Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	dry kissing - 2/7/2004 Do you like to kiss with the lips closed? I just want a survey. The best kisser was S.H who could kiss for many minutes and have so much emotion and he was only 15. Nothing ever improved on that. He died but I remember him because of the kissing. Sigh! Sobriquet 2 response(s), 0 votes
aFeistyRedhed4u 73 F 1  question	Winks - 2/7/2004 What purpose are Winks supposed to serve. I am a regular member (not paid) and I get winks from other regular members - why - for what purpose..I mean I can't answer them back -- I can't see their profiles --- I can wink back sure --- but then what happens -- they can't write back to me so it goes nowhere. And the one that stymies me the most is that I get winks from gold members to..who ... 6 response(s), 3 votes
Peiqi 62 F 1  question	I want to know new friends - 2/7/2004 Hello , I got new message from center . Thank you very much ! I want to know new friends , hope to help me . <br> Member peiqi 0 response(s), 0 votes
Shartaun03 81 F 34  questions	What do you think of autoreply on SFF? - 2/1/2004 I have sent the odd note to members who have autoreply on their profile. In some cases I never did get a real response. Do you think this is beneficial when contacting someone? Personally I think it is taking the easy road out as yes you get a reply but never did get a personal note and they are letting the computer do the replying for them. I am just curious as to what other members think ... 0 response(s), 0 votes
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	How about a Canada room? - 1/29/2004 It is gloomy to come in and wade trough Australians, Scots, Texans. How about a little Canadian room? The Gazebo is nearly always empty? People who want us could persue us. Canuck room: a good idea.Sobriquet 5 response(s), 0 votes
pappy400083 61 M 1  question	Is mutual masturbation or independent masturbation together adultery? - 1/29/2004 Is it adulturous to want to masturbate with an older female companion and do no other touching considered adulturous? Here's my analogy, young men have long done this and yet they are not considered engaged in a mutal activity of being depraved. So, can a married man and possibly a married woman engage in this same activity and pass beyond the bounds of indecent behavior? 5 response(s), 3 votes
chichette013 63 F 2  questions	should i follow my heart??? - 1/20/2004 i have beenn writing and talking on phone to a guy i met on sff more than a year ago, he lives in vegas, and no dbout he does love me and was willing to give up his home, friends and job, to come and live with me. i was all for it, because i do love him, but when i informed my of our decision, they were against it. and said they won't bring the to my house if i do this. so when i told him ... 6 response(s), 5 votes
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	Body types and perjorative remarks: bad? - 1/19/2004 I weigh too much. I did not puff up after the holidays like many people who gain six pounds and it shows. No, they get rid of the puffiness but I remain stocky but porportioned. Not fine-boned. I have a roaring hunger. I did have ulcers at one point, maybe it is part of that and I must gnaw celery, apples. Used to eat rice cakes until they added weight, used to drink diet soda until it ... 4 response(s), 0 votes
Mich 69 F 3  questions	What do most men like ? - 1/12/2004 This will be an informal survey about women and the length of their hair. Men : are you attracted physically to women who have long and well groomed hair ? or do you prefer short butchy hairdo ? Women : if you have long hair, do you notice more positive reaction from men ? <br> I am writing from experience as I have very long and straight blond hair. I KNOW that most men ... 5 response(s), 0 votes
bolero2 84 M 1  question	Why are there so many, "Unknown" answers. hiding the truth? - 1/11/2004 There are two kinds of lies: overt and covert. Overt is a down and out lie, while covert is just not telling the truth. Like: weight? Unknown Height Unknown Live alone Unknown Unknown <br> Now you know that these people know the answers to this questions. So I have to question, why do they not want to tell me? Hiding something? Will they do ... 6 response(s), 0 votes
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	Putting Out - 1/11/2004 A few decades back, women were considered and labelled "tarts, sluts" etc if they became intimate too soon. Those were the days when girls were expected to hold out until marriage. To be caught doing otherwise stained or contaminated the reputation of the woman. Of course, many of you seniors are likely too young to remember such a time but if there are any of you who changed your mind with ... 7 response(s), 0 votes
Shartaun03 81 F 34  questions	Can we be friends first and lovers last? - 1/9/2004 I have always maintained that one should become friends first and then lovers. I am wondering how others view this when getting into a relationship. Do we automatically think romance when we hook up with someone we like...Shartaun03 7 response(s), 4 votes
mytime99 61 M 1  question	WHY NO ANSWERS TO REPLIES? - 1/3/2004 I wonder why people that seem to never have time to answer a reply to their ads, have time to look at your profile.How long does it take to answer with a simple "no" if your really not interested.No is just a simple two letter word.I don't mean to ruffle your feathers, but if someone takes the time to reply surely you can take the time to reply, isn't this what this site is for?? ... 4 response(s), 3 votes
BritishGentNGuy 38 M 3  questions	Question for "Maturer Ladies who prefer young, but maturer-minded & respectful gentlemen". - 12/30/2003 ***** Responses from 'Maturer Ladies' ONLY please! ***** (I mean no offence to the younger ladies reading this question - this is just my personal preference.) <br> --------------------------------------------- <br> I'll be short, I've always adored the more maturer woman throughout my life - not as a fantasy though, as moreover 'in-the-light-of-my-eyes', they portray ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	What does it do for you to be a featured member? - 12/19/2003 We can redemm points here. I see that it ways we can be featured members for 50 points per day. Sounds like a fire sale. So would somebody like to tell me? Thanks, Sobriquet 0 response(s), 0 votes
RoseofMI44 74 F 15  questions	"Married Men Talking To Women They Don't Know" - 12/17/2003 I have been pondering this question in my mind for some time now. What is it about being married to someone, but still having that need to converse with women they don't know? Is it that the cheating factor seems to be non-existent, or is it that they don't have to face this other person and explain themselves! I have been approached by several married men, and I am just wondering why this ... 2 response(s), 0 votes
Bob116 87 M 1  question	Why don't I get any "bite" on my profile? - 12/9/2003 Number one: No photo(s) <br> Number two: You don't tell about yourself, or fill in the "Personality" , or down at the bottom of your profile "More Topics", "Dating Preferences" etc. <br> "I would like to find someone with similiar interests", only the guy has no clue what your interests are because you don't say. <br> You gotta communicate ladies. Don't ... 2 response(s), 1 vote
RoseofMI44 74 F 15  questions	MEN AND THEIR BEARDS - 12/3/2003 Do men with beards, ever think of the effect those bristles may have on the female tender parts? It has the similar effect, of one not shaving their legs for days, then rubbing them on your tender parts. Think about it!!!!!! 3 response(s), 2 votes
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	practical shoes - 12/2/2003 I am 55 and I don't want to wear fashionable shoes now. Nice ones, yes, but not ones that risk a broken ankle or torn ligament. I love to bathe and keep my hair short and washed each day. But I don't want to spend time on curling it. I have lost the interest to do so. I don't care for make-up any more though it was always used minimally. As a 55 year old man, would you ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
rav4fun 69 M 1  question	Why do people think kindness is weakness? - 11/15/2003 People think being kind or considerate or compassionate is weakness when it is exactly the opposite! Ever notice how people will push their way to get in front of a line? Or grab something that is free if they need it or not? Most agressive people are disguising their insecurity! 1 response(s), 2 votes
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	If something works why improve it? - 11/6/2003 I live in Eastern Canada. I think there have been about six of us ever in the SFF room and there is a 99.9%pure likelihood that we will encounter people in our region for any purpose. Hence, I am disappointed not to be able to view any new people in the lobby without taking out a membership. I don't come in often enough except in summer for a membership to be worthwhile. I did enjoy reading ... 1 response(s), 0 votes
RoseofMI44 74 F 15  questions	The Meaning Of Activity Partner - 10/14/2003 Why in the world would someone consider the possibility, that another party would use this term looking for sexual partners? It is true the term could be used in this context, but somehow I doubt the validity of these claims. Perhaps I am wrong, or perhaps there needs to be a clarification of this term. 0 response(s), 0 votes
larli2 72 F 1  question	Why do men only want "Barbie dolls" - 10/1/2003 I am a successful professional, mid 50's, Big beautiful Woman and wonder why in most of the ads I see men only want slim women, usually a lot yoger than themselves. My size does not define me and I am always well dressed and I am told a fun person to be with. But I never get replies to my ads because no one wants to look past the body size response. This body of mine has done me a great ... 3 response(s), 4 votes
RoseofMI44 74 F 15  questions	Rising From The Ashes - 9/23/2003 How does one get over being humiliated, and degraded by someone they trusted. 0 response(s), 0 votes
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	Why don't we choose one city as an SFF Mecca and go there every three years? - 9/20/2003 We come to chat, know each other as well as people in our neighbourhoods. Why just a regional bash now and then? How about a place where we can meet, take lava baths in warm waters, look at glaciers, I know: Let's go to Iceland in 2006. we can have banquets, entertain each other, set up booths from different participating zones, meet, plan to have the next reunion in 2009 in New Zealand. ... 2 response(s), 0 votes
RoseofMI44 74 F 15  questions	Lookers but no Takers - 9/15/2003 I would like to know what the men of today are afraid of. They sit back on their hands, and expect us women to beg them for their attention. This connection goes in two directions, the last time I checked. I have written to a few men, but noone except one, had the balls to reply. What are a few words going to hurt some of you. Maybe there are women out there who just need a little ... 2 response(s), 0 votes
cookieface 70 F 3  questions	How on earth do long-distance romances grow? - 9/13/2003 I can't seem to see the 'sense' of joining one of these services, as most of the people I 'meet' seem to want to meet face to face IMMEDIATELY! This is not an option for me--nor do I want it to be! WHAT DO OTHERS DO? 0 response(s), 0 votes
RoseofMI44 74 F 15  questions	WHY ARE THERE SO MANY UNDER 50 PEOPLE ON HERE - 9/10/2003 Is it possible that the younger viewers are wandering into the senior site, due to the fact that the membership is cheaper! Or could it be that some of them are looking for a more established (financially)adult partner? What ever the reason, I would be interested to know just how they are getting past the screening. 1 response(s), 0 votes
LadyM 73 F 1  question	Do you think true photos will get responses? - 8/17/2003 Men on another site, had photos far younger than their actual age. I don't see any harm in using a glamourised photo if one wishes, as its the first attraction, and that does count whatever anyone says. I hesitate on responding to those without photos...responding to those with photos are bad enough sometimes...but if you really want to meet someone, and I do...its best to be game and put ... 1 response(s), 5 votes
Sobriquet 70 F 21  questions	IS there someone who has a bit of space and who would instruct others to dance? - 8/16/2003 I would like to try dancing. I don't know how. It was a religious taboo growing up. So I can't just go to the dance and risk to get there, hard to move like a sofa. So who would teach? What kind of places do dances that are safe for people with osetoporosis? 0 response(s), 0 votes