Blog : Am I asking too much or just Deluded?

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12/15/2019 8:50 pm

Am I asking too much or just Deluded?

I originally came SFF have with the Real world, Real people. And some degree I have done that. I have made several Friends, though I have as yet meet any of them,, but,,, none the less... And therein lies the problem,,,
I want to SEE someone,, , eye to eye. Have actual physical contact , meaning shaking hands, giving and receiving a Friendly hug.
one of those people that DOES read profiles ,and I have found that,,, well I guess just S.O.L., mainly because a cigarette smoker, and No,, I have no plans of quitting anytime soon.
I have witnessed first hand the issues associated with smoking. I've seen family member who smoked for years then quit and in some cases, in less than 5 years have either died or ended up on oxygen 24/7 but by the same token, I have seen folks who continued to smoke and lived to be in their 80's and 90's with little or no complications, so from my perspective, seems it has more to do with your body chemistry and the way certain things effect each individual.
I am a polite smoker, meaning that if in YOUR home or YOUR vehicle, I won't smoke. I'll either wait until we've stopped somewhere or I'll go outside. I have been able to go 2 or 3 hours without a smoke. I also sometimes use one of the disposable e-cigs that' s pre-loaded and can not have anything added it like vape's. I do have a vape e-cig, but I seldom use it.
Granted,, distance is a factor with me at the moment. Due to my living situation, not able long distances but I would like to meet someone local say within a 75 mile radius, simply for coffee or if she's agreeable, perhaps dinner or a movie. Not a lot of places go dancing but with enough planning, sure I could find a place.
I reiterate the fact that, I AM a Gentleman. When I ask a Lady for an evening , I do so with no ulterior motives, no expectations or obligations, just two people enjoying an evening on the town with pleasant conversation and maybe a laugh or two.
not a "pushy" person. I try be respectful of "boundaries" and not ask questions that might make someone uncomfortable. If you want me to know something,, You'll tell me and that's all I ask in return,, mutual RESPECT.
I don't know... Perhaps I an asking too much....
Anyway,, that's my thoughts on the matter.