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Second date response 7/25/2004
Lyn, we are in the 21st century. If you enjoyed the company,
and feel he is a gentleman, take the leap of faith and write
an email. It is considered romantic and courteous also
to let someone know you appreciate their companionship.
That way, no one is left guessing. If he isn't interested,
better to know sooner than later. Good-luck in your quest.
0 Comments, 68 Views,
46 Votes
,9.11 Score
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second date 7/14/2004
I met this man for a coffee we talked fro a short while. the
folowing week he phoned me up and we went to a dance.
THe night just sped by I enjoyed myself so much. I di thank
him and told him so . THis week as passed by and I did not hear
from him. Do you think I should write him or just wait, we
seem to have the same interests also in other things . I am
new at this I have not dated ...
1 Comments, 185 Views,
33 Votes
,5.35 Score
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RE RE : Men are visual 7/14/2004
I'm sorry but i totally have to disagree. I live in the
Massachusetts area and for the past 20 yrs that I have been
dating and in different relationships I have to say that
most of the women in my area don't even have insight
and/or hind sight..let alone anything else.
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For the most part 90% of the one's I have met or dated
were either gold diggers or cry babies. Every date ...
1 Comments, 146 Views,
54 Votes
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What a thrill!!!!! 7/7/2004
I hope this doesn't offend anyone but this is a little
racey!!! If you could be offended...please don't
read this!!!
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What a thrill it was to meet "J" for our first
date. After more than a month of corresponding we decided
to meet. We live about 30 miles apart and tried and tried
to find a mutually agreeable place. We are both well known
professionals in our respective towns ...
1 Comments, 262 Views,
80 Votes
,6.14 Score
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Dying on the Vine 6/22/2004
I had my first date after 10 years alone (my choice). Have
not liked dating anyone older because my free spirit always
rubbed them the wrong way (can not control me). He was 71
(another generation to give a try)and I am 60. We met at my
brothers for safty sake. Started kissing me before we got
to the car and molesting inside ...Did not understand NO!
Started talking about his sex life ...
1 Comments, 175 Views,
65 Votes
,8.42 Score
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First date jumping in bed 5/29/2004
Why is it that when you meet for the first time the men always
want to take you to bed right away, isn't it that you
first build a friendship and trust before you take that
next step, why can't men think with their hearts and
mind instead of other things, to be intimate with someone
that spark has to be there, we all have choices but the mens
choice is always jumping into bed i know the men ...
0 Comments, 102 Views,
157 Votes
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meeting first time and jumping right in bed 5/15/2004
Why is it that when a man wants to meet you for the first time
they want to take you to bed right away, isn't it suppose
to be building a friendship first, the men that wanted
to meet me wanted to meet at a motel, i for myself don't
like to meet in a motel its cheap and sleezy like a one night
stand i want a love that will last forever but friendship
comes first love follows and you take it ...
0 Comments, 47 Views,
307 Votes
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cringe 4/11/2004
I had a first date with a fellow who took me to a restaurant
where he ordered a Reuben sandwhich. It was full of pink,
mayonaissy sauce. He picked up the sandwhich and the pink
stuff ran through his fingers, dripped from his sandwhich.
Some people at another table were observing him. He held
out the sandwhich to them and said "Want some?"
Do I need to say that I was mortified?
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0 Comments, 61 Views,
84 Votes
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overcome 4/11/2004
I was hounded to attend a wedding reception with a fellow.
He came in, listened to a few speeches and excused himself.
He came back and listened to more and then people started
kissing, can't recall why, he kissed me and left again.
The meal started being served, he left again and came back
wobbly and smelling booze. I ate and left. sobriquet
0 Comments, 64 Views,
40 Votes
,0.92 Score
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Safety VS Connection 3/23/2004
These posts are interesting, especially the considerations
for personal safety. It appears that women writing articles
want a man to reveal enough personal information that she
wants to meet him, but we as women shouldn’t for ‘personal’
safety. Let’s face it ‒ to meet someone even after a few emails
(for men as well as women), is a little like trying to ...
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340 Votes
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Crazy and hopeless 12/19/2003
I think it is crazy to make a fast move, to go live with someone
far away. Risky. You put yourself under the total power
of that person. How well can you get to know each other anyway?
That is the crazy part. Here is the hopeless part: meeting
anyone you have not already passed over where you are.
Furthermore, phooey.Sobriquet
0 Comments, 26 Views,
165 Votes
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How To Gracefully Exit After First Five Minutes? 8/3/2003
Most of my first dates have been (by design) in very casual
venues, like a coffee shop. Let me be honest. On most (but
not all) my first dates I have pretty much decided yea or
nay within the first five minutes. You may think me shallow;
I prefer the term discerning. And in most cases I am inwardly
saying 'no way' here. However, after having made
that determination, I feel obligated to ...
0 Comments, 118 Views,
207 Votes
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Deciding Whether You Want to Date This Person 1/9/2003
I agree with the other "First Dates" category message to
a point. I too do not want to give my e-mail address, my phone
number, or my actual address (he wanted to send me something)
to any man I don't know, at least a little. I am surprised
at the reaction to my reticense. One fellow scolded stating
"This is no time for timidity." I explained that it was not
timidity but security (mine) ...
1 Comments, 66 Views,
330 Votes
,8.75 Score
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