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A reason, a season or a lifetime...everthing has an end and a beginning. 1/12/2006
I really believe that in life we have to take chances, and
this means get into situations where one is sometimes open
to being hurt.
Being senior is no blanket of screening or shelter. Age
and experience still creates the same hurts, if and when
a love affair ends...so knowing this, why not experience
the affair and handle the rejection, with the same flair
and delight you started it ...
1 Comments, 52 Views,
93 Votes
,8.16 Score
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Response to;- Dating and Spending money. 1/12/2006
May I add a little understanding from a man's point
of view. When were being raised and taught how to date, many
of us were taught that women like to be treated special.
I dinner at a fine resturaunt, a movie, flowers, these things
we were taught to present a lady with to show her as a man we
were, or could be, a good provider for a family. Having the
ability to give these gifts can be seen ...
1 Comments, 56 Views,
21 Votes
,4.61 Score
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God and Ice Cream 1/12/2006
Last week I took my to a restaurant. My six-year-old
asked if he could say grace. As we bowed our heads he said,
"God is good, God is great. Thank you for the food,
and I would even thank you more if Mom gets us ice cream for
dessert. And Liberty and justice for all! Amen!"
<br>
Along with the laughter from the other customers nearby,
I heard a woman remark, "That's what's ...
1 Comments, 150 Views,
19 Votes
,5.63 Score
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How many stages do we go through? 1/12/2006
After the divorce is over, how long and how many stages do
we go through? What are they, and when do we know we are through
all? I have been a year now and feel reasonably well satisfied
I have worked through all, but maybe others know more than
I about much of this. I heard one man refer to taking half
the years you were together to get over marriage.. is that
so? if so I was 20 year, ...
8 Comments, 291 Views,
14 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Relationships for a Reason, a Season, a Lifetime 1/4/2006
People come into your life for a reason, a season, or a lifetime.
When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to
do.
<br>
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to
meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They
have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide
you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, ...
0 Comments, 75 Views,
13 Votes
,5.32 Score
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foot steps in the sand 12/24/2005
two pair and aware
traveling together
in the immediate
minimal thou it be
<br>
chance encounter
circumstance and event
passing phases
without content
<br>
knowing Kalahari wind
backfills track
evidance of the past
present and future enjure
0 Comments, 91 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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Chasing The Cart 12/24/2005
handle grip / wheels that stick
not the pick of / on the lot
you learn / cull before your turn
<br>
your following / it’s stop and go
bountiful mercantilism / shelved
vitamin enriched / quality / quantity
<br>
perimeter first / vegetables / dairy
and meat and cheese and deli
first and second tier / halfway there
<br>
aisles to thread / ...
1 Comments, 55 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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Riding the Whale 12/23/2005
day light afternoon hour
heavy rapping door knock
frantic neighbor the dock
your bay dock / is loose
is astray / floating free
wave wind tide /colluding
unhinging / anchor cable
<br>
his house / a cliff hanger
eagle perch / sky mansion
he the strait duty watcher
strait sentinel /look out
<br>
he carries / blue hawser
blue weave / fully rigged ...
2 Comments, 60 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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love versus hate 12/11/2005
We meet someone of the opposite sex, and our stomach might
do a flipflop, or our heads, so we want to see them. We make
a date to go dancing. Oh, gosh our whole body is jumping around
and we feel we might be too nervous to carry this date through.
But we do, and the next and the next. By now, we are both getting
serious, he proposes, or maybe she will if he is too slow,
which it has ...
1 Comments, 103 Views,
11 Votes
,4.10 Score
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Sunburst Feathers 12/10/2005
feral kill two sunburst feather kills
concentric paradigm hub centre
indistinguishable death sanguine
selectively spread feathered quills
<br>
alighting waiting out slurry storm
wings weighted sleet dampened
flight exhaustion lack of attention
easy prey predator’s street mark
<br>
unaware nocturnal stalks foreshore
feral cats ...
1 Comments, 59 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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How to Lure A Capricorn Into Matrimony 11/19/2005
Capricorn are reliable, practical, disciplined, reserved
and very serious about everything. Fortunately that includes
sensual gratification. The Capricorn libido actually
increases with age. The Capricorn wants someone who is
reserved and proper in public behind closed doors. Oh la
la - and think to yourself what a wonderful world. To turn
on a Capricorn - you must convince them that ...
1 Comments, 124 Views,
15 Votes
,0.99 Score
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Stealing your heart 11/15/2005
I sit here trying to make a poem that rhymes
I think about you, your sweet voice and your smile
The conversations, your laughter and our fun times
Wondering how to steal your heart all the while
<br>
<br>
I want you to be fully aware of my intention
I want you to know I really do care
I am planning on winning over your affection
Wanting to be your own private Teddy ...
1 Comments, 125 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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rain 10/5/2005
Anyone who says sunshine brings happiness has never danced
in the rain
1 Comments, 85 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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2005-09-22
LADY CAY RAISE UP YOUR HEAD
LOOK AROUND YOU'RE STILL ALIVE
TIME TO GET UP AND OUT OF BED
ONE MORE NIGHT ALONE YOU SURVIVE
<br>
THE GOOD LORD WANTS TO KEEP YOU HERE
FOR MANY REASONS WE NOW KNOW
SPEND TIME WITH YOUR FRIENDS SO DEAR
SO IT'S UP AND OUT OF BED YOU GO
<br>
YOU HAVE ANOTHER WONDERFUL DAY AHEAD
TO SPREAD YOUR SPECIAL LOVING AND CARE
DON'T FRET BE HAPPY TO BE ALIVE INSTEAD
FRIENDS WILL HELP WITH THAT LOAD YOU BEAR
<br>
GO DO YOUR EVERY MORNING THINGS
SHOWER, DRESS AND FIX SOMETHING TO EAT
FORGET YOU’RE FLYING ON DAMAGED WINGS
WITH TIME AND FRIENDS YOUR WOES WE'LL BEAT
<br>
RELISH IN THE THOUGHTS OF LOVE
DON'T WORRY AND DWELL ON THE PAIN
YOUR ANGELS ARE HOOVERING ABOVE
KNOWING LOVE CAN AND WILL RAINE.
<br>
LADY CAY NICKNAMED LACE PLEASE BE AWARE
CHASE THE THOUGHTS OF PAIN FROM YOUR HEAD
YOU HAVE MANY FRIENDS BESIDES ME THAT CARE
NOW TURN AROUND AND MAKE YOUR BED.
<br>
FOR YOU LADY CAY PATIENCE IS A MUST
THE TIME FOR HEALING IS HERE NOT THERE
IN FRIENDSHIP YOU CAN PUT YOUR TRUST
IN OUR HOLY GOD, PLACE YOUR PRAYER.
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What happened? 9/10/2005
After six dates, he just stops talking to me; no answering
calls, emails. Not a word to explain what happened. We live
in a society where, unfortunately, some people believe
they can just trample on someone else's emotions and
it is reflected on tv, news, etc. Respect begins with acknowledging
that one cannot have relationships with others unless
respect is shown. Thank you for the ...
3 Comments, 307 Views,
20 Votes
,4.91 Score
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Did President Bush RespondQuicklt enough 9/9/2005
well I don't usually talk on politics but this is a time
will ask did President Bush respond to the hurricane disaster
quickly enough when he knew New Orleans would be a disaster
before it happened? I am feeling so sad for all the lives
lost in the city and the poor who were so forgotten would
it have made a difference if it had been the rich ? I think
it would have.
Also the response ...
1 Comments, 47 Views,
0 Votes
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What are the goals here? 8/17/2005
Of course the relationship is destined to demise if one's
profile is seeking a long-term relationship and possible
marriage. On the other hand, that person has very little
time to devote to others, and claims to have been alone for
so long that it's hard to followed ideas of his dates.....he
wants her to go braless to a date (which is a bit over the top
for a 42 D large breasted woman) ...
0 Comments, 108 Views,
10 Votes
,4.58 Score
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There is Life After A BreakUp! 8/12/2005
You've been dating 9 months now and things are looking
a little rough. You don't hear from him (or her) as much
and when you do, conversations are short and vague. You
hear the "I've been busy" excuse and you
wonder "What did I do wrong".
Ladies (and gents), when you start hearing these responses
it's time to mentally and emotionally prepare yourself
for a break-up. (Get your mind ...
2 Comments, 242 Views,
23 Votes
,4.88 Score
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If I was happy would I be here? 8/10/2005
I remember chatting with this guy once, nothing new about
this but I had asked him if he was happily married he said
to me "if I was happy would I be here".
I wonder if that is true if someone is in a relationship and
they spend time on the net does this mean they are or are not
happy??
2 Comments, 403 Views,
30 Votes
,3.04 Score
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Men can be so stupid!!!!!! 7/23/2005
It started out as friends and we maintained that even though
we were intimate. I fell in love and thought God sent him
to me. He decided things were too serious and wanted to be
friends. I believe he loved me. Why are men so stupid when
it comes to commitment? To me it is so simple. I thought we
had it all, but it turned out he was biding his time while
waiting for the perfect woman to step ...
6 Comments, 488 Views,
35 Votes
,3.50 Score
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Divorce 7/9/2005
Hello, I have been in a relationship for eight years and
enjoy all aspects except what happens behind closed doors.
I have tried everything to keep the fire lit on our sex life
but nothing seems to work? I have thought of the D word but
think it is a shame to ruin a good thing when overall I am happy
with her. It seems that I got a large part of what’s important
in a relationship ...
6 Comments, 266 Views,
15 Votes
,1.60 Score
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Modern living 6/29/2005
1) The man is at fault. He seems to think that there is something
to prove. Usually of course his virility. So off he goes
beating his chest and looking for the first Jane in the jungle.
2) The woman is at fault. She's had enough. The
have all grown up and the man looks like a pair of old shoes
that need chucking out. A younger man is what she wants.
An article I read recently said that ...
1 Comments, 148 Views,
13 Votes
,1.97 Score
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Made Easy (or easier) 6/17/2005
We have talked about honesty and it really comes into play
here. The truth hurts sometimes but hurts most of the time
when a relationship turns sour for one of the parties. It's
best to be truthful and just tell it like it is or maybe sugar
coat it to save some feelings, but be firm that it is over.
Feelings will always be hurt, but we are adults and most
of us can handle it and move ...
2 Comments, 167 Views,
24 Votes
,3.81 Score
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You must have some standards 6/11/2005
I hardly noticed really when it started to happen. On reflection
it could have happened 20 yrs ago. A king size bed and me all
alone on 'my side'.
Or was it only 10 yrs ago when I was only coming home at the
w/ends? Or was it when we stopped bathing together?
left home and we found that we had nothing to talk about?
When i was away I would ring three times a day. Morning, lunch
time and ...
1 Comments, 166 Views,
16 Votes
,3.42 Score
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Its so hard to let you go 6/1/2005
Wherever life may take you, your always at home right here
in my heart. its not easy to let you go but this is our destiny
we need to move on. that is the worst part of breaking up but
life goes on be happy and enjoy the life.
<br>
by: singlemom122157 02/07/2005
1 Comments, 142 Views,
18 Votes
,2.72 Score
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Relationships Can Be Disappointing 5/8/2005
This is why I always try to give the other party a face-saving
way out, regardless of who wants to end it. I like to leave
this world off better for having sojourned here. Everyone
has feelings. Everyone matters.
0 Comments, 194 Views,
21 Votes
,3.50 Score
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It's not that hard 4/5/2005
Breaking up? wow! it is something that should be honest
and talked about before hurt feelings occur. No one likes
to be told that they are not "the one" and least
of all be told that by a person they thought really liked
them. But breaking up can open you up to new people who may
be more interested in you than the person you are presently
seeing. The main thing in a breakup is to tell ...
0 Comments, 163 Views,
14 Votes
,5.54 Score
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appearance (physique) vs personality 3/1/2005
Is appearance (Physique) more important when one search
for a sole mate, if so why.
Is personality more important when one search for a soul
mate.
What do you ladies think about this question. How do you
rate a men on a scale of 1 - 10, what tangents do you use.
1 Comments, 78 Views,
8 Votes
,2.78 Score
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moving in 2/28/2005
You just met the woman of your dream, you do things together,
you share the chore then....
your older moves in, every seems to be ok for a while,
then the atmosphere start to change, the woman of your dream
has to be convince to participate in the events you both
use to enjoyed. Then one day you find your in a compromising
situation.
Do you choose family over this lady?
Do you ...
3 Comments, 120 Views,
17 Votes
,0.58 Score
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promises..promises. 1/29/2005
Had met a lady on the telephone dating system. Never did
mention she smoked as had that in my profile.She stated
she was quitting and I beleived her. We even bought a house
together for us and HER .After two years of broken
promises on the smoking debate, her two started
to smoke also..like mom. I ended the relationship and walked
away from the house we had bought. She lost the house and ...
4 Comments, 251 Views,
23 Votes
,1.61 Score
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