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warmington 51 F
1  Article
meeting first time   8/19/2020

has anybody gone to meet someone in another country? who should go first the man or woman? is it safe to meet with eastern europeans?


3 Comments, 289 Views, 16 Votes ,1.80 Score
genie1moose 77 F
6  Articles
Why is this man from SFF reluctant to meet me?   2/13/2016

Hi, everyone,

This morning, I was having a chat with one of my matches from SFF. He seemed sincere and wanted to get to know more about me. We chatted on Yahoo IM for about an hour. We talked about what we were looking for in a partner, and we told each other why we were single at this point in time. I was very sweet to him, and he was likewise. I don't know if we have an intellectual ...


7 Comments, 311 Views, 15 Votes ,4.05 Score
cider1954 62 M
1  Article
first date in a while   10/1/2014

i agreed to meet this lady after meeting online with no photo, i drove thirty miles to meet her and waited in my car where we agreed to meet. a car arrived with two women in it and to my amazment this women came over to my car and introduced herself. i was amazed because she was not as she described her self quite the opposite.i knew that this was not the women for me but could not bring ...


7 Comments, 926 Views, 43 Votes ,6.86 Score
DocHistory 64 M
1  Article
What a thrill!!!!!   3/15/2011

I hope this doesn't offend anyone but this is a little racey!!! If you could be offended...please don't read this!!! <br> What a thrill it was to meet "J" for our first date. After more than a month of corresponding we decided to meet. We live about 30 miles apart and tried and tried to find a mutually agreeable place. We are both well known professionals in our respective towns ...


1 Comments, 262 Views, 80 Votes ,6.14 Score
ProSe42 74 M
2  Articles
Try the Truth   1/16/2010

You look at a photo and read the person’s profile and you say to yourself, “This is a person I would like to know better.” You e-mail each other back and forth in an attempt to know more about each other. You talk to each other on the telephone. The conversation goes flows and you decide to meet. You arrive at the designated place at the right time. You ...


13 Comments, 602 Views, 63 Votes ,8.09 Score
jorja2 68 F
2  Articles
meeting   1/16/2010

IAM MEETING SOMEONE FROM SFF IN JULY, WE MET ON HERE IN MARCH OF THIS YEAR, SINCE THEN WE HAVE BEEN WRITEING LETTERS, PHONE CALLS DAILY, MSN/YAHOO, SFF CHAT SOME DAYS, WE HAVE BECOME VERY GOOD FRIENDS, WE ARE MUCH ALIKE, IN OUR LIKES AND DISLIKES, SO OUR PLANS ARE TO MEET AT A SECRET LOCATION, JUST IN CASE ALL OF THE CHATTERS SHOULD FOLLOW US TO OUR SPOT, LOL, IAM A BIT NERVOUS, AND A LITTLE ...


2 Comments, 153 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
doodlebugg 65 F
4  Articles
CREEPS   9/19/2009

I recently excepted a date with a mam I meet on SSF we had chatted a few times on the phone . I noticed some things on the phone that gave me hints not to go but i went anyway. This guy mocked everything I said made fun of everything I did and was about 80 pounds heavyer than they looked in there picture I could have got past that , but not the way he treated me. Then the best part of the ...


3 Comments, 532 Views, 42 Votes ,5.78 Score
RUTHANNAPOLIS 72 F
1  Article
Meeting For First Time CAN be FUN!   11/1/2008

Through this site I made a new friend recently, he lives in CT, and is a sales rep. for a national company and was scheduled for a meeting in a town about fifty miles away from where I live. He contacted me and we agreed to meet for dinner. I told him I'd give him a call on his cell when I arrived and also give him directions to the restaurant. He said "no problem", he had a GPS and shouldn't ...


0 Comments, 155 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
kountry_woman51 72 C
1  Article
“Bitten By The Love Bug”   9/14/2008

My name is Kountry_woman51, my boyfriends name is Ventrman. We are both met on Adult friend finder and have a real life true love, love at first site, hit by cupids arrow story to tell you. <br> I used to think that adult dating and swinging sites online were nothing but phony. I figured no real people with real needs ever bothered to post profiles there. Even if they did, most ...


3 Comments, 236 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
Cum2MasterDave 65 M
5  Articles
First dates   8/12/2008

does anybody read this articles?


3 Comments, 163 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
petitesagesse 61 F
14  Articles
I want...no i don't ..yes i do!   8/12/2008

We're not only wired to want what we can't have, but we're also wired to want what we really don't want.


0 Comments, 72 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
petitesagesse 61 F
14  Articles
I want...no i don't ..yes i do!   8/12/2008

We're not only wired to want what we can't have, but we're also wired to want what we really don't want.


2 Comments, 288 Views, 18 Votes ,4.76 Score
Cum2MasterDave 65 M
5  Articles
Make it mysterious   2/15/2008

It's very sexy and erotic to meet someone you met online without talking on the phone first.


5 Comments, 213 Views, 19 Votes ,3.26 Score
Madisgrandma 70 F
8  Articles
Where do you go on a first date?   10/26/2007

Make sure your first date is fun. Go bowling, go to a local fair (carnival) or go shoot some pool. Whatever it is, make it fun and you be fun too. Don't get too serious on the first date. Let him see the fun side of you and make it a sober one. Make sure of one thing though. Meet him there. As a precaution, I don't allow my men to pick me up at home. Meet him wherever you go for ...


1 Comments, 250 Views, 23 Votes ,3.71 Score
Madisgrandma 70 F
8  Articles
How To Handle Liars   10/20/2007

Have you ever had a date with someone who didn't look like their picture? Then you find out the picture is about 10 years old or in fact, could belong to a best friend? <br> Well ladies, I tell the guy (on e-mail or on the phone), if you don't look like the person on the website, I don't have a problem walking away from you. Conversation is over and so are you! <br> We ...


2 Comments, 356 Views, 30 Votes ,3.73 Score
harley67 56 M
12  Articles
the missing ring   9/26/2007

A girl in love asked her boyfriend.
Girl: Tell me. Who do you love most in this world?
Boy: You, of course!
Girl: In your heart, what am I to you?
Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in her eyes and said, "You are my rib. It was said that God saw that Adam was lonely, during his sleep, God took one of Adam's rib and created Eve. Every man has been searching ...


1 Comments, 137 Views, 10 Votes ,6.57 Score
goingeasy4u2 63 M
2  Articles
How far would you go for love?   8/10/2007

On this great site Senior Friend Finder there are folk's from all round the world, winking at each other, writting articles, sending e-mails and a host of other activities. Perhaps not everyone is looking for true love, but for those that are, what lengths would you go to, to be with the one you truely love? Would you up roots and move to another part of the country or world and leave ...


5 Comments, 194 Views, 17 Votes ,5.39 Score
gabriela3 63 F
3  Articles
My first date...   3/21/2007

I'll tell you about my first date with a young boy, about 25 years ago, but not here on SFF. I was at work, in a break, at the window.A youngone saw me and looked at me some time and then he came to talk to me.He looked fascinated with me and he said he's sure I'm his soulmate. He invited me to a musical show.Next day he came to talk to me about the show (I've called him with this ...


3 Comments, 430 Views, 21 Votes ,2.88 Score
petitesagesse 61 F
14  Articles
Bath time....   3/3/2007

When a guy is persistent, it's so romantic, they make movies about that. If it's a woman who is persistent, then they cast Glenn Close...


2 Comments, 279 Views, 29 Votes ,7.05 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Culture Clashes and Bonessa's First Date With A Redneck Gentleman   2/18/2007

We met at Burger King's for coffee. Although I suspect he would have liked to share a a six pack of dollar store soda's on the tailgate of his pick-up truck. "Darlin, ah's gonna treat ya whatever yer hankerin' on the burgar king menu, " the' gentleman told me me. "Right fine, I’ll get a Veggie Burger to go with the coffee. If I had a candle, we could have a powerful romantic ...


5 Comments, 475 Views, 48 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Seeking Out   2/11/2007

A Wise Man or Woman Seeks Out Situations, Jobs & People who Affirm Intelligence, Perceptions & Self~Worth & Avoid People who are Hurtful, Harmful, or Demeaning.
HIGH ACHIEVER ...


1 Comments, 201 Views, 45 Votes
weepy2foot 71 F
2  Articles
Dying on the Vine   1/28/2007

I had my first date after 10 years alone (my choice). Have not liked dating anyone older because my free spirit always rubbed them the wrong way (can not control me). He was 71 (another generation to give a try)and I am 60. We met at my brothers for safty sake. Started kissing me before we got to the car and molesting inside ...Did not understand NO! Started talking about his sex life ...


1 Comments, 175 Views, 65 Votes ,8.42 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Magician Qualites for a first date   1/1/2007

Evolved - Be Imaginative, See A World of posssibilites, Weave your rainbow dreams into reality, Be Swift, Move, Be Light, Dance!!!!
Unevolved. Contradictory, verbose, abuse of intoxicants to get "high" manipulation, trickery, deceit, black magic, egotism, vanity ChugALug into a continued Loser Mode


0 Comments, 88 Views, 31 Votes
grmanic 81 M
1  Article
Bike Ride   12/31/2006

We were closely mounted...you in front and I behind. Between our legs there pulsed a 500 pound mass of steel and chrome sitting upon two black balloon tires. I couldn't imagine that at my advanced age I was finally going to take my first motorcycle ride. Needless to say, my excitement was tempered by a slight feeling of anxiety and trepidation, but I put my faith, trust and life in your ...


3 Comments, 137 Views, 14 Votes ,6.02 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Geocaching for a first date   12/28/2006

it used to be that a first date would feel like a job interview. I would end up wearing a dorky dress in on overpriced resturant. That has changed sinced I discovered Geocaching. This is an sport where caches are hidden and found on various hiking trails and in the forest untilizing a GPS locator. The caches are listed on-line. I tell my dates to wear hiking boots and expect lots of ...


5 Comments, 369 Views, 51 Votes
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Heriophant Qualities for a First Date   12/24/2006

Evolved Realist, practical, stable, down to earth, harness physical energies,
Unevolved fixed beliefs, archaic beliefs, tradion bound, meaningless rituals, lethargic


1 Comments, 165 Views, 39 Votes
javiergoodlookin 50 M
1  Article
MY PASION FOR LIVE   12/24/2006

SEVERAL EAR AGO Y FELT AN ENORMAS ATRACTION FOR MATURE WOMAN THE REASON IS BECAUSE OF THERE EXPIRIENCE IN LIVE AND THE WHAY THEY LIVE THE DAY TO DAY I FEEL A SPECIL PASION FOR OLDER WOMAN THEN I THATS WY I LOVE RELATIONS WITH THEN THERE MORE TENDER AN ALWAYS KNOW WHAT THEY WHANT IN LIVE.
JAVI


2 Comments, 137 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
perfect first date   7/18/2006

What is a PERFECT DATE? What is a first date? a perfect date to me is where we can meet to have some fun, eat a little, dance a little, and joke around. Have fun in other words. If you can both do that, and really and honestly can tell the other one that they had a good time, that is the best date one can ask for. And you are in with many other people to boot. That is a perfect first ...


3 Comments, 186 Views, 19 Votes ,6.03 Score
ruggedntenderaty 75 M
7  Articles
Should we have first dates?   7/1/2006

Should we have first dates or should it be a meeting instead? <br> Perhaps a meeting to walk on the beach or share a coffee, a way to talk and see if we have any reason to see each other again. In the city it might be easier to find something low key enough to talk, but in a small town one is limited in activities.


13 Comments, 340 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
kels00 61 F
9  Articles
MY SOUL MATE   7/1/2006

I was chatting with a few on line in here but one guy stood out we chatted on the phone for a few weeks.. we had planned to meet in sept at a wedding.. as both of us have busy jobs Hes a boss of a team and me a supervisor .. he knew I was worried about our first meet as we had some build up we have just about everything in comon eat same foods and drinks both like rugby horses ...


6 Comments, 354 Views, 28 Votes ,3.86 Score
StarGazerWomyn 70 F
139  Articles
Reasons Date Give for Standing Someone Up   6/26/2006

The Date shows up early and decides he just doesn't feel like going out after all, goes home before the date arrives. <br> His cat gets sick and he has to take it to the vet. <br> His neighbor's goldfish dies, and he stays home to console the neighbor. <br> He figures that the picture of the date wasn't the real picture, so he didn't bother coming over. ...


1 Comments, 249 Views, 44 Votes ,0.11 Score
kels00 61 F
9  Articles
all smiles..and first thoughts...   6/26/2006

well you finally meet, you feel and look great together, laughting chatting..like no tomorrow.. all smiles, lifes looking up those precious moments, loving looks, cheeky grins, naughty calls, texing or phoning all the time...dont ever let that go just cause you gonna stay together why let the little fun things slip, thats what kept your interest to start with, keep the interest up..love ...


3 Comments, 239 Views, 21 Votes ,3.74 Score
jj55 75 M
1  Article
RE RE : Men are visual   6/20/2006

I'm sorry but i totally have to disagree. I live in the Massachusetts area and for the past 20 yrs that I have been dating and in different relationships I have to say that most of the women in my area don't even have insight and/or hind sight..let alone anything else. <br> For the most part 90% of the one's I have met or dated were either gold diggers or cry babies. Every date ...


1 Comments, 146 Views, 54 Votes ,2.47 Score
lyn5 75 F
4  Articles
second date   6/20/2006

I met this man for a coffee we talked fro a short while. the folowing week he phoned me up and we went to a dance. THe night just sped by I enjoyed myself so much. I di thank him and told him so . THis week as passed by and I did not hear from him. Do you think I should write him or just wait, we seem to have the same interests also in other things . I am new at this I have not dated ...


1 Comments, 185 Views, 33 Votes ,5.35 Score
mwm_with_kids 72 M
4  Articles
Late life searching for a new mate   6/20/2006

Most of us had a single standard and experience set to approach partner hunting and selection -- the experience we had as teenagers. That process for most, was casual dating of we went to school with or socialized with at church or other organizational functions. Obviously that well is dry, or you wouldn't be reading this. <br> Lets reflect on that process a bit first. Most of ...


1 Comments, 106 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
bklynblueeyes19 73 F
31  Articles
free samples at the buffet of life   6/20/2006

It seems to me that on reading certain articles, men are using the first date as an attempt to get "free samples" at the buffet of life. Just because a woman consents to meet for coffee or dinner, it doesn't necessarily follow that she consented to anything more. Men are really missing the boat by misjudging, and subsequently rejecting, women who don't want sexual play in the early part ...


1 Comments, 163 Views, 154 Votes ,8.14 Score
mwm_with_kids 72 M
4  Articles
Transitions ...   6/20/2006

If moral values were clear and universally accepted life would be simple, or horribly more complicated for those that need help the most. Monogamy and relationship jumping are probably one of the most interesting areas that we have so many people that stand high with moral certainty, yet practice has so many grey areas. <br> Take for example the many women working at near minimum ...


1 Comments, 91 Views, 13 Votes ,4.65 Score
Sobriquet 70 F
9  Articles
Crazy and hopeless   6/20/2006

I think it is crazy to make a fast move, to go live with someone far away. Risky. You put yourself under the total power of that person. How well can you get to know each other anyway? That is the crazy part. Here is the hopeless part: meeting anyone you have not already passed over where you are. Furthermore, phooey.Sobriquet


0 Comments, 26 Views, 165 Votes ,0.28 Score
Sobriquet 70 F
9  Articles
cringe   6/20/2006

I had a first date with a fellow who took me to a restaurant where he ordered a Reuben sandwhich. It was full of pink, mayonaissy sauce. He picked up the sandwhich and the pink stuff ran through his fingers, dripped from his sandwhich. Some people at another table were observing him. He held out the sandwhich to them and said "Want some?" Do I need to say that I was mortified? ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 84 Votes ,1.46 Score
Sobriquet 70 F
9  Articles
overcome   6/20/2006

I was hounded to attend a wedding reception with a fellow. He came in, listened to a few speeches and excused himself. He came back and listened to more and then people started kissing, can't recall why, he kissed me and left again. The meal started being served, he left again and came back wobbly and smelling booze. I ate and left. sobriquet


0 Comments, 64 Views, 40 Votes ,0.92 Score
oddyssey4ever 77 F
4  Articles
meeting first time and jumping right in bed   6/20/2006

Why is it that when a man wants to meet you for the first time they want to take you to bed right away, isn't it suppose to be building a friendship first, the men that wanted to meet me wanted to meet at a motel, i for myself don't like to meet in a motel its cheap and sleezy like a one night stand i want a love that will last forever but friendship comes first love follows and you take it ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 307 Votes ,0.72 Score
Adventrimax 73 M
18  Articles
First Date? Come On Over.....   6/19/2006

I am a firm believer that a first date must be comfortable as possible for both people. I have not had a first date recently, but know where we meet must have activity going on which fosters a possible relationship. One of the big issues is honesty; is this person as he/she represents online? My solution is to plan the 'first' date in daylight hours at my home...a brunch, maybe. Keeping ...


3 Comments, 257 Views, 32 Votes ,1.18 Score
ready2free4all2 63 C
3  Articles
First Date, Blind Date   6/19/2006

So I had this answering service right? And damn this one woman that worked there had this voice that just gave new meaning to dream girl right? I am flirting with her almmost on a daily basis and within six weeks of her hire I am already fantacizing about what she looks like. I finnaly decided to chill and take a (and for me this is surprizing) conservative direction to maybe meet her. I ...


2 Comments, 413 Views, 45 Votes ,6.30 Score
zebelle 88 F
1  Article
Deciding Whether You Want to Date This Person   6/19/2006

I agree with the other "First Dates" category message to a point. I too do not want to give my e-mail address, my phone number, or my actual address (he wanted to send me something) to any man I don't know, at least a little. I am surprised at the reaction to my reticense. One fellow scolded stating "This is no time for timidity." I explained that it was not timidity but security (mine) ...


1 Comments, 66 Views, 330 Votes ,8.75 Score
jmcd 64 F
6  Articles
True First Date   6/19/2006

Dalnet boulevard on that night was filled with dreary skies and shadowed ennui. As usual there was the bustling crowd that rushed from lounge to lounge, chatting, meeting, and dashing off to the next stop as they followed their usual trajectory. My steps were slow and unhurried, as I browsed along the boulevard. I stopped at one lounge to see who was in, the same crowd, the same rancorous ...


3 Comments, 387 Views, 37 Votes ,3.91 Score
womaninthemoon 73 F
5  Articles
First Impressions...   6/19/2006

Having read some of what has been posted on this site about first impressions I just have to say...GOODNESS YES...THEY DO MATTER!!!.. First dates are tough...are they meetings...no they are dates. The meeting took place through emails and then the phone. This is no different than a blind date from years past...only hopefully neither of us has a friend embarassed if it doesn't work out. ...


1 Comments, 168 Views, 43 Votes ,8.15 Score
Buttercup999 68 F
3  Articles
Let's call it a "Lookover"   6/19/2006

In my experience, the first "meeting" is not a date at all. I call it the "lookover" - the chance to check out the physical chemistry between two people who have (theoretically) established some kind of mental/emotional chemistry on line or on the phone. <br> Remember, this is not yet a date!!! - a date is, in this definition, agreeing to go out with someone you already know, at ...


1 Comments, 415 Views, 50 Votes ,7.18 Score
Finelady4u 77 F
3  Articles
To Meet or not to Meet?   6/19/2006

If I decide on meeting a man I have contacted through the personals, I eventually base this decision on my gut. <br> I once met a fellow online, and we eventually exchanged emails. There were a few things not ringing true, so I had some reservations about meeting him in person. I requested that we exchange a few more emails first. <br> I'm glad I followed my gut - ...


0 Comments, 436 Views, 32 Votes ,4.65 Score
Jackthelad 75 M
1  Article
Do I need a Manual.......   6/19/2006

I am just starting to date again for the first time in twenty years, .....and it's Horrendous, .....I realise now, that without knowing it, I have slipped into a habit of just getting on with the day......doing everyday things , without paying too much attention to how I do them, ....a bit like driving really, .after a while you just DO it, .......Now, I am dating, and I'm getting ...


3 Comments, 285 Views, 52 Votes ,7.57 Score
cm32177 76 M
1  Article
It doesn't seem to matter too much, Mulch Me   6/19/2006

Had a first date / meeting this past Sunday. At Home Depot... I needed to replace some Cypress mulch and pick up landscaping timbers for a front yard project. I asked her to meet me at Home Depot and she agreed to meet me in one of the lumber aisles. Now I can dress to kill but that day I was dressed probably my all time worst. Dirty blue jeans, needed a shave, gray tee shirt, and ...


2 Comments, 463 Views, 28 Votes ,3.65 Score
oddyssey4ever 77 F
4  Articles
First date jumping in bed   6/19/2006

Why is it that when you meet for the first time the men always want to take you to bed right away, isn't it that you first build a friendship and trust before you take that next step, why can't men think with their hearts and mind instead of other things, to be intimate with someone that spark has to be there, we all have choices but the mens choice is always jumping into bed i know the men ...


0 Comments, 102 Views, 157 Votes ,5.61 Score
PhotoGuy1949 69 M
4  Articles
Old Photo   6/19/2006

How may times have we met someone and they didn't look anything like the photo that you have been viewing. You know the one I talking about....the photo that is 10 or 15 years old. Now the question is what to do. You have been deceived. Is this so terrible? It probably is. Obviously this person thinks that their looks are more important than the truth. Are they scared that if they ...


6 Comments, 343 Views, 34 Votes ,7.28 Score
richard6029 72 M
28  Articles
forgotten teeth   6/19/2006

here i am on my first date, hope she dosen't turn up late. combed my hair and washed my face, not a molycule out of place. i sent that photo' took some while back, now my hairs a bit thinner and my jaws are slack. what was it now i said i did, something i've been at since i was a ? brain surgeon, pilot, owned a bar, hope she don't mind me being jack tar. never mind it'll be ...


2 Comments, 291 Views, 23 Votes ,4.53 Score
shadowsmom 71 F
1  Article
Don't 'Accept; Expect'   6/19/2006

I recently went on a 'first' date with another SFF member (a week trip to San Felippe, MX). <br> Here's a list of things that gentlemen shouldn't do on a first meeting: <br> When walking, never push a woman when you want her to go in a certain direction. <br> Never 'expect' a woman to be overly impressed by who you are when she doesn't even know you yet. ...


10 Comments, 889 Views, 67 Votes ,4.75 Score
RedheadedAngel4u 63 F
14  Articles
Bad first...HAHA make me laugh!!!!   6/19/2006

John was one of those men that knew little to none about honesty. He did however leave a memory….Quite large in fact. After responding to her ad, The Redheaded Angel, spoke with John on the phone. After several conversations Red agreed to meet him at his favorite restaurant. He would arrive there all of his 6’2” tallness, with a body proclaimed to be in shape. ...


2 Comments, 304 Views, 49 Votes ,6.98 Score
discreetday2 66 M
5  Articles
Modesty   6/19/2006

I've always been confused with ladies when it comes to what they look for in a guy. Most seem to say they prefer a guy to be confident, yet they seem to loathe a guy who is overly cocky. How does one find the happy medium between modesty and confidence? Is it better to err on the side of modesty?


0 Comments, 205 Views, 10 Votes ,1.39 Score
YourBondagedoc 57 M
5  Articles
Expectation for love & commintment, You Think?   6/19/2006

After alot of emails and talking on ones Internet Messenger and knowing that you fell for this person and also knowing that you have come to terms with the age-gap between yours and his (give or take 15-20yrs). You have made a step to meet for lunch, all is fine until the first thought that comes in your mind when you see him is, he's not much older than my grandson! <br> I run ...


0 Comments, 112 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
coby7777 82 F
80  Articles
love is needed   6/19/2006

to have or not to have is an option for each individual. Whats wrong with us if we don't want love? So many of us get tired, and yes, I am including men as well as women, of going through the whole relationship , communicating, first date and falling in love then to find out they are not for you.for one reason or another.. All that time is wasted, you say, and yes it has been. Not fair as ...


1 Comments, 371 Views, 20 Votes ,4.91 Score
richard6029 72 M
28  Articles
Be honest with one another   6/19/2006

We meet new people every day. Some we can take an instant dislike to. Some we feel as if we have been the best of friends for years. All of us here have been on at least one 'first date'. So what is the problem? Being self concious of all that time has done to us? When you think about it. This is about the best way of getting to know someone. There are pictures, e-mails, chat online. ...


0 Comments, 111 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
Charley_S 73 F
1  Article
I Don't Call Them Dates   6/19/2006

After a number disaterous "first dates" (some of which had plucked out my last heart string, I changed the name. I now call it a "meet and greet". After all isn't that what it really is? To me a first date is after I've gotten to know the person a little better and feel comfortable doing something like meeting for dinner or sitting together in a dark movie theater. I will suggest (if ...


1 Comments, 598 Views, 60 Votes ,4.19 Score
parerotti 57 F
1  Article
chemistry   6/19/2006

More often than not, the word "chemistry" is mentioned in talks about first dates and getting to know someone. If it's evident that there is little in common between two individuals except the electricity that both feels when they so much as touch, could that be taken as 'chemistry'? <br> If it were you, would you continue dating this person? <br> I ...


4 Comments, 309 Views, 14 Votes ,3.62 Score
Mustang96 79 M
2  Articles
How To Gracefully Exit After First Five Minutes?   6/19/2006

Most of my first dates have been (by design) in very casual venues, like a coffee shop. Let me be honest. On most (but not all) my first dates I have pretty much decided yea or nay within the first five minutes. You may think me shallow; I prefer the term discerning. And in most cases I am inwardly saying 'no way' here. However, after having made that determination, I feel obligated to ...


0 Comments, 118 Views, 207 Votes ,6.85 Score
mustmeet 64 M
4  Articles
NO BIG DEAL   6/19/2006

A FIRST DATE AS IT'S CALLED IS REALLY NO BIG DEAL AT LEAST NOT W/ ME... <br> A PUBLIC PLACE IS COOL I THINK BUT REALLY IT DEPENDS ON THE WOMAN MOSTLY.. AS A MATTER OF SAFETY I PERFECTLY UNDERSTAND A WOMAN'S CONCERN THERE.. MEN WILL USUSALLY INVITE YOU TO THERE HOMES...BUT THAT TOO DEPENDS....DEPENDS ON HOW THE CHAT/EMAIL WENT AND THE VIBE THERE.. <br> IF LOOKING FOR ...


0 Comments, 160 Views, 17 Votes ,3.41 Score
moviebuff3 82 M
1  Article
New member   6/19/2006

I have only just joined SFF so I am quite nervous about having a first date although there would be no point in joining if I wasn't prepared to give it a try! Having been married for 28 years to the same lady it seems strange to be on my own at this stage in my life. (I am now widowed with no ). I am hoping to find someone who is affectionate, kind and respectable (and a non smoker). ...


3 Comments, 149 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
Sandra_LM 60 F
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Coming on Wrong Way?   6/19/2006

When viewing so many profiles. Many people talk about their sexual desires. Unless a person is looking only for an activity partener, I think that info should be kept private for the right person at the right time. To me if looking for a serious relationship that would turn me away. Or is it possible you think they are just coming across wrong way?


2 Comments, 167 Views, 19 Votes ,5.10 Score
daga 44 F
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he was more than real   6/19/2006

well i was feeling a bit bored on that warm saturday afternoon .so i decided to chat up someone in one of the chat room and lo and behold this real guy just pm me. we cahtted for a while and then planned to meet up later in the week. believe me i was so desparate to meet this guy that, he was begining to be an obsession to me during the rest of the days that i had to wait on meeting him ...


2 Comments, 498 Views, 44 Votes ,2.86 Score
KR222 66 F
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Safety VS Connection   6/15/2006

These posts are interesting, especially the considerations for personal safety. It appears that women writing articles want a man to reveal enough personal information that she wants to meet him, but we as women shouldn’t for ‘personal’ safety. Let’s face it ‒ to meet someone even after a few emails (for men as well as women), is a little like trying to ...


0 Comments, 132 Views, 340 Votes
sensual47 68 M
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First impressions can cost you   5/29/2005

When they say that first impressions mean the most , could they be totally wrong? You get all dressed up, be on time, maybe give your date some flowers, Go to an elegant restaurant, have a wonderful "expensive" dinner to impress, minding your manners all the way, even down to standing when she leaves the table. Now you've set a standard of expectations. Can you live up to them? Or would ...


0 Comments, 119 Views, 76 Votes ,8.28 Score