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parerotti 57 F
1  Article
chemistry   6/19/2006

More often than not, the word "chemistry" is mentioned in talks about first dates and getting to know someone. If it's evident that there is little in common between two individuals except the electricity that both feels when they so much as touch, could that be taken as 'chemistry'? <br> If it were you, would you continue dating this person? <br> I ...


4 Comments, 309 Views, 14 Votes ,3.62 Score
Mustang96 79 M
2  Articles
How To Gracefully Exit After First Five Minutes?   6/19/2006

Most of my first dates have been (by design) in very casual venues, like a coffee shop. Let me be honest. On most (but not all) my first dates I have pretty much decided yea or nay within the first five minutes. You may think me shallow; I prefer the term discerning. And in most cases I am inwardly saying 'no way' here. However, after having made that determination, I feel obligated to ...


0 Comments, 118 Views, 207 Votes ,6.85 Score
mustmeet 64 M
4  Articles
NO BIG DEAL   6/19/2006

A FIRST DATE AS IT'S CALLED IS REALLY NO BIG DEAL AT LEAST NOT W/ ME... <br> A PUBLIC PLACE IS COOL I THINK BUT REALLY IT DEPENDS ON THE WOMAN MOSTLY.. AS A MATTER OF SAFETY I PERFECTLY UNDERSTAND A WOMAN'S CONCERN THERE.. MEN WILL USUSALLY INVITE YOU TO THERE HOMES...BUT THAT TOO DEPENDS....DEPENDS ON HOW THE CHAT/EMAIL WENT AND THE VIBE THERE.. <br> IF LOOKING FOR ...


0 Comments, 160 Views, 17 Votes ,3.41 Score
moviebuff3 82 M
1  Article
New member   6/19/2006

I have only just joined SFF so I am quite nervous about having a first date although there would be no point in joining if I wasn't prepared to give it a try! Having been married for 28 years to the same lady it seems strange to be on my own at this stage in my life. (I am now widowed with no ). I am hoping to find someone who is affectionate, kind and respectable (and a non smoker). ...


3 Comments, 149 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
Sandra_LM 60 F
7  Articles
Coming on Wrong Way?   6/19/2006

When viewing so many profiles. Many people talk about their sexual desires. Unless a person is looking only for an activity partener, I think that info should be kept private for the right person at the right time. To me if looking for a serious relationship that would turn me away. Or is it possible you think they are just coming across wrong way?


2 Comments, 167 Views, 19 Votes ,5.10 Score
daga 44 F
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he was more than real   6/19/2006

well i was feeling a bit bored on that warm saturday afternoon .so i decided to chat up someone in one of the chat room and lo and behold this real guy just pm me. we cahtted for a while and then planned to meet up later in the week. believe me i was so desparate to meet this guy that, he was begining to be an obsession to me during the rest of the days that i had to wait on meeting him ...


2 Comments, 498 Views, 44 Votes ,2.86 Score
KR222 66 F
1  Article
Safety VS Connection   6/15/2006

These posts are interesting, especially the considerations for personal safety. It appears that women writing articles want a man to reveal enough personal information that she wants to meet him, but we as women shouldn’t for ‘personal’ safety. Let’s face it ‒ to meet someone even after a few emails (for men as well as women), is a little like trying to ...


0 Comments, 132 Views, 340 Votes
sensual47 68 M
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First impressions can cost you   5/29/2005

When they say that first impressions mean the most , could they be totally wrong? You get all dressed up, be on time, maybe give your date some flowers, Go to an elegant restaurant, have a wonderful "expensive" dinner to impress, minding your manners all the way, even down to standing when she leaves the table. Now you've set a standard of expectations. Can you live up to them? Or would ...


0 Comments, 119 Views, 76 Votes ,8.28 Score