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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Now that the holidays are here   11/9/2004

The best gift for the holidays is time you give to help your fellow citizens of Earth. Whether it be wrapping present to be given to in the hospital, volunteering at a used coat center for distri


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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free samples at the buffet of life   8/19/2004

It seems to me that on reading certain articles, men are using the first date as an attempt to get "free samples" at the buffet of life. Just because a woman consents to meet for coffee or dinner,


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Bra Shopping   7/27/2004

A woman who is having her first date with a man she met on SFF decides she would like to buy some dainty lingerie. She goes into Victoria's Secret and is a bit perplexed since it's been quite awhi


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Body Image   7/27/2004

Unrealistic expectations, lack of communication and being slaves to stereotypes are some of the reasons for broken relationships that we all have experienced. Real intimacy is built on acceptance,


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Second date response   7/25/2004

Lyn, we are in the 21st century. If you enjoyed the company, and feel he is a gentleman, take the leap of faith and write an email. It is considered romantic and courteous also to let someone kno


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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In Praise of Older Men   7/19/2004

Today someone called me long distance and sang "You make me feel so young" into my voice mail. How many younger men would ever think of such a sweet, romantic gesture? Older women have special ne


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Reply to "rude response"   6/27/2004

Following SFF advise to write the article first using a text editor and its spellcheck would help everyone to avoid spelling errors.


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Better safe than sorry   6/13/2004

Putting your best foot forward on a first date is usually done. However, in the case of SFF members, perhaps it is safer to walk as if your feet are walking on egg shells. Taking it slow, steady


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Truth and honesty   6/12/2004

Thanks for your article. Honesty can be a double-edged sword. Perhaps it just means openness about our feelings for the other person. However, does it have to mean that the partner will be comfo


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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dear "losing your husband after a disability"   6/12/2004

Infidelity is the sign that we first see. Before that comes a long chain of miscommunication, distrust, lost passion, and a myriad of other danger signals. Unfortunately, so many women are surpri


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Peace my friend   6/8/2004

Some believe it is humane to be brutally honest at all times. In order to be courteous and not wound someone's ego, I have made excuses as to why I would not want to continue seeing a person. Unf


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Forget the coffee shops indeed!!!   5/20/2004

Most of the old English mystery shows portrayed the villian in some dark, foggy park....lurking in search of his next unsuspecting lady. Common sense tells us that a well- it, populated shop would


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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response to "Odyssey forever"   5/20/2004

Those men who are window shopping here won't show you the courtesty to reply. Perhaps we are scrapping the bottom of the barrel here from a cultural point of view. If we cannot be kind and courte


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Meeting in a motel   5/18/2004

I'm not a statistician, but the numbers here seem to indicate that there is an overwhelming number of married/separated men that are just looking to get "free samples" Some believe that the price o


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Unfulfilled men looking to shatter someone else's life   5/4/2004

Married men looking for a fling here are like getting into a car without an engine. From the outside, he looks like a man. He might even look shiny and hot He's a husband and his wife thinks it's


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Why buy the beef when you can get the milk for free?   4/28/2004

Sincere as we may be ladies, it seems that some men are just out for "free samples". If a man's conversation revolves around intimate subjects and he doesn't seem to want to know about you as a


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Response to "Matronly doesn't cut it" .........this isn't Victoria's Secret   4/9/2004

Do you see pictures here of men showing a little leg, waist or cleavage? Do men here look like Chippendale models? No on both counts. Women who post a photo showing self-esteem, good taste and r


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Adultery Central   4/6/2004

Statistically, there are more married/separated men in here than single/available men. The word must be out....looking for a fling, dial SFF. It's a shame SFF doesn't use software to distinguish


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Pleeeeezzzzzz   4/1/2004

75% of the men on my cupid's match list are MARRIED. The word must have gotten out that this is the place to go for women looking to be a partner in adultery. To add insult to injury, they can't


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Why are there so few unattached men on SFF?   3/28/2004

After reading through dozens of matches of Cupid's SFF, I have thought that my request not to be paired with MARRIED MEN is being ignored. Perhaps there are not enough single men on the site to gi


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Nice guy........be patient   3/27/2004

Women do appreciate a nice guy. When we get tired of the empty, negative and frustrating men who just don't know how to be emotionally available, romantic they will seek men like you out. Giving


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Common courtesy and respect please   3/25/2004

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you ! I believe that sounds familiar to most readers. However, it seems that it isn't being practiced here on SFF. If someone sends you an email, pe


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Older women and younger men   3/23/2004

Women mature sexually before men. Ironically, they reach their sexual peak later in life. Biologically, after menopause, many women enter a period of healthy, passionate lovemaking. No more unpl


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Definition of "FUN"   3/23/2004

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. So is fun. Fun is a nice conversation over a café latte. Fun is a pleasant walk and honest conversation on an early Spring day. Fun is a ride on a roller c


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Who am I? Who are you?   3/22/2004

His profile look so enticing His stats are so exciting But is this just a fleeting interest that I am fighting? <br> My profile was done so honestly Was his done so perfectly. I


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Love conquers all   3/22/2004

The darkness spreads overhead No, not the sky, but the dead Dead who today will not be fed From the souls of their beloved <br> The light begins to shine. The begin to chime hap


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Alice in Wonderland   3/20/2004

Why do some men seem like the rabbit in "Alice in Wonderland"? They are in such a hurry to meet, that they never inquire as to distance of travel, or even to get to know you before offering to mee


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Be the tortoise, not the hare   3/20/2004

Experienced uses of chat and internet dating have learned, albeit with some mishaps, the importance of being patient, and not rushing into something. Giving out your personal email, phone number,


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Expectations   3/20/2004

As the song said "I can't get no satisfaction"if I have expectations. In the impersonal venue of SFF, having an open mind and going with the flow will allow me not to have an agenda or a time fram


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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The is out of the gate   3/20/2004

You see his muscles gleaming in the sunshine You see the vapor seething You see his eyes shining in the sunshine You see the fear gleaming <br> Then off.....he explodes through the


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bklynblueeyes19 73 F
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Let's meet   3/18/2004

That pitter patter of the heart on first talking to someone who seems interesting. The first conversation is so easy. That second phone call and you are hearing some disturbing things. Then the


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