Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	Fu Manchu Beard - 5/25/2004 Why oh why must I be getting a dark Fu Manchu moustache, really, on the corners of my upper lip and what is the best way to get them to leave forever? Have about four random beard hairs, coarse like a horses tail. So do men get thinner beards with age? Sobriquet 3 response(s), 0 votes
KSUGARD 74 F 9  questions	Why when you're married? - 5/24/2004 My question is simple & direct but don't know if the answer is that simple & direct. Why are there so many of you married/living with significant other men out there that are still looking for that "ideal lady" on this site? I'm not judging or critisizing just trying to understand. I am far from perfect but do believe in monogomy. Are most of you just looking for a good friend, someone ... 9 response(s), 0 votes
southerngirl2u 66 F 1  question	WHY SO UPSET, PEOPLE? - 5/23/2004 I find some of the letters and comments on here either funny or ridiculous - I can't decide which! Why are people on here arguing with each other and complaining? I thought this was a site to make new friends; not find fault with others! Get happy and stop whining . Waste of time to read a complaint you have about other members! 2 response(s), 2 votes
RoseofMI44 74 F 15  questions	People Skills - 5/19/2004 One might think that as we grow older, we might acquire a more gentle nature about us. I have to wonder just what has happened, to make some of the people on SFF so angry. What happened to the social graces, we were taught by our parents. Have we become so complacent, that there is no room in our lives for the nicer things. Everyone knows that a relationship, requires all aspects of ones ... 5 response(s), 1 vote
SweetJoan1942 82 F 1  question	Is fluffy bad? - 5/16/2004 Is the exterior of a person so important in our lives? Is this how we determine who we want in our lives? I find this attitude very shallow and always have even when I was very thin. Too thin some said. I have checked many profiles where men are short and heavy but they only want women who are petite, etc. I am fluffy now but due to a thyroid problem that has been addressed, I won't be ... 8 response(s), 1 vote
RoseofMI44 74 F 15  questions	Honesty Is The Best Policy - 5/3/2004 While it is true, a lot of people are sincere, and honest. There are those who tell half truths. Wouldn't it be better to disclose the real person, rather than having to explain why you are not the person you portrayed yourself to be. 5 response(s), 0 votes
Arizonabound 73 M 2  questions	How do you take someone off the cupid list? - 4/22/2004 I keep getting people on my cupid list that I really do not have an interest in. I have read in the responses on some other questions that you can hit the delete key. Obviously it is not the delete key on my keyboard and there does not seem to be one one the web site. Can anyone help? 6 response(s), 0 votes
Arizonabound 73 M 2  questions	Why are we limited to 260 lines for emails between new contact? - 4/22/2004 I have been emailing with someone. We sent 4 emails back and forth and had used up the entire 260 line limit. All of a sudden you have to make up your mind in you want to give out your email address, which SFF recommends that you do not do. It would help if they raised the limit to 1, 000. You should be able by then to decide if this is the person that you want to have your email ... 4 response(s), 0 votes
tigerpisces 78 F 1  question	If you have lived how can you not have any baggage!If anyone has live life to the full - 4/14/2004 If you have had a normal life such as, homelife with parents, maybe married with , even divorce and been single again, how on earth can you go through life with no memories(so called baggage) you would be a very boring person to know and more so to live with.I'd rather be with someone baggage and all and share a life. 3 response(s), 2 votes
Shartaun03 81 F 34  questions	My response was never posted - 4/3/2004 I replied to one of the posts and waited to see if it was posted. I now just noticed a whole lot of new questions have been posted and never did get to see my response if it was posted. As a standard member you are only allowed to see so many questions or so it seems. If the numbers go beyond that you have to be a paying member in order to read those other ones prior to that. I find it a ... 0 response(s), 1 vote
bklynblueeyes19 74 F 5  questions	Pessimism or realism? - 3/30/2004 Reading the article about the "players"online can certainly leave one jaded. But how about the sincere people who are looking for a mate, a friend, a lover? Putting aside the married and already taken people, there are those who are here for an honest search. Too bad the rest can't stop believing the "grass is always greener on the other side." Save the waste of time, and go to a site ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
bklynblueeyes19 74 F 5  questions	Why can't Cupid's settings be more accurate? - 3/28/2004 Currently Cupid matches married men with women who have clearly indicated in their preferences that they are only interested in nonmarried men. Why can the software separate smokers from light social smokers, but not able to separate in the most important criteria MARRIED OR NOT MARRIED? What do you think? 1 response(s), 3 votes
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	How about cement? - 3/28/2004 Perfect hair is held with mousse and hairspray. It suits the face so well and makes ordinary costumes look marvellous when a lady is all put together..or a man, I suppose. But I have never run my fingers through the hair of a man with hairspray. So, when hair is cemented with spray, is it a turn off to touch it? Sobriquet 0 response(s), 0 votes
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	What moment would you like to relive? - 3/28/2004 I would choose the first thrill I felt at realizing that I was becoming something new: a woman. No, I didn't have gender reassignment. I am referring to the day I got my firt nylon stockings. It felt like going from the coccoon to getting gossamer wings. Hope some will share a special time.Sobriquet 2 response(s), 0 votes
atweetytat 63 F 1  question	Sugar Daddy - 3/25/2004 Why do women want a sugar daddy? Do men like being a sugar daddy? 3 response(s), 4 votes
bklynblueeyes19 74 F 5  questions	What's a women to do when confronted with so many married men? - 3/19/2004 I wonder how many woman / men have counted the number of married/living with someone people on SFF. To me it seems to be at least 50%. It reconfirms my wariness to remarry, knowing that a great deal of men are always looking for a little "discreet" relationship. I hope I will be discerning enough to identify these men when I meet them, as I prefer dating men who are emotionally, ... 9 response(s), 1 vote
bklynblueeyes19 74 F 5  questions	What place do marriage vows have in Internet dating sites? - 3/18/2004 For better or worse, in sickness and in health, till death do us part. Perhaps these don't apply here to those who are married and say they are "unhappy, bored, not enough sex, etc." Who would want to enter into an intimate relationship with someone who cannot respect their own vows of fidelity, trust and love? Perhaps if we thought less about our own immediate satisfaction and more ... 2 response(s), 2 votes
ImMcKinley 68 M 1  question	Stop Lecturing Me On My Profile!!!! - 3/14/2004 What is wrong with having a healthy sexual appetite? Is it wrong being REAL and a gentleman and making a lady feel special? If you don’t agreed please MOVE ON to the next profile. I cannot believe the nasty emails I’ve been receiving from women that I haven't even read their profiles. Just think for a minute how many times while talking with your friends you heard this: my ... 3 response(s), 0 votes
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	Question to Seward Park re:wealth - 3/12/2004 You ask why I factor in wealth on the part of the man in polygamous relationships cause gee, I go on the assumption that when you, seigneur of your feudal entitlements would have four fully pregnanat, going into labour, feeling bloated, bent backwards, joints cramping in pain, posture awkward as hell to wall around in, they can't be out slopping the hogs, ploughing the commune garden, ... 4 response(s), 0 votes
RoseofMI44 74 F 15  questions	Why Do People Hurt Others - 3/9/2004 It never makes a person feel so empty, as when someone leads you to believe they are truly interested in getting to know you. Just let the next available person come along, and you are all of a sudden yesterdays old news. How can someone make a judgment based on a couple of conversations, without even meeting them. I have no idea what men are expecting. I am a very honest person, and I ... 4 response(s), 0 votes
ISP1 74 F 2  questions	ladies question for the men... - 3/8/2004 k guys, what one decisive positive experience w/ a woman shaped part of your psyche? 0 response(s), 0 votes
loon_ey 65 F 1  question	There is a question I have regarding an article I read. - 3/7/2004 In the part of the magazine called "Building a Relationship" there is an article under "What women want" It would be interesting to hear why people who responded with a vote...did chose one way or the other. I think it might enlighten men and women. 3 response(s), 0 votes
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	Poll: How many wives? - 3/5/2004 If we didn't live in a monogamous society, how many wives would you anonymous men truly like to have, if you had plenty of wealth to go around? You don't need to sign your names. The King of Siam had 64 . That must have taken a few wives. He had been a monk for 27 years before then. So I hope the fellows will reply. Give us a peek into your natures. Ok? No violence or crankiness, ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	POints for good questions? - 3/5/2004 I like the magazine. How about giving points for good questions? Why put a limit? If the magazine makes the site more interesting and you are depending on members to make it stimulating, why not? Reader's Digest gives money for what they publish from contributors, some places give air miles. OK? Sobriquet 3 response(s), 0 votes
tigergin60 72 F 1  question	Is there really such a thing as a person with "no excess Baggage"? - 2/26/2004 I feel there is no such person alive. We all have our idiocyncrisis, prejudices, problems, families, etc. and there is no way a person can exist and not have feelings or contradictions to whats happening around them or to what has happened in the past. The person who writes in their dating ad that they don't want any one to answer that is carrying "excess baggage" must be carrying a ton of ... 7 response(s), 0 votes
Pharoette 71 F 1  question	Why do unhappy married men look for single women instead of either fixing/ending their relationship - 2/22/2004 Often I see profiles for a "discreet" relationship. I believe that if you are married, you need to be loyal to your spouse. If you are unhappy, then change your situation and stop using a vulnerable single person. 4 response(s), 7 votes
serendipity1957 66 F 1  question	Long or short introductory text? Blunt or not? - 2/21/2004 Hi, <br> I just joined a few days ago and so when I did my introductory text, I wrote a really, really long one. I just thought that if I covered all of the bases, I wouldn’t have to deal with people that were just fishing or were weird. <br> So my question is, should that text be short and sweet, or longer? I don’t feel comfortable just saying ... 3 response(s), 0 votes
ISP1 74 F 2  questions	relationship without sex? - 2/17/2004 years ago i was medically diagnosed with a "chemical imbalance" because i was very depressed. i tried many medications, all with uncomfortable side effects. then came prozac. three days after i started taking it i heard myself think, "so THIS is what "normal" is." what an unrecoverable amount of wasted life! one of prozac's side effects? is lack of sexual desire... but now i'm alive, ... 4 response(s), 1 vote
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	Do you senior guys want us senior gals to get body piercing? - 2/13/2004 Do you prefer glitters or rins in our nose? Stones in our lips? Big gems that cover belly buttons? Tongue rings? Want our ear cartilage chewed up with kind of cup hooks? How do we appear to you that way, more reminine, hobbled, what? What about pierced eyebrows? Sobriquet 2 response(s), 0 votes
chichette013 63 F 2  questions	putting people down on sff chat ! - 2/10/2004 why do some people put others down all the time?/ like for instance, i have seen some that criticize people because their spelling is'nt good. or because they are younger, or even married. i thought chat was to make friends, no matter the reason they are there, people shouldn't be so eager to judge them.it's a free world, and everyone is there for different reasons, i don't think some ... 3 response(s), 10 votes