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clanker3 74 M
1  Article
Being Careful With Whom You Trust Yor Heart   2/22/2006

Not all the times are bad in a relationship till you start finding out the other does not care and just wants to be friends and really dont want that. You have given you heart and soul to this person and you get played for a fool, some cultures are to have respect, honor and lose face for these things but it does not always apply to them, guess they are the exceptions.I dont see how a ...


0 Comments, 150 Views, 13 Votes ,2.81 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
Friendship is needed......   2/17/2006

Friendship! sweeter of life. and soldier of society.Like it or not, friends are becoming more and more important to the average person. Friendship is good for our soul. As we get older, we need good friends to keep us young. A good friendship can help us to be healthy, and avoid the possibility of getting depressed, and desperate for better living. It has been proven, also, that breast ...


2 Comments, 63 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
SvetlanaCh 64 F
1  Article
Plus of distance relationship   2/17/2006

When people have e-mail correspondence or talk on-line, they have possibility know about inside of soul, about what in mind of person they decide meet with, may be this is big "plus" of distance relationship... when two people onward be aware of interest, thought, internal world of that person, with which they are met subsequently...


1 Comments, 114 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
sunshineokie 78 F
7  Articles
STRAWS FROM MY BALE: Sunshineokie   2/13/2006

Sorry Kiddos, here I am, on my journey, in my Third Age...and everytime I think I've gotten soemthing all figured out...I get a newer, upgraded perspective. Building a relationship with a platonic friend seems to require about the same-ole-same-ole, ya know. Just, be good to each other, mind your manners, be polite, return what you borrow. But let me tell YOU! This romancing stuff takes ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
Our own self   2/11/2006

To be involved with your inner sense is good for many and terrible for others. One reason for this is, alot of people don't know what they want. We tend to say, this, but we mean that. We will do that, but really want to do this. We go to places that we aren't interested in, just to please someone else. We wander in various directions most of our lives, and don't usually get anywhere. ...


2 Comments, 82 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Honeybunz2 76 F
2  Articles
Meeting With Someone from SFF   2/11/2006

Hi, this is my first magazine article, so everyone bear with me if it isn't something you want to read. I met my hubby here on this site, so I have nothing bad to say about SFf (except for the normal complaints about it not working right, posts not being posted, and so forth). <br> The thing that folks need to remember is that this site is a microcosm of the world, ...


4 Comments, 277 Views, 29 Votes ,6.25 Score
Fitramon 73 M
7  Articles
The question   2/4/2006

Why every time I try to find a friend the paper with the request of MONEY stares on me from the monitor ??


2 Comments, 123 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
helenshotman 60 F
1  Article
Destiny   2/1/2006

Never find ur destiny, let destiny find u.Its Ok to cry as hard and as long you want to just make sure, that when u stop crying.You won't cry for the same reason anymore.Life is a journey keep on going until you reach your destiny.


1 Comments, 84 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
kels00 61 F
9  Articles
A new begining.........   1/29/2006

When we meet someone and they become that speacial someone, always keep the romance fresh, keep in contact every day that is so important to hear a loved ones voice, it brings a smile, all ways do little things I send cheeky little texts i also put little message were I know he can find them sometime that day, tell him /her what you think or feel, by phone or text if and when you can, when ...


8 Comments, 680 Views, 52 Votes ,4.72 Score
Lonely6656 70 M
1  Article
My Sweetheart!   1/23/2006

I.am very new to this so please bare with me.I don't even know where to start but, I have always been told that it's best to start at the beggining so I will.It has been my pleasure to have met alot of people through the chatrooms of SFF.I was truely a very lucky man when I met Jes4now.She is a very loving and understanding and patient woman.I have never met anyone quite like her.I truely ...


1 Comments, 143 Views, 8 Votes ,5.33 Score
Flirtybrit 74 F
6  Articles
Just Keep your Heart Open   1/17/2006

I approach every new "meeting" or first date with an open heart and an open mind. That's not always easy, because that first meeting usually follows e-mails and phone calls and YES definately, a well formed opinion. Those of us who have dating experience tucked well under our belts carefully steer away from "jaded", "sterio typical" thoughts and step up to enjoying the experience of a new ...


1 Comments, 324 Views, 24 Votes ,5.40 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
old fashioned relationship   1/12/2006

This article is to all the male members, remember when your mother told you how she came to meet your father...First, she had trouble passing the idea to her father about even dating, then she had to be chaperoned by a big brother, next, she had to be home early, then she had to abide by all these strict rules from her father. Not to mention when she fell in love with your father and was ...


0 Comments, 115 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
softnessreal 76 F
3  Articles
ALLOW yourself to play   1/3/2006

ALLOW your Inner feelings out to Play It takes talent to play the mind but I never play games with the heart. I am too wise. I was born, ‘responsible’, and my ‘undoing’ of the systems oppressive mind set was to fight with ‘Delight’. Delight is “losing the mind, finding the body, and regaining the MIND anew.' Being ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
bachelorbythesea 65 M
1  Article
cultivating a beautiful romance   12/4/2005

Romance doesn't have to end.Love keeps getting better.Passion will be tamed somewhat The spark that turns into a flame, can also consume common sense. <br> There is only one person in world that can make me happy , and that person is me. I need to be happy, to be in love with life, and to continue to evolve spiritually. I have been in love and understand about minimizing ...


1 Comments, 81 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
Blueeyesredhair 69 F
10  Articles
Second-class citizens   11/10/2005

When a single, available woman settles for a married man who is looking for a "discrete affair", she is accepting the status of a second-class citizen. This man is so ashamed of his behavior and you that he wouldn't want his friends nor the woman to whom he has pledged lifelong fidelity to discover his secret life. Don't you deserve the best? Don't you love yourself enough to wait until ...


2 Comments, 232 Views, 24 Votes ,4.27 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
How To Charm A Gemini Into Matrimony   11/7/2005

Come on Baby, lets go to Vegas, Pack your bags, we are leaving in two hours, Gemini will be ready. Geminis like quick on the spur decisions and immediate action. Action is the magic word. If a Gemini wants it, he wants it now. The moment is critical and you must go with it. Otherwise- it will never come back. <br> The Gemini likes instant coffee, instant breakfast and ...


4 Comments, 154 Views, 15 Votes ,0.53 Score
missioncontrol 69 F
1  Article
Get to know one another first   11/2/2005

Having reach a time period in my life where I don't want to repeat the history I have left behind, a new and different opportunity entered into my life. A man from SFF had asked if we could meet, to get to know one another. <br> This man wanted to know the real me, what I was really all about, and what kind of a person I'm. In return I would find out the real him, the real ...


1 Comments, 137 Views, 31 Votes ,7.17 Score
redlove19632 55 M
1  Article
Age   10/23/2005

I have been on a few dating sites but i find this one is by far the best, i have made some good friends from here , but tell me does age really matter, i dont think so ..but it does seem like some ladies think so.


5 Comments, 181 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
kels00 61 F
9  Articles
HURRY UP - SLOW DOWN   10/11/2005

When starting a relationship do we rush and get to the first date , or take one day at a time? <br> Personally I would prefare to take it slow get to know each other a bit on the net then chatting via phone to see if you laugh at the same things... can you both chat with ease, do you have simular likes or dislikes ? if you chat with a person long enough, and they are not gen... ...


3 Comments, 123 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
darkmoon79 39 F
1  Article
Age is an issue   10/9/2005

Age is an issue if you prefer someone younger/older. Otherwise, you wouldn't even care to ask how old they are. So, my ultimate question is: Where are the older (but no too old) men who like younger girls?


0 Comments, 74 Views, 20 Votes ,0.83 Score
Madisgrandma 70 F
8  Articles
Are You Really Ready for A Relationship?   9/22/2005

Hello Everyone. I wanted to say that most of us are on this website hopefully for the same reason, to find a permanent, satisfying relationship aren't we? I have heard that some people are in it only for the sex and that's not what I'm about. Unfortunately, it ruins it for some of us who don't feel that way. I've actually heard this from women, as well as the men. Most of us have already ...


3 Comments, 409 Views, 31 Votes ,5.54 Score
love4funy 54 M
1  Article
A wonderful Message by George Carlin   8/25/2005

Like to share a wonderful Message by George Carlin, hope you enjoy it: <br> The paradox of our time in history is that <br> we have taller buildings but shorter tempers, <br> wider freeways, but narrower viewpoints. <br> We spend more, but have less, <br> we buy more, but enjoy less. <br> <br> <br> We ...


5 Comments, 491 Views, 60 Votes ,7.85 Score
LuvPrincess4u 70 F
1  Article
No Matter the Age, What's important   8/20/2005

We hear every day how so many singles are looking for mr or miss right. We read profiles stating that one is honest, believes communication is the key, and wants that special somebody. Yet, no one seems to be connecting. What is important in a relationship? <br> It is the humble opinion of this 49 year old woman that the most important things in a relationship are: 1) honesty ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 72 Votes ,9.09 Score
blubabyxxoo 57 F
6  Articles
Opening yourself to a relationship   8/20/2005

Opening yourself to a relationship so fully that you actually lose your mind is a dangerous, scary and exhilarating thing. <br> It can be wonderful. But passion isn't enough. <br> There comes a time when that bright passion that carried you along fades a little. Sometimes, it just vanishes. <br> Where are you then? <br> If all that your ...


1 Comments, 164 Views, 17 Votes ,4.26 Score
LadyM 73 F
6  Articles
Try building a relationship on honesty...   8/17/2005

....and if honesty is not in your face, then be honest about the fact that you are lying. Many people are happy with a relationship with someone who is already attached because they do not want to be co-erced into a permanency. This is fine if each person knows what is happening. It seems absurd that at the age of prime we are suddenly bitching about 'married people cheating...' Yes, I ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 100 Votes
Madisgrandma 70 F
8  Articles
Commitment   8/12/2005

What is commitment to you? To me it's: Promise, truth, word of honor, trust, assurance, understanding, agreement and pact. <br> Care to add anything else ladies and gents? <br> Lydia


0 Comments, 82 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
monaelisa42 76 F
3  Articles
ALONE AGAINST DESTINY   8/10/2005

I FELL SO BAD THAT IT´S DIFFICULT FOR ME TO WRITE, I FEEL THAT I WANT TO SCREAM, AND I CAN´T , BUT IT´S SO MUCH MY NEEDNES THAT I´M CRYING NOW .I´M SORRY IF I TELL YOU IT.MY IS SICK SINCE LAST DECEMBER I´M VERY SAD BECAUSE SHE CAN´T WORK BY THE MOMENT.I´M DIVORCED AND I HAVE A LITTLE ALIMONY PENSION, I´M DEPRESSED BECAUSE AT THE SAME TIME, I HAVE RECIVED BAD NEWS , MY EX LAWYER ...


3 Comments, 277 Views, 15 Votes ,3.44 Score
richard6029 72 M
28  Articles
Love is blind   8/7/2005

When, after years of having what you think is loving, caring, relationship. It suddenly dawns on you that it is all one sided. That all you have done is given and got nothing back in return. Then love really is blind.


0 Comments, 131 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
MatureLadyWanted 51 M
9  Articles
Open communication   6/1/2005

Hello, how much should I tell my sexual partners about my fantasies? I don't want to scare them away but I also want to explore the full realms of sex.


1 Comments, 131 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
singlemom122157 66 F
6  Articles
How to get the right relationship   6/1/2005

Love is not matter on how to get the right person, but to get the right relationship. the important question is are you capable to build a relationship that you wanted?


1 Comments, 78 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score