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TranquilMoments1 72 F
3  Articles
5th anniversary of the 1st legal gay marriage..Their Story   7/1/2006

I THOUGHT YOU MIGHT BE INTERESTED IN READING THIS ARTICLE,
Advocacy News - 5th Anniversary of the 1st legal gay marriage
January 12, 2006
5th anniversary of the 1st legal gay marriage "Gay vows covered like a royal wedding" Toronto Star "A message to the world" Globe and Mail
By Kevin Bourassa and Joe Varnell "This was not like any wedding before ...


2 Comments, 67 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
eastmountains 79 F
14  Articles
good relationships come in all sizes and shapes   6/22/2006

This is about my grandsons! They are 9 and 11. The youngest called me up last weekend to make sure I was coming to his little league game. (Like I would have missed it!!) My 11 year old plays catcher and the 9 year old is on the same team and plays third base. MY 11 year old caught a pop fly (halfway to first base) and quickly threw it to his brother on third and he tagged the runner ...


1 Comments, 106 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
Blueeyesredhair 69 F
10  Articles
Self-love equals happy holidays   6/20/2006

I give myself a present at the holidays. No, it's not jewelry, a fur coat or a new car. It's a loving inventory of how I've grown in the past year, heralding the changes in my life and giving glory to God for providing the courage to recognize the good and beautiful in all that surrounds me. You can't have love unless you give it away. May your New Year be filled with good health, ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
Blueeyesredhair 69 F
10  Articles
Falling leaves II   6/20/2006

Perhaps someone would like to comment on the simile "don't hold that kitten too tightly, hold it gingerly and listen to it PURr". Maybe it is too cloudy in its meaning.


0 Comments, 77 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
Blueeyesredhair 69 F
10  Articles
Falling leaves   6/20/2006

Falling leaves, like relationships, will fall whether you like it or not. The ebb and flow of nature shows us the path to follow in seeking harmony. Don't squeeze that little kitten too tightly. Hold it gingerly, and listen to it PURR !


0 Comments, 72 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
Pinay5 63 F
1  Article
Revealing Oneself   6/18/2006

I don't know how to say this and I am saying this for the first time. Physically I am female, otherwise, I am different. I have been married, have and everything stays the same with me. It is very painful to admit you are different because people are so cruel and mean. When you are different, you are looked at like you have some contagious disease. I lived in my shell and my pretenses. I ...


0 Comments, 138 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
likestolaugh 70 M
7  Articles
Most Men Are Jerks   6/18/2006

I’m a man, and from what I’ve learned at work, most men are jerks. <br> Whenever we get together for lunch, and the conversation turns to women, dating, sexuality or marriage, I hear the most inane, dehumanizing and sexist comments. <br> This is the sum of most their comments (made when women are not present): <br> Women are on earth for two ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 72 Votes ,3.04 Score
sunrisenewday 55 F
2  Articles
Building a Bridge Between Australia and Iowa   6/18/2006

I am currently in a relationship with a gentle man in Australia. Just for the record, Iowa is 8, 624 miles away from my friend. Is it easy to build a relationship with someone so far away? No. But, if we do become a team, then it was worth the risks and the gamble. At least with the Internet and phones, we are able to communicate. And we have an expression, "Cards on the Table" -- ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
nicemanjust4u 48 M
1  Article
long distance   6/18/2006

What are the advantages and disadvantages of a long distance relationship ?


1 Comments, 72 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
oddyssey4ever 77 F
4  Articles
Sexual talk   6/18/2006

I don't know about you girls but i find it digusting when a man has to talk about sex when they are in conversation...i like to meet a man without talking about sex, that always comes later in the relationship, men can be so vulgar at times seems like all they want to do is get in your pants first..well i guess i am old fashion but i like to find out all about each other before getting into ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 96 Votes ,3.87 Score
dinty3 79 M
4  Articles
re: when will men wake up and smell the coffee   6/17/2006

This article had a few valid points, but why do men bring up sex in their profiles? There are countless reasons for this, perhaps they have left a lovless marriage where the partner has no desire in physical love due to hormonal shifts, an operation where she no longer feels like a whole woman and have lost self worth(these can be treated with interpersonal communication and seeking ...


0 Comments, 77 Views, 114 Votes
blubabyxxoo 57 F
6  Articles
Important relationship fctor   6/15/2006

I always thought that love was the most important factor in relationships. Isn't that true? Now I find I am starting to 2nd guess myself. Perhaps security is more important. What do you think?


2 Comments, 69 Views, 20 Votes ,3.89 Score
Flirtybrit 74 F
6  Articles
Response to 9/06 response to "It's the truth..   6/15/2006

Stand back ladies....This one is taken! Thank you for restoring my faith in MAN kind. THERE IS someone still living and breathing and looking for a woman who really wants to care for you...but are you the only one on this site? Have I found that elusive butterfly? Hang on I have to find my net...it was put in storage years ago!


1 Comments, 102 Views, 19 Votes ,4.71 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
A kiss is just a kiss   6/15/2006

I like to kiss, but I like it a certain way, I don't mind french kissoing, either. Everybody has their own way of doing things, which includes kissing. Is it wrong for one to tell the other that they don't like how they kiss? And would a man be willing to change his kissing style? Would a woman be willing to? Is it possible thbat after years of kissing the same way, do you think that onew ...


5 Comments, 206 Views, 21 Votes ,6.59 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
SEX- the ultimate question   6/15/2006

Why is SEX so important to many people these days.? A woman feels out of place and left out even when she is dressed nicely today. If she is dressed sexy, then she will be looked at. Do we women need to feel that we must let out top hang down the shoulder as far as possible, wear our dresses away above the knee. BIG boots are required and WALK with a wiggle. What ever happened to just good ...


11 Comments, 173 Views, 16 Votes ,5.33 Score
blubabyxxoo 57 F
6  Articles
Keeping your profile active   6/15/2006

I recently started dating a man . We met through this site. We live in the same city and have had several dates. I am completely taken with him. My problem is that this guy continues to keep his profile on the dating site and visits it frequently. He says he goes there only if someone contacts him. I told him it makes me feel insecure; he said until he feels "safe" (previous women have left him ...


4 Comments, 170 Views, 33 Votes ,7.37 Score
Flirtybrit 74 F
6  Articles
It's the Truth........Honestly   6/15/2006

Having been raised in Europe, I still have difficulty in persuading my American male friends in my life that what I discuss with them is the truth. I was raised to believe that my man was the center of my world and should be treated accordingly. Our home should always be neat, and clean, laundry done, folded and ironed and a good meal ready and waiting at the appropriate time. That I ...


2 Comments, 185 Views, 48 Votes ,6.42 Score
TUX4 93 M
8  Articles
Why Am I Afraid To Tell You Who I Am?   6/7/2006

Some very wise soul wrote a book with that title about 20 years ago. In the book the author answered the question this way: Because if I do and you don't like who I am, it's all that I have.


3 Comments, 239 Views, 31 Votes
ruggedntenderaty 75 M
7  Articles
How soon does the building start?   5/1/2006

Do we start building at the first mail, the first phone call, or after the first meeting? Maybe it is after the second meeting as all before that is just meeting, or does it only come when we agree we are going forward?


4 Comments, 326 Views, 17 Votes ,3.41 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
A Strand of Friendship   4/23/2006

Friendship is a nice thing once you know that you have found a good friend. But, what exactly is a "good friend" There are friends then there friends. Most people have got A friend, rather its a male or a female. It doesn't really matter what sex they are, providing they aren't married to someone else, or dating someone. A friend can be your neighbor, someone that you you just go for coffee ...


4 Comments, 281 Views, 23 Votes ,5.93 Score
camelottalott 83 F
3  Articles
LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP..Definition Please   4/17/2006

In most profiles you will see LTR...Definition LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP... <br> <br> My question is LTR does that refer to an "Open" Relationship or a "closed exclusive" Relationship. This is a question that should be asked by each party before entering into an LTR. If it is not asked the faint of heart can be hurt very badly. <br> <br> ...


1 Comments, 281 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
yaaka 49 F
2  Articles
Am broken hearted   4/12/2006

my dear friend let me hope that you will help me. Am asingle mum who was broken heraten by the father of my little ten months baby he was arested i looked for more all to put hime out when i was 3months prigant but he left me for some else till now he has never seen .what can i do being asingle mum is toooooooooo hard my dear ones.


2 Comments, 81 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
CAN YOU SEE ME   4/12/2006

members why do you post a picture of yourself, where we can't tell if you are blonde, redhaired, or got blue toes even? We need one that has you in a clear view sso we can SEE YOU. One is not willing to guess, or assume what you look like in person, if we are to meet you one day, so why bother to post a picture that is not helping you or anyone. I have met a couple guys from SFF to find ...


6 Comments, 115 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
richard6029 72 M
28  Articles
Magical formula   4/12/2006

I sometimes think having a relationship becomes a habit. Some people seem to go through life having one partner after another. Yet, somewhere along the line they both must have felt something surely? Or perhaps I'm being cynical. Good companionship, likes and dislikes, sex or dare I say it. Love! These people who have two or even more partners in their lives. Surely don't do it ...


2 Comments, 151 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
Stircrazy1965 50 M
8  Articles
Using your brain between the ears.   4/12/2006

I read recently that the average number of sexual partners women were having before marriage these days was 14. That quite horrified me to be honest and I found it quite hard to believe, or am I being totally naive? I am a pretty broadminded, liberal old 1965 model, despite a strict catholic school education which tried to instill into our brains the importance of keeping our 'johnsons' in ...


7 Comments, 87 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
most essential...   3/14/2006

Most essential thing in a relationship to me is Honesty first. If I feel I can trust a person right off the bat, I would feel that maybe there might be something there, in the future. To feel secure with a person is probably the most required, in any kind of a relationship. I don't tell if I have money, I don't give out personal information to start with. Some people want to know what a ...


1 Comments, 50 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Greyfox2004 82 M
1  Article
Reflections at the dawn of a day   3/13/2006

The following was written by me about two years ago, but it is as relevant today as it was then, even though my circumstances of where I now live have changed since. <br> EARLY MORNING REFLECTIONS <br> When I woke up this morning I made my usual daystarter, an excessively strong mug of coffee with just a hint of milk, and with that and my roll-your-own tobacco I sat ...


1 Comments, 108 Views, 23 Votes ,7.10 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
definition of a relationship   3/10/2006

Is the word "relationship" in the dictionary. when one "thinks" they might be in a relationship, what does that mean? You cannot see anyone else. Can you talk about that with the one you are assuming you have a relationship with? What is "relationship material???" are we just to naive to really understand just what we are expected to do, or do you need to be told? If you are aseeing ...


6 Comments, 111 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
what kind do you want   3/10/2006

ladies, men are really baffled. They are wondering just what you want in a relationship? Are you lo0king for a lovydovey style, and old fashioned style, a sexless style, or just a sexy style. do you go out to bars with the girls often? Do you want your spouse to come to the bar with you and your girlfriends? (he probably would be happy, too and it might even make him more affectionate when ...


2 Comments, 75 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
true love can be great   3/8/2006

WHAT IS LOVE-- how many definitions Do you know for the word "love?" Everybody has had a taste of love in their life, one way or another.Rather its the opposite sex, brother and sister connection, a mother, a father, your grandparents, or your chilfren. One can love their friend, as well, only in a different way then with your spouse. With any relationship we do not accept any kind of ...


4 Comments, 95 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score