw the web site for the Mountain Retreat we called
and got directions to the retreat. There was no presser
at all and the people we met were great, we had a great time
in the hot tub and pool. We did have are first foursome and
we have been back to the retreat several times. If you are
into swinging or would like to ...
0 Comments, 59 Views,
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Body Image 7/18/2007
Unrealistic expectations, lack of communication and
being slaves to stereotypes are some of the reasons for
broken relationships that we all have experienced. Real
intimacy is built on acceptance, respect, honesty, tenderness
and a passion for the spirit of our partner. If at this stage
in our lifecycle we are imprisioned by old ideas, requirements
and shortsightedness, we are then doomed ...
1 Comments, 27 Views,
21 Votes
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Lotus Touts 2/2/2005
ONE
Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.
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TWO
Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you get older, their
conversational skills will be as important as any other.
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THREE
Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep
all you want.
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FOUR
When you say, "I love you, " mean it.
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FIVE
When you ...
0 Comments, 146 Views,
19 Votes
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Responding to a 'first date article' Found in 'Advice on emails'. GO figure. 11/1/2004
Note:
Original article text is/are preceded with an dash (-).
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- (First Dates Article)
- I can't say how many times I receive a message from
a man who wants to chat, meet, - move in with me and/or marry
me without so much as having received an email back - from
me!
<br>
Gee, What an ego trip YOUR on!
<br>
Slow down, relax, take a deep breath.
<br> ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
19 Votes
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Relationship Doom... 8/11/2005
As a relationship gets deeper, many issues can surface,
any one of which can spell doom. If you or your partner have
any of the issues listed below, don't ruin your relationship
by ignoring them. Be sure to talk about them openly and honestly.
<br>
Decision Making
"I find myself paralyzed anytime I need to make an
important decision." Living On the Sidelines
"I'm not taking ...
0 Comments, 262 Views,
18 Votes
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Hooking the Pisces into Matrimony 12/27/2006
Pisces can be like gently ocean waves cleansing the soul
after being mangled by an agressive Aries, Nitpicked by
a Virgo or manipulated by a Scorpio. The Pisces will bring
you homemade chicken soup when you are feeling blue.
The Pisces is a good listener, compassionate and caring.
The interesting thing about the Pisces male is that they
are not sexually forward yet they get ...
4 Comments, 207 Views,
17 Votes
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Chakra Balancing and Cleansing the Aura 12/27/2006
Root Chakra Red
Naval Chakra Orange
COLOR orange]SolarPlex Chakra Yellow
Heart Chakra - Green
Throat Chakra
Third Eye Chakra - Blue
Crown Chakra Silver
Chakra are whirls of energy within the Aura- When they
are block - ...
1 Comments, 46 Views,
17 Votes
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HIGH ACHIEVER 12/27/2006
"Success is not measured by what you accomplish
but by the opposition you have encountered, and the courage
with which you have maintained the struggle against overwhelming
odds."
Orison Swett Marden
HIGH ACHIEVER...
1 Comments, 49 Views,
17 Votes
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Response to "Why senior men seek younger women" 10/25/2004
In your article if appears as another reader stated you
are trying to justify something..what it is, I'm not
sure. I can think of many reasons why an older man might seek
out a younger woman and several of the reasons would have
nothing to do with sex. I am left with the impression, in
your opinion, sex is of the highest priority. I know of older
men that have had relationship's with ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
17 Votes
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Pysche Shielding and Self Defense. 12/28/2006
The best way to protect outselves from negative and toxic
energy is set healthy emotional boundaries The best psychic
shielding - from people who are harmful to us, unintentionally
or otherwise - is the ability to say "no" and
mean it. Define what is acceptable and unacceptable. Draw
those boundary lines and stick to them.
<br>
The best form of psychic self-defense is to ...
3 Comments, 97 Views,
16 Votes
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Healing Tears 12/27/2006
Most Air Signs - Gemini - Libra
- Aquarius are not comfortable with emotions. . Sorrow
is the Lover's Emotional State for expressing sadness.
The Loss of a Dream is often just a doorway to someplace
else. Nevertheless, with the flow of tears comes purification
and regeneration. Loss of life's Vitality equals
depression when a person closes up to ...
1 Comments, 41 Views,
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Attracted to a friend 6/15/2006
I’m really attracted to a friend of mine and would like to
get something going, but I’m afraid that if we have a relationship
it might not work out and our friendship would be ruined
forever What shall I do
2 Comments, 66 Views,
16 Votes
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your profile, its bad? 11/13/2009
I am amazed when I read the profiles, (women) as thats all
I read. It has become obvious to me, that you do not look at
what you write, as your target, will. Most of them limit
your responses, by at least 30% or more. You give out to much
information, and to little at the same time. I look at a
profile, and go on by because, (not really) your to heavy,
to thin, do not smoke, prefer not to say, ...
4 Comments, 121 Views,
15 Votes
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What's In Nick? 1/31/2007
Excuse me or is it just me who cringes in fear at guy who messages
me with the nick. Somefinelickin? or Iam2pleas? Or worse.
8long4U? What's up with this? Am I the only one who wants
to click them somewhere other than the Net?
Please guys take a lesson in being a real man. Don't
message a lady looking for possibly here soulmate with
a Nick that would scare the Devil off. We after all are ...
3 Comments, 157 Views,
15 Votes
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Excellence Versus Perfection 12/27/2006
Strive for excellence, not perfection.
H. Jackson Brown Jr., O Magazine, December 2003
It is wise to not beat ourselves up nor allow others to beat
us up because we are not perfect. Progress leads to Excellence
but there is always room for improvement until we become
deities which is not going to happen on this earthwalk.
1 Comments, 40 Views,
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Cautious, careful people 12/27/2006
Cautious, careful people,
always casting about to preserve their reputation and
social standing, never can bring about a reform. Those
who are really in earnest must be willing to be anything
or nothing in the world's estimation.
Susan B. Anthony (1820-1906)
on the campaign for divorce law reform, 1860[/...
1 Comments, 49 Views,
15 Votes
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i BEG TO DIFFER 12/27/2006
Algernon Black
Why not let people differ about their answers to the
great mysteries of the Universe? Let each seek one's
own way to the highest, to one's own sense of supreme
loyalty in life, one's ideal of life. Let each philosophy,
each world-view bring forth its truth and beauty to a larger
perspective, that people may grow in vision, stature and
dedication.
The religions ...
2 Comments, 63 Views,
15 Votes
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WHY IS IT THAT YOU MEN DON'T EVEN RESPOND? 12/31/2005
I am relatively new to Senior Friendfinders but find that
although I have searched and answered say "Men searching
Women" sections in different states and Canada and
not even ONE reply. Has anyone else had this luck??? I don't
know if these are old names and profiles they're using
or still have not removed those that were fortunate enough
to have found their "true love" or perhaps they ...
5 Comments, 378 Views,
15 Votes
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Meditiaton to Visualize Prosperous Financial Reality 12/4/2005
Write down everything that
opposes you in getting the prosperous financial reality
that you desire could be;fear, lack of experience, lack
of contacts, ad infitum). Also
take one piece of parchment paper and write the same things
on it.
<br>
Every night for three nights keep writing everything that
you can think of , burn the papers with the writings on it
while visualizing ...
1 Comments, 101 Views,
15 Votes
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Now that the holidays are here, remember to be kind. 11/15/2004
The holidays are now upon us and we know how lonely and depressing
this can be if one is alone.
Every where you go you are reminded. Happy couples, happy
little families, laughing, enjoying the holidays.
It would be simpler if single persons had a cave they could
take up hibernation in until it all passed. However, it
does pass. Always, it passes, year after year, after year.
Now just ...
5 Comments, 18 Views,
15 Votes
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Always forgive your enemies 12/27/2006
Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.
Oscar Wilde
Treat them with the same love - tolerance and patience that
you would cheerfully grant a sick friend.
1 Comments, 53 Views,
14 Votes
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reputation 12/27/2006
There are two modes of establishing our reputation: to
be praised by honest en, and to be abused by rogues. It is
best, however, to secure the former, because it will invariably
be accompanied by the latter.
Charles Caleb Colton
A Wise Man or a Wise Womyn does conform to the dictates of
a clueless clique.
Good name in man and woman, dear my lord,
Is the immediate ...
1 Comments, 46 Views,
14 Votes
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Etiquettes 12/27/2006
Politeness, n. The most acceptable hypocrisy.
Ambrose Bierce (1842 - 1914), The Devil's Dictionary
Good manners will open doors that the best education cannot.
Clarence Thomas (1948 - )
Rudeness is the weak man's imitation of strength.
Eric Hoffer (1902 - 1983)
We don't bother much about dress and manners in England,
because as a nation we don't dress ...
2 Comments, 44 Views,
14 Votes
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Social Tips for Rednecks ...... 7/3/2005
and just plain good advice
<br>
In General...
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1. Never take a beer to an interview.
2. Always identify people in your yard before shooting
them.
3. It's considered tacky to take a cooler to church.
4. If you have to vacuum the bed, it's time to change
the sheets.
5. Even if you're certain that you're included
in the will, it's rude to drive a U-haul to ...
2 Comments, 136 Views,
14 Votes
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What We Are Looking For 4/23/2005
Chat rooms are suppose to be Fun. It's Fantasy Land.
Our Walt Disney World.....right at our finger tips. Where
else can we meet and talk to folks all over the globe.
This is where we go when we are all alone and hoping to find
a friend. We can be anyone we want to be. Silly if we want to
and no one to say we are just a bit off center. A place of solace
and enjoyment when we are down ...
3 Comments, 266 Views,
14 Votes
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A Whale of a Tale 1/28/2005
A little girl was talking to her teacher about whales.
<br>
The teacher said it was physically impossible for a whale
to swallow a human because even though it was a very large
mammal its throat was very small.
<br>
The little girl stated that Jonah was swallowed by a whale.
Irritated, the teacher reiterated that a whale could not
swallow a human; it was ...
0 Comments, 92 Views,
14 Votes
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Pictures not needed 2/11/2007
Take some good advice and when on here don't go looking
for the photo's first. Send a message, talk, chat,
share your thought's and dreams, get to know the person
on the other end first, a good book can never be judged by
its cover. It's the person inside that counts. Never
be that much of a fool where you can be deceived by good looks,
a witty smile and fancy dress.Love is out there for ...
2 Comments, 146 Views,
13 Votes
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More On Horary Astrology and Finding Lost Objects 12/28/2006
Most Querents will require more detailed information,
and for this we look at the zodiac signs and houses:
Aries
Sandy or hilly grounds. Lonely places. Engineering works,
where heat and iron are used. The roof and roof space. Blood.
Taurus
Cellars, low rooms, feeding grounds, banks, safe deposit
boxes, rooms, farm buildings, low buildings, storerooms.
Gemini
Studies, ...
1 Comments, 37 Views,
13 Votes
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If Your Love Connections Has a Haz Mat Endorsement 12/28/2006
If your love connections is a team Drivier With Benefits.
Woo Hoo! Things you need to know about Hazardous Materials
1 you are not allowed to
smoke around? Oxidizers, Flammables and
Explosives
2 The driver is responsible for finding out what permits
or special routes
will be need to haul hazardous materials?
3 If an "x" or "rq" is ...
1 Comments, 44 Views,
13 Votes
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Alone Versus Loneliness 12/27/2006
It is important to be okay alone because another person
will not feel the void if you are not okay within yourself.
Two people who are happy within themselves will be happy
with another.
1 Comments, 32 Views,
13 Votes
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can one know 12/19/2005
I have never been involved with anyone on here before or
had a long distance relationship. Do we just play the role
and hope for the best or do we insist on meeting somewhere
along the way.Take two people of the opposite sex that feels
the chemistry just by communicating with each other, and,
yes, possibly seeing pictures of the other, where does
one draw the line and say we need to meet. ...
8 Comments, 310 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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Let your beauty shine! 8/23/2005
Add photos to your listing that show who you are.
<br>
Ideas on finding a photographer to work with:
<br>
Look for photographers on SFF.
<br>
Offer to model for photo classes at a local college.
<br>
If you like photography take a class and get to know others
with this interest.
<br>
Thoughts on what you can do to help the photographer: ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
13 Votes
,1.63 Score |
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Past Relationships 6/23/2005
If your last Relationship(s) have been wonderful, keep
them locked in your heart and keep them safe. Those memories
belong to you and you alone. And they are your treasure.
<br>
If they were lousy or worse, throw them away, they are old
trash. That bag needs never to be opened again.
1 Comments, 117 Views,
13 Votes
,5.66 Score |
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Pay Back 3/21/2005
A wife was making a breakfast of fried eggs for her husband.
Suddenly her husband burst into the kitchen.
<br>
"Careful. CAREFUL! Put in some more butter! Oh good
grief! You're cooking too many at once. TOO MANY! Turn
them! TURN THEM NOW! We need more butter. Oh Good Grief !
WHERE are we going to get MORE BUTTER? They're going
to STICK! Careful CAREFUL! I said be ...
2 Comments, 167 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score |
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TO BE HAPPY YOU MUST KNOW! 3/7/2005
TO BE HAPPY YOU MUST KNOW!
Sex is not the #1 value value in your life, even though it
is very important! If you let it interfere with your judgment,
you are in for a really bad time.
This list is important in your life! So here it is. (Don’t
be a stupid s***, not knowing this could really mess up your
life!)
You must judge this without asking. IF NOT PATIENT ENOUGH, ...
1 Comments, 224 Views,
13 Votes
,3.31 Score |
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Principles Before Personalities 12/28/2006
"Principles before personality" is the foundation
for proper action and helps to discern the correct path
to take.
<br>
Do we stand on principle when challenged with a negative
interaction or do we go for the jugular, mudsling and character
assassinate disagreeable personalities.
<br>
Do we live life from principle or do we make excuses when
we do something ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
12 Votes
,0.15 Score |
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Lost Something Horary Astrology Can Help 12/28/2006
Horary Astrology comes to the rescue.
Cast A Chart - Check out the second House Following the Traditonal
Ruler of the Sign
<br>
Fire
Middle height or level, near a wall, by a fire or heat source,
near something that is iron or steel
Water
In water, lowlands, near moisture. Fountains, bathrooms,
oil tanks, liquid containers
Air
Upper level, above ground, upstairs, near ...
1 Comments, 20 Views,
12 Votes
,0.50 Score |
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Selfishness 12/27/2006
Selfishness is not living as one wishes to live, it is asking
others to live as one wishes to live.
Oscar Wilde
God Grant Me the Wisdone to accept the things I cannont change
(OTHER PEOPLE)
COURAGE TO change the things I can (MY REACTION TO OTHER
PEOPLE) AND wisdom to know the difference (DITTO!!!!!)
short version of the Serenity Prayer
FiretrUCK It!!!!
1 Comments, 38 Views,
12 Votes
,0.50 Score |
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Are You Throwing Away Your Chances 8/9/2005
If you are a sincere guy and looking for a real relationship,
don't throw it away.
Guys seem to think women like all the sex talk and maybe some
do. But it should not be the first item on the lets get acquainted
list. It's a quick turn off. You could at least give
it a little time to see if that is what she wants.
When you come on so strong in the first two sentences, it
appears to be ...
0 Comments, 101 Views,
12 Votes
,5.63 Score |
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How about listing the “Downside”? 11/4/2004
All of the “Friend Finders” and “Dating” sites require
profiles to be filled out. I have been wondering what would
happen if within the required information of a profile
one would have a section devoted to their “downside”?
List your faults, shortcomings, and peeves!
Examples:
1.When I cook it is an automatic test of the homes smoke detectors. ...
1 Comments, 30 Views,
12 Votes
,3.68 Score |
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Some are loners. 1/8/2006
For many of us, it seems we were meant to be alone. The question
is why.
<br>
Put yourself out there is what we are told. So we try. It still
doesn't seem to work.
<br>
I've had many blessings. Have a lot to offer. But that
doesn't guarantee anything.
<br>
Life isn't easy and it never will be. But it could be
easier if it was divided by 2. The realities of life ...
1 Comments, 142 Views,
11 Votes
,5.78 Score |
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life, 101 9/25/2005
Stay in touch with your family. But don't live in the
same town.
<br>
Make sure your know how much you love them. Make
sure they also know that you are not the bank, the daycare
or the doormat.
<br>
Get in shape, take pride in the way you look but understand
that you probably didn't look like christie brinkley
when you were young and you certainly aren't going
to ...
1 Comments, 97 Views,
11 Votes
,5.22 Score |
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How to Attract Her 6/2/2005
The age old question for men...."How do I get her attention?"
Well, you May have already gotten her attention and don't
even know it. On an everyday basis, I think we are observed
more than we know. These are my ideas that will apply in most
cases: 1. Be clean. No one likes to see dirty hands or clothes.
If you smell like your favorite hunting dog, expect dogs
to be attracted to you. ...
1 Comments, 145 Views,
11 Votes
,5.60 Score |
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In need of advice 5/24/2005
New to meeting people on internet. Have winked and been
winked at. Have viewed profile and looks fine. Have e-mail
address and ready to go...where? Where to start? How much
is too much/too little? Would appreciate you input.
2 Comments, 269 Views,
11 Votes
,4.29 Score |
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What's Wrong With Women? 2/24/2005
What’s Wrong With Women?
<br>
There are Women, and there are Ladies. Speaking from a woman’s
point of view, I am more afraid of Women.
Most women are pretty nice, at least before some man messes
them up. They can really be a treacherous enemy. Or they
can be the sweetest possible heart you can find anywhere.
Especially if a man is in the picture.
It is bad ...
5 Comments, 217 Views,
11 Votes
,4.48 Score |
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LAME 2/12/2005
Does anyone out 'there' think this is the '...friendfinder'
are the LAMEST personal services out there?
First, they don't let you actually 'see'
the profiles and PICTURES (browse) before joining...hmmmmmm
THAT should tell one something!
Then, IF one does get suckered into joining, one gets 'matches'
that are nothing like the criteria listed.
Thirdly, many of the contact members ...
3 Comments, 160 Views,
11 Votes
,3.73 Score |
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What's Wrong With Men? 2/12/2005
What’s Wrong With Men ?
<br>
Ok, so here we go with a birds eye view of the inner misgivings
of a man.
An entire room full of wonderful women. God Fearing, Smart,
Pretty, Honest, Thoughtful, Intelligent, Caring, Faithful,
Loving, Kind, Hard working, Dedicated, Inspiring, Friendly,
Heart filled, Giving, and Willing women. All except one.
That one is deceitful, ...
3 Comments, 147 Views,
11 Votes
,4.48 Score |
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safety tips women should know & practice 12/8/2004
Don't Be A Crime Victim!
I am sending this to every woman I know, ,please read it
and pass it on to all your female friends, ,
<br>
<br>
<br>
Some time ago, I attended a personal safety workshop, and
it jolted me. It was given by an amazing man, Pat Malone,
who has been a body guard for famous figures like Farrah
Fawcett and Sylvester Stallone. He works for ...
1 Comments, 20 Views,
11 Votes
,5.41 Score |
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Think it... but don’t say it! 11/17/2004
SFF in all its great wisdom used the power of censorship
and denied my last attempt to post a question with regards
to this subject. Maybe a toned down version of the question
will make it past the all-powerful censors this time.
<br>
Why are the topics with regards to sex, sensuality and sexuality
skirted around and avoided here on SFF?
<br>
My goodness we are all ...
2 Comments, 44 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score |
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Younger Men Looking For Older Women 5/19/2007
I had never before imagined how many younger men are looking
for older women. Still don't understand why?
<br>
<br>
I have a pretty good idea why the younger women want older
men but that is another story.
<br>
<br>
This seems to be a new trend for the younger men. Or I have
been asleep with Rip Van Winkle.
<br>
<br>
I have asked ...
2 Comments, 269 Views,
10 Votes
,4.98 Score |
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Sending the first e-mail: Getting Attention 11/9/2006
In the world of online dating, you have about 10 seconds
to make a good first impression, so good writing skills
can really make your correspondence sparkle.
You've found a profile and you'd like to contact
him/her. It may not be your first connection at this website,
but without the right opening line, it could be more difficult
to get a response. So how do you make contact ...
0 Comments, 65 Views,
10 Votes
,5.38 Score |
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Response to:- My mind deceives questions. 6/18/2006
Not being a man I'm sure you are not aware of how many
women clam up or lie when asked questions by men. Some men
have learned to clam up because many women have taken what
was said to them and thrown in back in their face. I've
been asked questions by women and I gave honest answers.
The answers were not offesnive nor were they destructive
or an admittion about any wrong doing. Some women ...
0 Comments, 57 Views,
10 Votes
,0.20 Score |
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The KEY TO HAPPINESS! 4/17/2005
YOU Need to Know
There are so many bad ways to guide your life. If you buy
into superficial beauty, and poor values, life will be
questionable.
Age can bring you either wisdom and satisfaction, or crush
your life. The path you choose to follow can be strongly
affected by others.
<br>
It’s your life. Want a good one?
<br>
...
0 Comments, 178 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score |
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Breaking the Ice 11/11/2004
I have noticed that many times the question of how to start
a conversation with someone you have just met on-line has
been asked. I have been asked this same question in so many
emails and on IM that I thought I would humbly and openly
offer a sample of how I personally approach this matter
of breaking the ice. This is a copy of my 2nd contact with
a lovely lady in China. Let’s see ...
0 Comments, 39 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score |
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Oh My Gosh!!! Pictures 11/6/2004
We are all adults and mature when we communicate with each
other, it isn't until one who wants to see one or the
other and they decide to send a photo...
What ever you said in an email, the first impression here
can sink your relationship when you send your future partner
and Nude or Partial Nude photo...In my opinion.
1 Comments, 50 Views,
10 Votes
,3.58 Score |
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"Your Last Words?"...... 5/19/2007
STRAWS FROM MY BALE:
<br>
Theoretically speaking: You have five minutes left to
live on this earth; WHAT WOULD YOUR LAST WORDS BE? Seriously,
looking forward to comments. Sunshineokie
2 Comments, 103 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score |
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Response to;- Choose your audience carefully. 6/18/2006
I'm not sure if there was a typing error in this article
or not. The last two lines of this article doesn't make
a lot of sense. According to the article you can't change
people. Then how or why would you want to change people around
you? People around you are still people are they not? Maybe
the article should re-titled "Selecting people
to put around you so you can change them"?
0 Comments, 40 Views,
9 Votes
,1.50 Score |
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Whats your goal? 3/23/2006
Not to mention anyone name but I feel a little bit offended
as I know I am one of the newer writers on SFF. My goal for writing
in general has always been for one reason and one reason
only. Do you ever read books, or article's in magazine's
and after you finish it you say, now I know what to do. I am
glad I read it as it has really helped me. Thats generally
why people like to write, in ...
5 Comments, 106 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score |
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Oh my gosh!!!! 1/28/2006
Why is it when you ask a man to send another photo they always seem to have a nude photo handy? Now I am soooo not a prude. And I also actually take a good look at these pictures lol...but come on......Do these guys think that I can actually take them serious after they send me a nude ( at least so soon) ha ha
Plus I am amazed at the number of men that have photo's of their penis'. Come on ...
2 Comments, 58 Views,
9 Votes
,5.56 Score |
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sexual Etiquette for MEN. 7/18/2008
> > Intercourse Etiquette and Decency for MEN. > > > >BODILY HYGIENE. MOST Important! Not cleaning
your ALL body parts she might want to touch, smell, and taste...means
she WON'T! Mild Lotions, aftershave, and Manly scents are always
added attractions. > >NOT KISSING FIRST. Avoiding her lips and diving
straight for the erogenous zones makes her feel like you're
paying by the hour and trying to ...
1 Comments, 110 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score |
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What do you think of men wearing ladies clothing at home? 3/30/2008
Topics today are really the conversational bite for a good
coffee party. There are so many different things people
discuss but the one that has caught my attention lately
is about men earing their wives clothing. Under garments
at thayt.. Sure most say its alright if agreed by your spouse
but what kick do they get by all this.
4 Comments, 112 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score |
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Interested in someone but afraid to let them know..... 11/3/2006
Have you ever been interested in someone but afraid to tell
them. I emailed a guy I met in Sff three years ago and told
him I was interested in getting to know him. He told me he
didn't think I would have anything to do with him. Tell
that person, you will never know if you don't. They
can't say anything but yes or no.
5 Comments, 163 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score |
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Ladies did you know? 3/31/2006
Don't assume that guys won't care where you are,
because we do.
It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren't
off flirting with guys we've never heard of.
Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends.
We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do
we want to hear about them.
When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous.
You're asking your boyfriend to ...
2 Comments, 75 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score |
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Making Friends (or More) Through the Internet 3/15/2006
After one and half years on three different internet "meeting"
sites I've met some people in person, dated a few and
talked to hundreds in chatrooms, IM and via email. It's
brought me to a few conclusions:
1. Take each encounter as exactly that...an encounter.
Some people will like you and some won't. Some will
have needs you can't meet and some will not meet the
needs you have. ...
1 Comments, 92 Views,
8 Votes
,5.33 Score |
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cybersex 3/2/2006
SOME men, not all, are either really conceited to the height
that women are sick of hearing about all their fame and fortune,
and that they are looking for a nice lady to retire with,
or they are into cybersex and exposing their body all over
the world, thru a screen, yet, plus encouraging all the
young ladies 18 and older to email them. Women, on the other
hand, most of them, are looking ...
3 Comments, 128 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score |
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Rudeness in not responding to ones add 2/3/2006
Have you ever noticed how many people write letters to each
other here, and you never get a response? We all tend in this
world to be rude in some form, fashion or style, wether
we think we are being that way on purpose or not. The same
goes in responding to ones add's here on Senior Friend
Finder. I have noticed that if someone isn't interested
in another person, instead of not taking a ...
2 Comments, 174 Views,
8 Votes
,5.10 Score |
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How long to grow up? 7/22/2005
Human beings can be very cruel. We've all done it. Laughed
at or called out some 'witty' remark. To someone
with a deformity or illness. That makes them not quite 'normal'.
'If' I had been born with the sence I have now. Maybe
I would not have made so many people unhappy. But it has taken
half a century of life to learn this mistake.
Yesterday I was in a pub having lunch. At the same time ...
1 Comments, 97 Views,
8 Votes
,6.26 Score |
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Want to Jump Out of Bed Everyday? 3/21/2005
Want Love?
Stop Being A Dork! Grow Up! Romance novels, magazines,
and movies are for money! Don't let their ideas screw
up your life.
Get a great life! I am 55 and still haven’t found my soul
mate. I have great values, and a wonderful life, filled
with intensity and adventure! Meeting members of the opposite
sex is difficult to avoid.
Most don't have lives ...
1 Comments, 100 Views,
8 Votes
,4.64 Score |
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Advice on Advice 12/24/2004
I have recently observed that many people have been offering
me advice lately as my court daye arrives and even before
the filing....well, even during the marriage. 'Advice'
can be very noiusy, congested, and frankly, overwhelming
to the point of added stress. What I have learned through
all this is to be polite and receptive, but to trust my own
intuition and feelings through personal ...
1 Comments, 85 Views,
8 Votes
,1.62 Score |
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Grandparent Rights 11/18/2004
The rights of grandparents are an emerging area of the law.
A few years ago the Texas supreme court said the grandparents
had no rights if the parents agreed they should have none.
The legislature changed this to allow for grandparents
who had a significant influence or relationship in the
gchildren's lives. I'm sure it has been going
back and forth in most states.
<br>
...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score |
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RE: "Now that the holidays are here, Remember to be kind. 11/13/2004
My goodness you sure make the holiday season sound like
some sort of terrible sentence imposed upon singles. And
your assumptions as to what and how men deal with the holiday
season seems critical if not damn insulting to say the least.
Now I haven’t a clue as to where you have been located while
observing nor what kind of men you have chosen to observe
but I am going to truly enjoy ...
3 Comments, 9 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score |
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Tequila & Salt 6/18/2006
You may not realize it, but it's 100% true....
<br>
There are at least two people in this world that you would
die for.
<br>
At least 15 people in this world love you in some way.
<br>
The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they
want to be just like you.
<br>
A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they
don't like you.
...
0 Comments, 54 Views,
7 Votes
,5.84 Score |
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Stop This Conspiracy!!! 6/18/2006
We Must Stop This Immediately!
<br>
Have you noticed that stairs are getting steeper, groceries
are heavier and everything is farther away? Yesterday
I walked to the corner and I was dumbfounded to discover
how long our street had become!
<br>
And, you know, people are less considerate now, especially
the young ones. They speak in whispers all the time! If you
ask ...
1 Comments, 63 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score |
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Turn On My Light 11/11/2005
Maybe it would be a good idea if SFF started a new section
on "Why Doesn't My Light Shine" Just a section where we could go in and ask for personal opinions
of why we are bombing in here.
Then others could tell us why they decline us or pass us by.
Just constructive criticism. Not to be mean but to be honest
and give us some pointers.
We can't fix it if we don't know what is broke.
0 Comments, 116 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score |
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ACTS STRANGE? 6/24/2005
ACTS STRANGE?
Is your very moody, doesn’t laugh, or doesn't
like to be touched? Do they sit and stare blankly? Be very
concerned, you are about to be tested.
If they are ill at ease amongst almost all but you, be very
suspicious! Lack of trust is a sure sign that something
is very wrong in their lives.
Good parents deal with a threat to their 's life.
Bad parents look ...
4 Comments, 145 Views,
7 Votes
,1.00 Score |
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A Wink or A Note 5/8/2005
A Wink is fun but even a returned winked is only that. Just
a Wink. Some of us cannot respond. Wouldn't a little
note be better? You know something like "Hi, I think
you're cute" or "Love Your Smile"
etc. It really wouldn't take much but might get a response.
<br>
Sometimes when we get a wink, if we wink back we are hoping
for some kind of response. The wink doesn't seem to
lead ...
1 Comments, 101 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score |
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Sex 1/11/2005
Sex is more fun than baseball and I've played both.
<br>
<br>
I'm just not interested in sex anymore. Perhaps this
comes from relatioship disappointments or just the cultural
emphasis on it.
<br>
<br>
I'm far more interested in what toppings a lady has
on her coney. Ok, there's a sexual image there if you
hold the onions.
<br>
<br>
There ...
0 Comments, 79 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score |
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A PHOTO PLEASE! 11/18/2004
I'm new to this site, but am astonished that so many
men haven't uploaded a picture. I'm not saying
looks are everything, but it sure is nice to have a face to
go with the description. I get a lot of people looking at
me, but then I have no idea what they look like, because they
don't have a picture on their profile and will not respond
without one. Borrow a digital camera if you have to. ...
2 Comments, 38 Views,
7 Votes
,5.84 Score |
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Really what are the chances? 11/8/2008
Being as I live in what is referred to as a remote location
[a very small mountain community] I naturally
don’t expect to find “miss wonderful” close by. I have met
and been in contact with a few really nice ladies that I have
met here on SFF but the problem is that they live across this
nation or in another country. I mean not one is even from
the same state for ...
2 Comments, 41 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score |
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5/1/2007
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.
They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their
eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning
the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work
so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard.
The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot
the matter.
The boy saw the ...
0 Comments, 60 Views,
6 Votes
,5.36 Score |
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Not Too Bright 6/19/2006
There was a not-too-bright fellow who decided to become
a counterfeiter. He hired an engraver of equal intelligence,
and they proceeded to produce some counterfeit money.
By some mix-up, the money turned out to be $11 bills.
<br>
Not wanting to waste the effort, the crook decided to head
to an isolated small town where he figured he could cash
the bogus bills. He went into a ...
0 Comments, 44 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score |
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RE: Must be a of bad society 6/17/2006
The Gothic look, Punk look, Hippy look, Clean cut look,
and on and on. She Bear is right, we are all individuals and
as such react to society in different ways. A of working
parents may rebel at the lack of attention he/she gets and
dresses for shock value to get their attention. Most of
the parents do not know how to react and give the hell
for being the way they are and then the war is ...
1 Comments, 24 Views,
6 Votes
,5.36 Score |
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Instant messenger Scams 3/4/2006
While using the Instant Messenger, I have often been invited
to chat by a variety of people who have this general profile:
young woman, attractive, often a "missionary"
living in Africa, and immediately wants to continue our
chat on Yahoo Messenger. I have "strung" them
along and a few ask for money to help them get back to the U.S.
because she is Sooo in love with me and what a great time ...
3 Comments, 92 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score |
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Do you ever wonder? 12/26/2005
We put our pictures and profiles in here but get passed up
a lot. Do you ever wonder what the viewer sees or what crosses
the viewers mind when they read the profile? Or even an email?
<br>
I have many times said just a few words to a guy and he zooms
out of sight never to be seen again. Makes me wonder if I have
horns that I can't see, or speak a language understood
only by me.
...
2 Comments, 98 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score |
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Restlessness and discontent 11/27/2005
Generally I give preferance to unconvetional, new ideas,
excitement
and changes but become easily boared and also move on prematurely
put the things unfinished.Nevertheless, can you suggest
me how can I get rid from the deep inner restlessness and
all discontents?
3 Comments, 115 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score |
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How to Cross a River 4/30/2005
One day, three men were hiking and unexpectedly came upon
a large raging, violent river. They needed to get to the
other side, but had no idea of how to do so.
<br>
The first man prayed to God, saying, "Please God,
give me the strength to cross this river." Poof! God
gave him big arms and strong legs, and he was able to swim
across the river in about two hours, after almost ...
0 Comments, 39 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score |
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Must be of Bad Society 12/27/2004
To ClickMouseHere------guess Im one of those of bad society or something. But hate to burst anyones bubble here but I had a father and a mother and was brought up in a fairly strict home. I may have rebelled but hey dont we all at some stage? I have a pierced tongue, pierced nose and several tattooes. Does that make me a degenerate. I dont think so people. We all choose how we lead our lives and ...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score |
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Takes My Breath Away: 11/22/2004
Why is it that as a lady matures they seem to have the need
to drown themselves in perfume?
Kassr
6 Comments, 20 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score |
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Senior sex 11/20/2021
We all know sex should not stop when Social Security starts.
WE also know it improves our quality of live. It is a fact
men have erection problems. You can play with it kiss it
suck it but still not ready for penetration. Sexual play
and oral sex is a great thing but all women want to feel the
penis in them. Men It makes his day to be able to give her that
feeling. Over the counter are a wast of ...
1 Comments, 32 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score |
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An Old Farmer's Advice: 6/17/2011
An Old Farmer's Advice:
* Your fences need to be -high, pig-tight and bull-strong.
*Keep skunks and bankers at a Distance. *Life is simpler when you plow around the stump. *A bumble bee is considerably faster than a John Deere tractor.
* Words that soak into your ears are whispered...not yelled.
* Meanness don't jes' happen overnight. * Forgive your enemies. It messes up their heads. * ...
1 Comments, 27 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score |
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Fraud Ads From West Africa 1/21/2010
I was a victim of fraud by someone in Nigeria posing as an
American with a ligitmate name and address of someone in
the US. This person tends to have no living relatives except
for one who lives with them. He is usually self employed.
In my instance, after a month of emailing he said he had to
go to West Africa and would visit me on the way back. He emailed
me from Nigeria saying he had been ...
2 Comments, 40 Views,
5 Votes
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Our women folk 2/12/2007
Our women folk have suggested certain attitudes a wife
may take with the husband who is recovering. Perhaps they
created the impression that he is to be wrapped in cotton
wool and placed on a pedestal. Successful readjustment
means the opposite. All members of the family should meet
upon the common ground of tolerance, understanding and
love. This involves a process of deflation. the ...
0 Comments, 24 Views,
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Checking in with yourself 1/1/2007
Hello!
I'm up early, and in a musing mood - as I'm wont to
be in the morning!
This is the time of day I "check in" with me.
I go outside and sit, first listening to the cachophony
of nature (I live near the Potomac),
and then turn my focus internally, and listen.
My crew always show up - you know - the host of people who live
in your head and have musch to say about everything. I ...
0 Comments, 45 Views,
5 Votes
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In God We Trust! 11/10/2006
What do you
think about writing ("IN GOD WE TRUST") On the
backs of your envelopes?
I THINK THIS A GREAT IDEA. I WILL START WRITING THIS ON FRONT
OF ALL MY ENVELOPES, TOO!
You may have heard in the news that a couple of Post Offices
in Texas have been forced to take down small posters that
say "IN GOD WE TRUST, " The law, they say, ...
2 Comments, 59 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score |
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Grow ing.. 10/26/2006
The difference between growing up and growing old is that
only growing old is mandatory
0 Comments, 31 Views,
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A Man and His Mother 7/6/2006
One of the single most important things I have learned from
dating is to always find out as soon as possible how he feels
about his mother. If he doesn't like her, if he expresses
openly that he hates her, or even just complains about her
a lot.....RUN!
Men who don't like/love/get along reasonably
well with their mother, are always a disaster. When this
critical ...
1 Comments, 20 Views,
5 Votes
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Bark Worse Than Bite 6/17/2006
Mama Cat took her kittens for a walk one day. Their pleasant
stroll was interrupted when a big mean threatened them.
Mama Cat went right up to him and began barking. The startled
immediately ran off, tail between its legs. Then Mama
Cat turned to her babies and said, "You see, --it
pays to know a second language."
0 Comments, 47 Views,
5 Votes
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green shorts anybody 3/19/2006
Happy St. Patrick's Day to all of you. Before going
on your date today, remember to put on green underwear..,
Have a good day!
8 Comments, 102 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score |
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depends on attitude 3/17/2006
Someone mentioned awhile ago that seniorcentre's
are for people that are OLD and ready to die. That person
must of been in the wrong place altogether. I was on the Board
of Director's and volunteered for other's and
their was next to none that I ever seen that looked like they
were ready to die. Actually, I had a hard time to keep up with
many that was older than myself, at times. There is ...
1 Comments, 42 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score |
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Shattered Moments 2/17/2006
This has been passed through and around for along time and
yet we are still all wondering just what is the reason that
couple's, after years of marriage, feel its time to
call it quits. Why don't they want to stay with the one
that they have romanced, fell in love with
raised a family with, and grew together over and over, throughout
the years. Had many of argruements, worked together on ...
4 Comments, 105 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score |
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Nursing Homes Should be better 10/8/2005
My father is in a nursing home. When I go to visit him, I know
that he doesn't like it their, but, I know he's
getting the care that he need's their. I feel very sad
when it's time to leave. I know he doesn't want
me to leave, or say good-bye. I've told him that I've
their could be anywhere in the world that I would want him
to be, it would doing what he use to do. He was a ham radio ...
3 Comments, 53 Views,
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Cough Syrup 1/21/2005
The owner of this drug store walks in to find a guy leaning
heavily against a wall.
<br>
The owner asks the clerk: "What's with that guy
over there by the wall?"
<br>
The clerk responds: "Well, he came in here this morning
to get something for his cough. I couldn't find the
cough syrup, so I gave him an entire bottle of laxative."
<br>
The owner, ...
0 Comments, 55 Views,
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Dominant or submissive: Has age changed your tendencies? 12/26/2004
I have a question that is directed more towards the ladies
but comments from the gentlemen are also welcomed.
Question: Do you think that with age you have become more
Dominant or submissive with regards to your attitude and
role within a personal relationship with a present or future
partner?
<br>
Please share your reasons that would incline you to answer
either way.
Kassr
1 Comments, 35 Views,
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,3.14 Score |
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do'es and don'ts 9/1/2010
Don't worry Don't hurry. Do your best and leave
the rest.
0 Comments, 39 Views,
4 Votes
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1st graders 8/2/2008
A 1st grade school teacher had twenty-six students in her
class. She presented each in her classroom the 1st
half of a well-known proverb and asked them to come up with
the remainder of the proverb. It's hard to believe
these were actually done by first graders. Their insight
may surprise you. While reading, keep in mind that these
are first-graders, 6-year-olds, because the last one
is a ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
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telephone customer service 6/9/2008
today i had a GOOD experience calling one of my credit card
companies.
the first person i spoke with had a very heavy accent ...
as i've gotten older, i have a problem understanding
accents on the telephone. i always have to say, "i
beg your pardon?" several times during the conversation
and end up frustrated.
this time, i said, "i'm sorry, but i have a difficult
time ...
1 Comments, 29 Views,
4 Votes
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In this moment, what is most important? 9/19/2007
With the daily frustrations, busy lifestyles, desires
of success, and the expectation to be and do everything,
we sometimes forget what is most important at this moment.
Everyone has heard the sayings, "Live in the moment, "
"Live as if today could be your last." You don't
know when your last day will be. Or the last day of your spouse,
, friend, mother or father.
When your is ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
4 Votes
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Has anyone found a real partner via SFF? 5/19/2007
Dear friends,
As a novice to SFF, and being a bit sceptical about the whole
thing, I would like to know if anyone out there has found
a real "live" long-term partner/ friends via
SFF.
Thanks for sharing your stories with me.
1 Comments, 120 Views,
4 Votes
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One can only hope 1/15/2007
With todays healthcare deterioating so sweiftly is it
any wonder why there are more old age homes being built faster
than ever before.. I have been giving a year to live 22 years
ago. I had 4 daughters still at home and I was so scared but
had to face it all by myself. Todsay I have been suffering
with various health problems for the past 4 years and getting
worse and worse with not one Dr. ...
5 Comments, 52 Views,
4 Votes
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members have problems too 3/19/2006
it doesn't matter who we are, where we are, what our
personality is like, if we have 6 toes or 10. What counts
is that we all do realize that we are human beings. Being
a human being, all of us, doesn't matter what walk of
life we even come from, we had or have some kind of a problem
some might only admit that they HAD a problem at one time
or another, but when we really search our soul, we ...
3 Comments, 65 Views,
4 Votes
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kissing connected to........ 3/15/2006
kissing is known to be connected to various parts of your
body. Thats why it is good habit to KISS alot in your foreplay.
Both lips are connected to either the woman;s or men's
major sexual parts. While kissing, you are sending messages
to those parts that are very essential to love making.Without
this type of method, to start with, it can make it just a little
less exciting and could make ...
2 Comments, 45 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score |
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Sexuality 3/15/2006
Is sexuality the same as senuality? How do we explain the
difference?
1 Comments, 58 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score |
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Valentines Day alone, The Princessa Treatment for Women 2/8/2006
Valentines Day, Alone, Sounds a little dismal eh? Whether
it is a temporary condition, brought on by your busy days,
or you haven’t found the one, or the one isn’t near, it could
really “bum you out, ” unless you remember that you are
a Princessa.
A true Princessa knows that she has alone time, and that
precious time will be spent to revitalize, luxuriously, ...
4 Comments, 113 Views,
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Why God Made Moms 2/22/2005
(Answers given by elementary school age to the
following questions.)
<br>
Why did God make mothers?
1. She's the only one who knows where the scotch tape
is.
2. Mostly to clean the house.
3. To help us out of there when we were getting born.
<br>
How did God make mothers?
1. He used dirt, just like for the rest of us.
2. Magic plus super powers and a ...
1 Comments, 113 Views,
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His Name was Fleming 2/18/2005
His name was Fleming, and he was a poor Scottish farmer.
One day, while trying to make a living for his family, he
heard a cry for help coming from a nearby bog. He dropped
his tools and ran to the bog. There, mired to his waist in
black muck, was a terrified boy, screaming and struggling
to free himself. Farmer Fleming saved the lad from what
could have been a slow and terrifying death.
...
1 Comments, 73 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score |
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Lessons From a Hurricane 1/21/2005
I dedicate this to all those dear souls who endured 4 hurricanes
in Florida last summer!
<br>
* Coffee and frozen pizzas can be made on a BBQ grill.
* No matter how many times you flick the switch, lights don't
work without electricity.
* can survive 4 days or longer without a video game controller
in their hand.
* Cats are even more irritating without power.
* He ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score |
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The Truth Up Front? 12/7/2004
Is it better to be truthful right from the start, and risk never meeting anymore at all? Or to hold back the nasty little details that everyone on this planet has, just to be able to first reel someone into your web, and hope they will still be accepting of you after all is disclosed?
The reality is we are all in these online ‘meet someone’ programs because we are all having ...
1 Comments, 45 Views,
4 Votes
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To Active for My Age? 11/14/2004
Surfing, water skiing, moderate free style rock climbing,
4 x 4 off road driving, driving a snowmobile, camping, fishing
and extreme home remodeling are some of the activities
I enjoy frequently. Until recently I never gave a thought
about my hobbies and activities as being unusual for a man
of 57 years old.
A few weeks ago I was having dinner with a couple that have
been friends for ...
1 Comments, 19 Views,
4 Votes
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Erotic Stories ? 11/13/2009
What is the level of interest on Senior Friendfinder in
erotic writing? Is it frowned upon to post such writing
here? If not, what category?
I have a 40+ chapter erotic novel that I've shared on
Adultfriendfinder for quite a while and on Literotica
recently. It has received "rave reviews, "
but it's pretty intense and not for everyone.
Even though it explores very powerful ...
0 Comments, 49 Views,
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Are Juif Racist ? 12/8/2006
Here in Quebec, in Outremont, we do have Juif school and
We are from Quebec and catholic, and we can't go to their
school, Who is Racist ?
Juif can go to our College because it's free, but we
are from Quebec and not Juif and we can't go to their
school... Who is Racist ?
Rock
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When... 6/17/2006
When a loved one passes on and we are feeling blue...all
one needs to do is to look up into the night sky...and when
you see that one really bright and twinkling star...just
think of it as that special loved one winking back at you
saying that they are doing very well and are in good company......I
(sylvester) have found that this usually works to help
me to cheer up and realize that ...
0 Comments, 19 Views,
3 Votes
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When the Honeymoon is Over 6/23/2005
It's an odd situation that affects almost all of us.
What do we do to spice things up when the "Honeymoon
is over"? Some people say a vacation, others say a
bedroom wardrobe and others say counseling. Any ideas
on what the best fix is?
1 Comments, 127 Views,
3 Votes
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Your Dessert Personality 2/2/2005
If all of the desserts listed below were sitting in front
of you, which would you choose? Pick your dessert, then
look to see what psychiatrists think about you!
<br>
(Sorry you can only pick one)
<br>
Angel Food Cake
Brownies
Lemon Meringue
White Cake with Chocolate Icing
Strawberry Shortcake
Chocolate on Chocolate Cake
Ice Cream
Carrot Cake
...
0 Comments, 106 Views,
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Random thoughts on first dates 10/1/2015
- Pick a neutral location that has other people nearby.
Places such as Starbucks are good since the seating design
usually allows for some privacy.
- Have a prepared excuse to leave if the meeting is obviously
taking a dive.
- Gentlemen. Avoid insisting on Dutch first time around.
In fact, refuse it if she offers. I know we are all supposed to be equal and all in this day ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
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Being a Gentleman does mean being a Pushover 10/23/2009
A gentleman means respecting others and their opinions.
It also means not being a bully. I do my best in both those
regards..
However, being a gentleman does not mean they will take
any chit or be bullied..
I recently ask a person here to please quit clogging up a
post I had made, his response was smart-ass and with "go
to hell" intentions . All the man had to say was OK,
I am ...
0 Comments, 28 Views,
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Fitness program 5/20/2007
They say we should exercise and stay fit as long as we can
!!
My sentiments exactly .. unfortunately.
Walking can add minutes to your life. This enables you at
85 years old to spend an additional 5 months in a nursing
home at $5000 per month.
My grandmother started walking five miles a day when she
was 60. Now she's 97 years old and we don't know
where the ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
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Trolling Shallow Waters 7/6/2006
We ate the road
Burned rubber
The years
Where did they go
Trolling shallow waters
A thousand faces
The street below
Yellowing under
2 AM lamp light
Strollers strung out
Would you know
There’s a crack
In my window
Was not
To be imagined
Echoes of hunger
Tenement hell
Byway
*the hero with a thousand faces:
by ...
1 Comments, 21 Views,
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The Most 9/8/2005
The most destructive habit.......Worry
The greatest Joy.................Giving
The greatest loss............Loss of self-respect
<br>
The most satisfying work......Helping others
The ugliest personality trait...Selfishness
The most endangered species...Dedicated leaders
<br>
Our greatest natural resource...Our youth
The greatest "shot in the arm"..Encouragement
The ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
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Choosing Friends On The Internet 8/27/2005
It seems to me that many people choose their net friends
by location. But I wonder what the criteria is?
<br>
There are certainly so many more people on the East and West
coast than anywhere else. What about the rest of us?
<br>
Are we judged by our location or is it just that California
and Florida, and maybe Texas sound so much more intriguing.
And also across the ocean ...
0 Comments, 82 Views,
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Advice. Friends Have Great Lives? Who guided them? 2/10/2005
THE ROAD NOT TAKEN
TWO ROADS DIVERGED IN A WOOD
I TOOK THE ONE LESS TRAVELED BY
AND THAT HAS MADE ALL THE DIFFERENCE
Paraphrased R. Frost
<br>
DIFFERENCE IS STRENGTH
Just exactly what does this mean? How can what is bad for
most, be good for individuals? Here are some examples.
The America Cup Race was 114 years old when this ...
1 Comments, 75 Views,
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RE: "Think about it..." 11/19/2004
To the members that took the time to reply, I thank you.
<br>
For clarification: I totally agree that the open forum
is certainly no place to talk about our sexual acts specifically.
I was hoping that by the examples of questions I gave that
most would grasp the concept that I was not speaking of being
able to post our “bedroom antics”. But alas, it is obvious
by ...
0 Comments, 41 Views,
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Points 12/19/2017
Has anyone else noticed that when you do things for points
on the site they are not always added, i uploaded a photo
the other day and still haven't recieved the 100 points
for it. i e-mailed the help desk and they said they were experiacing
some problem, has anyone else had issues?
0 Comments, 7 Views,
1 Votes
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Useful information for new registrants... 3/30/2008
Useful information for new registrants(like me...)!
Hello all(New Sff...)friends, and all. A little help if you have mail problems...
If you are, same as me, a "new registrant" and
you have problems for reading messages sent to you by anyone, who
is not a "Silver or Gold member" or who have not
"bought Standard Contact Feature", the reason
is here (only "money" indeed...!): ...
1 Comments, 34 Views,
1 Votes
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woodworking 2/16/2007
I've been puttering with a jigsaw, sanders, etc for
awhile and recently acquired my 1st scroll saw. Does anyone
know a web site where I can get free patterns for small woodworking
projects? Would like to do more.
Thanks.
3 Comments, 25 Views,
1 Votes
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What to Do? 12/24/2006
I have found some jokes and anecdotes which I would like
to share in the Magazine. Trouble is they are from books
and other written material. This copyright thing is a pain
and SFF say "Original Material only". Clearly
everything comes from somewhere and I cannot believe all
the material I see is original. So please, Could someone
give me advice 'what to do'?
1 Comments, 25 Views,
1 Votes
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Animals Histories... 12/4/2007
The lion is a big cowardly and stupid. Most of the time, the
lion does not hunt himself. He's got things to do. He
sleeps. He leaves his female care to hunt in his place, or
it hide behind it so as not to take a blow by a gnou in its noble
royal balls.
Drawer bottom.
P.Desproges.
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My return trip to Quebec and Ontario,Canada 3/1/2007
Hello all you beautiful Canadians.
Last year, I visit Quebec and Ontario.I love Montreal
and Toronto and I have decided to go back in 2008.
Where are good places to stay please.
2 Comments, 42 Views,
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I am visiting Washington DC,need advice 2/21/2007
Hello my beautiful friends, I am planning to travel to Washington DC from Christchurch, New
Zealand. I need advice about DC can you help me please. All I need is you to answer questions, I am going to ask in
the future thank you. David
1 Comments, 32 Views,
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Recipe for banannas 12/1/2006
All you beautiful chefs out there in cyberville cafe.I
have 6 bananas nearly ripe what can I bake or cook from them.
You good words are most welcome.Just keep this in mind I
am a single male, hope that helps you.
Thanks
2 Comments, 60 Views,
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Spy = One of my Ex... 10/20/2006
How would you feel if your girldfriend after six months
without giving some news, call you and give shit because
I'm on some website and not giving to her all my attention
?
Contect, She's a teacher for primary level, grade
5... She was on some correcting exam for the student in a
private school... And...
She look at all the textes I wrote, and told me then I was acting ...
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