I used to worry whether my glass was half full or half empty ~~ I was missing the big picture ~~ the thing is that glasses are refillable ~~ and I have a glass ~~ not everyone does ~~ so I have learned to appreciate my glass ~~ and share with those who don’t have one ~~ and be grateful for the many things I once took for granted.
Let me save time ...I am not hoping for a wife, life partner, significant other or equivalent, although I am not opposed either ... I am looking for more friends who are roughly my age, and who generally share my attitudes and interests.
Full disclosure, I AM BASICALLY BROKE ... my income and savings are just enough to meet my needs ... I do not have much spendable money ... my bank account is lean and always will be. I’m just a simple guy who pays his bills on time.I live in a low income apartment with a cat, a few plants and a lot of books.
Another thing, a bunch of doctors and the DMV relieved me of my drivers licensea few years ago, so my idea of close by is measured in blocks, not miles. So many of my matches are out of my reach, but I have hopes some of you will regard me as within yours.
But life is GOOD. Very, very good. I’ve had stuff, lots of good stuff, now I don’t and I’m the happiest, most serene I’ve ever been, who knew?
My Ideal Person
I’ve missed many opportunities because of my death grip on preconceived notions of what is good and what is bad. So I prefer now to greet everyone on their terms, I do my best to be a kind and considerate person and hope for the magic to happen, which it sometimes does. By magic I mean connection, give and take, communion, attraction ... all of which can happen outside of romance.
This place is called FRIEND FINDER, right? I’m here to make friends and welcome romance if it should appear. But if not, I’ve learned to be content with life as it is. If you’re an odd duck like I am I hope we get a chance to meet for a swim.
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