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Scotland43 80 F
1  Article
...........just some thoughts for you, serious people only!!   9/19/2007

this is for seriously looking only, not for playboys.. We all know that life isnt fair, or should anyway, still, I think something is missing here... on the profiles I read. Ok guys, you are looking for girls that look great, slim, blonde, brunette, redhed, tall..whatever! Must hike camp fish cook or wear corsets or skirts..cant drink or smoke, fabulous in bed, otherwise perfect ladies, ...


16 Comments, 581 Views, 63 Votes ,8.31 Score
PURPLE_AURA 74 F
1  Article
YOU CAN FIND TRUE LOVE ON LINE   3/16/2008

Some may think after a few mix ups that they can't find a dearest and truest love relation on line.. Especialy the ladies such as myself..I learned a few lessons about looking into chat rooms..there are some success stories there, but mine did not begin in chat..My fiance found me through my profile and I wrote an honest to goodness article on my likes , dislikes and who and what Iam..was ...


5 Comments, 389 Views, 50 Votes ,7.18 Score
wooer 79 M
8  Articles
Why You Might Not Deserve a Hot, Older Woman   5/5/2009

Men, are you looking for that hot, older woman experience? Do you think that your young age is all that is necessary to attract her? Are you finding out that things aren't quite going your way in the seduction department? Well, I'm here to help you boys with a list of tips and suggestions: 1. Come-on line that never works: "You remind me of my mom and she's pretty cool. " Translates to: ...


2 Comments, 354 Views, 75 Votes ,6.77 Score
seetheworld 74 F
1  Article
What are the men on this site really looking for?   9/19/2009

Pleiku says that she has seen a lot of young men on this site and wonders if they are looking for a sugar mommy.
I personally am looking for someone closer to my age, but want to get to know the person. A relationship doesn't start with sex, and I see some of the profiles of older men having "doubles entendres" and I wonder what they are truly looking for.
Is it that at my ...


4 Comments, 146 Views, 14 Votes ,6.34 Score
goingeasy4u2 63 M
2  Articles
New foundations   7/27/2008

A serious long term relationship is doomed from the start if you try to build or add on to the foundations of a previous relationship. Start off with a fresh plan, and learn from the mistakes of yourself and others that made any previous building fall down. Any new building needs a lot of hard work and effort to make it special and long lasting, and every now and then minor repairs are ...


2 Comments, 69 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
FineWinev43 77 F
1  Article
Building a New Friendship   2/14/2010

Is this just a female thing or do men go thru this too - someone emails you and after one or two emails (especially with people in your own local community) they want to meet immediately. For me, I prefer to build the friendship first via email then proceed to a phone call and from there meet face to face. I personally find that it's easier to get to know someone (as much as you can) with ...


29 Comments, 615 Views, 32 Votes ,5.40 Score
esknr 81 M
1  Article
Relationship Ingredience   11/25/2007

I believe that there certain things that are absolutely required for a relationship to work properly. I also believe that there is someone out there for each and every one of us who are looking. In addition, I believe that these meeting sites are an excelent way to meet people and find that special someone in which we are looking for. In order for this to happen, the following ...


2 Comments, 71 Views, 254 Votes ,5.36 Score
BeautifulIntell 72 F
1  Article
Build Trust by Practicing Safe Sex   12/18/2008

Nothing builds trust and the path toward ecstatic sexuality than the practice of safe sex.



Men, take heed.



Women love a man who loves and takes great care of himself... cause she knows he'll be loving and caring of her too..and she can wholeheartedly reciprocate.

Your comments?


0 Comments, 92 Views, 13 Votes ,5.32 Score
dlw78216 69 F
6  Articles
to build or not to build...   11/3/2007

there seems to be so much energy and enthusiasm for building the perfect relationship. i've enjoyed some very satisfying relationships in my lifetime... but i've reached a point where i am not so eager to 'adjust' to someone else anymore. instead of cooking big meals, i eat cold cereal for supper when i want to. and i don't have to work around someone else's moods...don't have to explain ...


2 Comments, 149 Views, 14 Votes ,5.22 Score
diamond7369 77 M
1  Article
needing someone   6/5/2017

young or older , man or woman , big or small , white or black , as long as they can satisfy my needs , I will satisfy their needs now is the time for great friendships whatever the needs R !!


0 Comments, 12 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
estrellita2 71 F
1  Article
do men really know how to?   7/26/2011

I've met a few men on this site and wonder if they really know what it takes to build a relationship ? It is quite surprising to discover that many of them think that a relationship refers to a sexual one. In their profile, they state that they want a 'long term' relationship with the potential of it developing into marriage, yet when it comes to the crunch, they want to see you only when ...


8 Comments, 350 Views, 28 Votes ,4.88 Score
puertovallarta 70 F
2  Articles
two hours away   5/17/2009

Do you think it is possible to build a relationship with a two hour distance between us and seeing each other only every other week???is long term possible like this or how do we get around this?? Thanks.


2 Comments, 105 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
smittentwice 63 M
1  Article
Investing your time!!!!   10/30/2007

There are so many people.....weather they be man or woman.That write once......then disappear.Whats the use....you never even allow the chance to get to know who you are writing to.I guess I get the impression that many people are just skimming or just killing time.I'm on here for a reason.I know I don't meet each and every womans dreams, needs or wants but this is me...to at least the ...


1 Comments, 39 Views, 71 Votes ,4.71 Score
angelina05 59 F
1  Article
You Do Not Need To Go Out Or Live With Someone For Years To Know If You Belong To Each Other.   10/31/2008

Another success story??? Yes, and you could only imagine what feelings two people in love can experience when they hear from their celebrant: “ … let me introduce you Mr. and Mrs… “ … -- in our case it was Mr. and Mrs.. Hughes… And we: a Slav lady from Belarus and an Aussie Gentleman from South Australia saw each other first in ...


1 Comments, 27 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
LadyRedMane 68 F
20  Articles
WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN?   3/25/2010

Some of these are new. It's amazing how profound these comments are. Art Linkletter would be proud..

TOUCHING WORDS FROM THE MOUTHS OF BABES



WHAT DOES LOVE MEAN?



A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, "What does love mean?" The answers they got were broader and deeper than ...


0 Comments, 97 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
bbwih 69 F
1  Article
If what's in your pants is your best asset   12/4/2007

I have yet to have a man in real life walk up to me and ask about my breasts. It's against the law. Not only that, but when a man begins a conversation about body parts and functions, it is an indication to me of what he is truely looking for .... a booty call.
I want to know why men feel they can carry on such inappropriate and disrespectful behavior online, do and say things that ...


3 Comments, 139 Views, 22 Votes ,4.33 Score
buddie 82 F
5  Articles
Mark my e-bedpost!   5/12/2010

Ladies, am I the only one? You start a correspondence with a gent in here, he seems interesting, after a note or two-he asks for your email adress. Then starts the endless stream of cut and posts (headed by addresses of numerous other ladies). Is this some kind of cyber belt notching?


4 Comments, 109 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
LadyRedMane 68 F
20  Articles
A Good Washing   6/19/2008

A little girl had been shopping with her Mom in Wal-Mart. She must have been 6 years old, this beautiful red haired, freckle faced image of innocence. It was pouring outside. The kind of rain that gushes over the top of rain gutters, so much in a hurry to hit the earth it has no time to flow down the spout. We all stood there under the awning and just inside the door of the ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
ladynice70 58 F
1  Article
I just wonder what is happening to the gents out there   10/21/2008

I am a silver member and have been really looking forward to meeting a soul-mate. <br> Once I upgraded my membership from standard to silver, there came this problem where the nice lads all wrote at once with all their nice photos, some even called me on my mobile for a nice chat or to hear my melody voice and then i realised that so many of them are jokers and are interested in ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 90 Votes ,3.97 Score
drummerbob 78 M
1  Article
RELATIONSHIP!   3/24/2009

If you want a supper relationship then I believe you have to start from the ground up no matter how many relationships you where in before it has to work this way and it will. Have a lot of trust in each other, Give them space when they need it, Give them a shoulder to cry on when they need it, cry with them, laugh with them, lay with them, cuddle with ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
spiritwoman45 73 F
1  Article
What do You Really Want?   2/11/2020

This is my second time on this site. First time was a success. Resulted in an exclusive relationship that lasted for 3 years so I know it works. However, both times I ran into something I don't understand.

Some of you men are patient and understanding and are genuinely interested in a relationship. Then there are the others. I have had numerous responses from men who state the ...


3 Comments, 173 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
gracfully60 76 F
1  Article
Fear.....   8/19/2009

Fear of a new relationship...fear of just the thought of starting over...fear of getting hurt... one more time...fear of the unknown...fear of loving & not being loved back...fear of being mistreated...fear of another failed marrige...could there be a chance of meeting a good man with a good warranty?...do any of you feel fear of all this?...is there such a man... or woman... for a man that feels ...


2 Comments, 138 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
daffodil12 75 F
28  Articles
ON MATRIMONIAL RELATIONSHIPS.   11/3/2008

ON MATRIMONIAL RELATIONSHIPS
DO WE NEED TO PONDER?
Members inside a family do not really know each other well enough...though they live together, as a family unit... from the onset of their parent's marriage.....
Based on the above - is it possible, that two people locked in matrimony - from two entirely different family units - ever hope to know or understand each other - as ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Madisgrandma 70 F
8  Articles
Relationships Aren't Easy   10/20/2007

Relationships are never easy; finding and keeping the right person can be a constant challenge. Doubt and fear prevent many of us from listening to our hearts. We imagine problems and find faults with our partner or potential partner. And we become unable to love or be loved. <br> Many of us allow the ego to get in the way of true love. There is a process involved when ...


1 Comments, 92 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
LadyNAds2 75 F
1  Article
WHY Do People Mask Their Insecurities With a Macho attitude?   7/24/2009

It seems to me, and please be aware that this is only an opinion, my observation, that many people, but especially men cover their own insecurities with an attitude of acting superior or Macho? Perhaps it is that male/female, Ying/Yang Thing? Perhaps it is that superiority to mask inferiority thing? Many people who are this way truly are good people. But, something deep inside makes them act ...


2 Comments, 60 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
candleman 72 M
1  Article
relationship   5/2/2008

relationships are not easy. Well it seems when we were young and not so cynical they came easy, but i am finding the older i get the harder it is cause you look at folks with a different eye than when young. when you you could fall in love on a whim but as older person you are sceptical cynical what does that person want well it is hard but more honest and i think if and when you find love when ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
flowerandmuse 69 F
110  Articles
when wearing-----   5/17/2009

When weary, we need to rest, puts oneself turns over to primitively, closes both eyes, attentively goes to the sensation to be far away thebustling streets the quiet life, all shakes the whole body dust, letsthem change into the butterfly, in airborne flies flies, looked a turnof red glowing sun falls Xishan, you and your lover moves towards theravine the small log cabin ----


2 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
starlight49 73 F
1  Article
A few bad apples   5/26/2016

Have been on and off the online dating sites for many years and on every site there seems to be the bad apples. I find that when I use the IM on this site, I receive more sexual invitations to chat then normal requests. As this site offers an "adult" site for people who are interested I do not understand why the bad apples do not go and play there. I am not a prude and was once a member of the ...


1 Comments, 22 Views, 0 Votes
sunnydv 82 F
2  Articles
Why, is it always the most important???   7/1/2008

Just wanted to ask why? is it always the most important question that most i say most men ask, If a lady over 60 or 70 is really interested in sex, are there no men out there that are interested in a lady for your brains, and love of life, does it always have to be about sex. There is more to life you know guys, not saying it isnt important if you get to know someone, but not the most ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 225 Votes
1fitcyclist4u 76 M
1  Article
Pet Photography   6/18/2008

My Ali-Kat has for a long time been my friend maker as well as friend. Her web page demonstrates both my photography as well as her charm. What do others think? http://seniorfriendfinder.com


1 Comments, 15 Views, 0 Votes